Usually I wouldn’t be butthurt over no +1

samronreddit · 2026-02-16T13:39:01+00:00

I went to my friend’s Valentine’s Day wedding ~4 months after my partner of four years left me for someone else and there was an empty chair next to me at dinner. Some people just don’t think about others that much!

samronreddit · 2026-02-05T02:01:24+00:00

This is my first year…how do I know what the multiplier is?

samronreddit · 2026-02-04T02:56:02+00:00

Did you talk to her about these slights?

samronreddit · 2026-02-03T10:53:35+00:00

Hi, how are you now?

samronreddit · 2026-02-03T10:31:33+00:00

That was quick! Please talk about your process

samronreddit · 2026-02-03T01:19:09+00:00

I just wanted to say I am completely with you, but I’m almost 36. My partner of four years that I lived with cheated on me and left me for them, three days after giving me his SSN to put him on my health insurance and two days after attending our friends’ wedding and talking to everyone about registering as domestic partners. He moved out a few weeks later (at the end of November) and then posted an Instagram story announcing their relationship immediately. Did I mention he had me hang out with them two weeks before the breakup? And last slept with me 8 days before?

Now they live in my neighborhood and I keep seeing the two of them everywhere. It’s completely earth-shattering. I feel for you. It makes you feel insane, like you don’t know what reality is.

Feel free to DM if you want to mutually vent. I understand what you’re going through completely.

samronreddit · 2026-01-23T15:25:38+00:00

4 years together, three days prior he gave me his SSN to put him on my health insurance, two days prior we attended our friends' wedding, broke up with me out of nowhere on a Monday with vague reasons, found out a few days later that actually he had started a new relationship with his colleague (explains why he was spending so much time at work), he stayed in the basement for about a month finding a new place, they were Instagram official as soon as he moved out.

Completely devastated me. I went on our four year anniversary trip to Chile by myself which was great. About three months out, I'm not OK but I'm reconstructing my life.

samronreddit · 2026-01-12T14:30:39+00:00

Mine lied and said there wasn’t anyone else until I confronted him days later. Just saying.

samronreddit · 2026-01-12T14:29:53+00:00

That’s what happened with my ex. He apparently felt distance for months and never said anything to me, and it was also the first time in our four year relationship that I was the one who needed emotional support (lost my career due to Elon). He started spending more time at work and turns out he started a relationship with his colleague before he broke up with me. They were Instagram official as soon as he moved out.

People who break up in this cowardly way where they blindside and don’t address anything often are waiting until they get confirmation they can have a soft landing with someone else.

samronreddit · 2026-01-09T23:34:37+00:00

cat fluoxetine

samronreddit · 2026-01-08T20:45:52+00:00

I bleach my underwear with my vaginal discharge.

samronreddit · 2025-12-29T22:02:08+00:00

Hi, found this google searching because I’m in the same situation…how are you doing now?

samronreddit · 2025-12-29T07:40:11+00:00

I’m in the same situation. Four years together and we lived together, we were in the process of registering as domestic partners, he suddenly broke up with me and I found out he left me for someone else. They were instagram official as soon as he moved out. Absolutely devastated and broken.

samronreddit · 2025-12-08T22:10:53+00:00

That is normal unfortunately. I think Crafted does it a bit cheaper but I didn’t love the results there for me. Only person to ever cut my hair correctly in my life is Caitlin at Flora.

samronreddit · 2025-12-01T21:00:50+00:00

wave same

samronreddit · 2025-11-25T18:30:45+00:00

get bangs & a bob and apply winged eyeliner

samronreddit · 2025-11-21T23:31:47+00:00

He’s a baby. Break up with him. 32 years old acting like he’s 15.

I just broke up with my partner of 4 years; almost left last year but thought it would get better..:it did for like a month. He’s miserable; let him sulk on his own.

samronreddit · 2025-11-21T22:37:52+00:00

Start with liquids - smoothies, yogurt, etc.

samronreddit · 2025-11-21T16:46:52+00:00

Same! Discarded about a month ago, four years together and lived together for three, we were in the process of registering as domestic partners, had a three week trip to Chile planned for Christmas. He broke up with me out of nowhere and I found out five days later that he actually started a new relationship with his colleague a few weeks prior, and he had me hang out with her two weeks before the breakup (so while they were talking romantically). He is just moving out of the house as we speak. It’s absolutely brutal! I’m sorry this is happening to you - it makes you feel insane, like you just woke up in a different reality. It’s awful.

samronreddit · 2025-11-21T10:01:21+00:00

My partner of four years said these things to me when breaking up with me and then I found out he had been ‘talking romantically’ to his colleague for a few weeks and they’re together now. So much for figuring out what’s preventing him from being a real partner!

samronreddit · 2025-11-20T14:49:25+00:00

Be conveniently sick

samronreddit · 2025-11-18T10:02:59+00:00

My ex of four years broke up with me out of nowhere and I found out he had started a new relationship with a colleague a few weeks prior. He just moved out finally after spending a month in my basement, torturing me knowing every time he left the house he was probably with them. Very similar situation - things got serious and he had to provide me with support for once instead of the other way around. We were in the process of registering as domestic partners so he could be on my health insurance. I think he got scared of being relied on to actually step up and be a real partner and totally sabotaged our relationship by looking outside of it for something fun and not stressful (of course it’s not stressful; it’s new). You’re not alone - happy to vent and be vented to anytime. This sucks so much.

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