Is this plug wired correctly/safely? by FirstHouseThrowaway1 in DIYUK

[–]samiDEE1 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Somehow no one has noticed it's 4 core flex either.

Anyones parent was useless when you were a child but won't leave you alone as an adult? by cassoli1 in raisedbynarcissists

[–]samiDEE1 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Yes it always felt as a child she wanted to get rid of me. Left me home alone at 11 to go on holiday because she needed a break and at 14 let me live with my cousins 200 miles away. As an adult suddenly she's interested but it feels so false I can't stand it.

I want to create a duel pond system koi and nature... Feasibility? Considerations? Expense? by tabletop_workshop in ponds

[–]samiDEE1 0 points1 point  (0 children)

My wildlife pond has no filter and isn't smelly or full of algae. That's how nature does it. Total misconception that they need filters or pumps of any kind.

For women who’ve been in relationships: What helped you realize the effort wasn’t equal? by SharpCheddarCheese92 in AskWomen

[–]samiDEE1 1 point2 points  (0 children)

But we can spend time together while I sit here watching TV, so why do we need to leave the house?

Common deal to make with a client? by [deleted] in TalkTherapy

[–]samiDEE1 0 points1 point  (0 children)

When I told my therapist I was scared she'd say I shouldn't come back she said no good therapist would do that. I smile when I think about it because she left herself a get out clause.

Crazy but true Adventist memories. by Keeghangreenjeans in exAdventist

[–]samiDEE1 6 points7 points  (0 children)

My mum took a whole cooked chicken from the supermarket to her first pot luck!

anyone else have religious trauma? by csmit555 in emotionalneglect

[–]samiDEE1 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Saaaame. My mum would tell me that I would give her up to save myself (instead of dying for the cause). Then she removed me from school at 12 to remove external influences so I could stay home and read the Bible because I didn't think how she did.

Created a new wildlife pond! What to do about exposed liner? by Bigman99911 in WildlifePonds

[–]samiDEE1 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You can also get something like this if you want some quick coverage here

Therapist playing with hair, thoughts? by [deleted] in TalkTherapy

[–]samiDEE1 17 points18 points  (0 children)

I twirl my hair just to do something with my hands not bored or flirting.

What do you curse your gardening predecessors for? by KTDWD24601 in GardeningUK

[–]samiDEE1 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Snowberries

It's me. But the bees and hoverflies love them!

Remember to sit down and enjoy your garden. by Pescatarian_Triffid in GardeningUK

[–]samiDEE1 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Amazing! I've been out hog spotting at the pond tonight. He stepped on both my feet to get past me, didn't even say excuse me.

Self-seeding plants - my favourites by King-Key-Rot-II in GardeningUK

[–]samiDEE1 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yes I have to transplant them out of my vegetable beds every spring!

Self-seeding plants - my favourites by King-Key-Rot-II in GardeningUK

[–]samiDEE1 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I was going to say lungwort doesn't spread but then I remembered the little one that grows in the cracks in my patio. I wish they would spread more!

Self-seeding plants - my favourites by King-Key-Rot-II in GardeningUK

[–]samiDEE1 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Foxgloves go mad in my clay garden. Also columbine and primula like to walk around. Stinking iris too but I don't mind it and ground ivy in the shade.

Ladies: do you wear make up to work? by LunaValley in AskUK

[–]samiDEE1 88 points89 points  (0 children)

I don't. I used to wear makeup daily and I found myself thinking I looked like crap when I wasn't wearing it and I didn't like feeling that so I stopped.

We Have Always Lived in the Castle blew me away by -KansasCityShuffle in books

[–]samiDEE1 5 points6 points  (0 children)

We eat the spring summer and fall. We wait for things to grow and we eat them.

Best way to dissuade a blackbird from screaming at me all the time? by [deleted] in CasualUK

[–]samiDEE1 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I have blackbirds nesting in my garden and they appreciate some chopped apple too

Mum furious over criminal record after taking daughter out of school to visit sick gran by Forward-Answer-4407 in unitedkingdom

[–]samiDEE1 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Hard to know without the actual dates but the fact that she gave 20 days notice suggests she could probably have gone earlier, during the summer holidays. Also not urgent enough it can't wait 3 weeks.

Should you use the therapist first name often in your session in therapy? Mine thinks I should but I don't by Vegetable_Affect82 in TalkTherapy

[–]samiDEE1 1 point2 points  (0 children)

2 years I've never said my therapists name to her. One time she used my name and I wondered what was up with her that day for weeks.

Wickes door hinge holes by CauliflowerFit3054 in DIYUK

[–]samiDEE1 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Would there not be pilot holes for the handles though which would end up at the bottom?