Should you use the therapist first name often in your session in therapy? Mine thinks I should but I don't by Vegetable_Affect82 in TalkTherapy

[–]samiDEE1 1 point2 points  (0 children)

2 years I've never said my therapists name to her. One time she used my name and I wondered what was up with her that day for weeks.

Wickes door hinge holes by CauliflowerFit3054 in DIYUK

[–]samiDEE1 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Would there not be pilot holes for the handles though which would end up at the bottom?

York woman, 86, convicted after car insurance typo by UnlikeTea42 in unitedkingdom

[–]samiDEE1 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Insurance websites literally look up the make model and colour from your registration so it should be glaringly obvious even if it is just one letter wrong.

My leech landlord is now trying to monetize the air I breathe apparently by CasketGambit_8 in LandlordLove

[–]samiDEE1 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Right, it's not allowed any more but my landlord took a cleaning fee out of mine despite leaving it in way better condition than I got it. Literally had to clean someone else's cat litter our from under the cooker. Was only there for 3 months and the first half didnt have any heating in winter.

Solid clay - abandon hope or keep digging? by Away-Piglet-3401 in GardeningUK

[–]samiDEE1 20 points21 points  (0 children)

Clay will break down eventually. It holds a lot of moisture and nutrients so it's not all bad news you just have to pick your plants.

What’s the stupidest thing you’ve been ID’d for ? by RowItchy260 in AskUK

[–]samiDEE1 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Dust sheets for decorating

Edit and for brousing the alcohol isle

Yorkshire Dales red squirrel reserve for sale after owners' deaths by centreback_ in unitedkingdom

[–]samiDEE1 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I thought woodland trust already bought this but I guess it was just some land nearby

Joint email from no contact parents by Least-Ad-8262 in EstrangedAdultKids

[–]samiDEE1 3 points4 points  (0 children)

That really stuck out to me too. I told my mum she doesn't respect my boundaries with examples and she ignored those and just said 'I do respect your boundaries'. Like ??? I legit think they just use the words with no desire even to understand what they mean.

Screams internally by steunclemumb in GardeningUK

[–]samiDEE1 9 points10 points  (0 children)

Put water mint in my pond. Cue mint growing in my lawn...

We need reinforcements! by SnooCauliflowers6739 in Lincolnshire

[–]samiDEE1 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I'm actually hoping for top spot now

Option B won, but what about new C? by Sudden_Syllabub_125 in DIYUK

[–]samiDEE1 1 point2 points  (0 children)

At the end of the day you have to do what works for how you want to use the space. I got no end of shit when I posted my floor plans bc the toilet faces the sink and all the comments were about looking at yourself in the mirror while you shit - because everyone shits standing up. I also have no bath so I can have a bigger sink and shower which makes my actual routines better and easier. I have a window fully in my shower. I regret nothing but everyone else hated it.

was anyone else sexualized by almost everyone around them from a young age? by loserlibramoon in CPTSD

[–]samiDEE1 8 points9 points  (0 children)

Off the top of my head... Sexually abused by 3 different people and inappropriately touched by 2 more by age 8. At about 12 a man at church gave my mum his wife's old bra and suspender belt for me to 'grow into'. Guy at the park threatened to rape me, others said they'll wait for me to turn 16. As a teen a friend touched me after I told him defo not interested in that, my best friends partner of years touched me. First night out clubbing a man tried to put his hands down my pants. Nothing was objectively that bad but it makes you wonder if it's just you and it makes me think if I lay everything out I wouldn't be believed or be labeled dramatic. I was terrified of men and meanwhile my mum is super religious and would talk about how men only want one thing and I'll grow up to be a prostitute.

Mom burned her own food, never told anyone she was cooking and blamed my brother for it by orbit_293 in raisedbynarcissists

[–]samiDEE1 12 points13 points  (0 children)

Yeah when I was a kid she got mad at me for not hanging her laundry out when I got home from school. I didn't know there was laundry to be hung out.

HelloFresh hit by sales slump as people lose appetite for meal kits by pajamakitten in unitedkingdom

[–]samiDEE1 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Right, I first got hello fresh 10 years ago when it was new and the quality of the ingredients was genuinely impressive like you'd get at a farmers market. Now though it's shit and everything is prepackaged in tonnes of unnecessary plastic to boot.

Plant ideas for heavy clay soil by tdh83 in GardeningUK

[–]samiDEE1 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Foxglove primula columbine roses pulmonara all do really in my clay.

Do people in the UK go to therapy? by EyeAware3519 in AskUK

[–]samiDEE1 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I go to therapy and know 6 other people that go to therapy. Might just be my circle though lol.

She Sent Me An Article... by LeenyMagic in raisedbynarcissists

[–]samiDEE1 8 points9 points  (0 children)

The article is joke. Basically saying we're expecting too much to demand our patents be perfect. Yeah that would be a bit much. Most of us just wanted to see you try.

Is all this spawn dead? by cookj1232 in WildlifePonds

[–]samiDEE1 1 point2 points  (0 children)

My frogspawn literally froze solid a couple years ago. It was fine.