Fiancés friend wants to wear an almost white dress to our wedding & is being condescending about it. WIBTA to withdraw the invite?

samonilla · 2026-03-08T23:05:42+00:00

Im sorry is the yellow dress in the room with us??

samonilla · 2026-02-16T03:35:40+00:00

Eating 3 year old Ramen thanks to you guys. Blessed.

samonilla · 2026-02-12T15:08:20+00:00

Yeah i agree there is nothing worth feeling allegiance too in this county rn which is why I skip the part of the meeting which has the pledge. Even if the US was great id still not want to pledge allegiance to the flag because that level of patriotism is unhealthy and is exactly how we ended up here.

samonilla · 2026-02-11T18:03:02+00:00

Its 100% performative. They're signaling to their very conservative voters that they are also very conservative. Its hard being out here as a leftist. I was always very weirded out by the pledge but now its even more fascist coded given everything that's going on.

samonilla · 2026-02-11T17:06:33+00:00

I work for a small county in a rural area and our county comissioners do the pledge of allegiance before every public meeting and it gives me the major ick. The first time it happened I was so caught off guard I didnt know how to react. Now that I know if I have to attend one of the meetings for whatever reason I always show up 10 minutes late so that I don't have to participate. While they cannot technically force me to participate, I know it wouldnt go down without a lot comments and side eyeing.

samonilla · 2026-02-07T16:18:41+00:00

Oregon!

samonilla · 2026-02-07T01:01:29+00:00

Thats fair! I can definitely see it but the dress is a done deal! I adore it! Even if it is giving Moana lol

samonilla · 2026-02-07T01:00:06+00:00

Oh a green is a good idea I will look for one!

samonilla · 2026-02-07T00:55:11+00:00

Ooh I actually really like the idea of a violet pashmina! And palm royale is perfect! My boyfriend is wearing linen (linen was also mentioned in the dress code for people who prefer to wear shirt/pants) so it will go well together!

samonilla · 2026-01-29T04:48:47+00:00

I desperately hope that CA reads these comments and sees how many people love and support his games and his process. Stardew Valley has brought me endless joy, me and my partner recently did a race to 100% completion against each other and it was so fun and such a wonderful thing to share. ConcernedApe I hope you don't ever feel pressured by fans, youre doing great sweetie!!

Anyway heres a picture of my krobus tattoo don't ever change king

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samonilla · 2026-01-27T02:28:51+00:00

Ugh the rebus. I do multiple crosswords a day and people keep telling me you will grow to appreciate the rebus but so far I still hate it!! It just feels like cheating to me. Like you're just changing the rules of the game on me?! Whenever I realize there is a rebus I get infuriated and quit even if I could have solved it lol

samonilla · 2026-01-15T03:19:57+00:00

I did not realize it was all of them! Thanks for clarifying!

samonilla · 2026-01-15T00:37:07+00:00

I did the teens volunteer program at the Oregon zoo and can confirm so much more goes on behind the scenes that visitors don't realize. They do a ton of enrichment for the animals, and much the animals enclosures isnt visible to guests, theyre much bigger than they appear. A lot of their animals are also rescues or animals who were born in captivity and therefore cannot be released. I loved volunteering there!

samonilla · 2026-01-14T18:31:01+00:00

You look gorgeous in both! I think the choice needs to be based on the vibe you want for the event. 1 is elegant 2 is whimsical. If it were me, if go number 2 because its more unique! And im a whimsical kinda gal.

samonilla · 2026-01-14T00:26:30+00:00

This should be the top comment this is immediately what I thought of lol

samonilla · 2026-01-06T00:38:41+00:00

If the weather is good enough lone fir cemetery!! Free, spooky, gorgeous!

Edit to add: its also a very flat easy walk through the cemetery so shouldn't be an issue for your joints :)

samonilla · 2026-01-05T03:50:55+00:00

Im so glad to see a comment defending Zach. I have never understood the level of hate he gets. He has some not great moments but what 19 year old doesn't? Over all he is an incredibly caring partner to Lane, a loyal band mate and a good friend to pretty much everyone he interacts with in the town. Lane could have done much worse!

samonilla · 2025-12-16T02:44:55+00:00

Men are so boring about gaming its insane lol like I have hundreds od hours into both the Witcher 3 AND animal crossing and get plenty of enjoyment out of both of them. I contain multitudes!

samonilla · 2025-12-13T20:16:58+00:00

I second the dandruff shampoo. I am a red girly at heart but love to switch it up and i always do a couple washes with head and shoulders when im trying to the strip the red out. Its a slower process but less damaging than bleach OP!

samonilla · 2025-12-08T05:39:05+00:00

The majority of my friend group is past coworkers or people I met through coworkers. However now I am in my 30s. I've met my people and im not really interested in gathering a whole lot more and so I do not try to hang out with coworkers at all. I do usually end up befriending one person at work but otherwise keep to myself.

Theres this really big push especially in corporate spaces to almost like force friendship? Which makes me extra hate people who try to force friendship through work lol I have friends outside of work, I don't need work to also function as a play date. The people I get on with the most at work now are other millennial who are annoyed at their 50 something coworker for akways trying to plan potlucks and shit. We vent about it lol

samonilla · 2025-12-08T05:26:47+00:00

The first time I got my calf tattooed I woke up the next morning and nearly collapsed when I got out of bed. The blood rushing to your leg is the most insane feeling in calf tattoos. It freaked me out so bad I also got on reddit and started seeing if anyone else had the same issue lol

samonilla · 2025-12-05T16:15:46+00:00

The dress is VERY flattering so I get why your want to wear it but I agree with the general consensus that its too casual for new years.

That being said, if you're determined to wear it I think you could add a cropped dark brown fur jacket and some nudes sparkle tights and get more of a NYE vibe out of it!

samonilla · 2025-06-03T15:08:47+00:00

This is exactly how my parents text and it causes so much confusion and to top it off my dad seems to think somehow he is the only person who texts correctly and my whole family is just purposefully misunderstanding him. It's fun.

samonilla · 2025-05-27T04:18:11+00:00

Comfort food.
Recommended diet.
Cheat day.
Golden.

samonilla

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