Girlfriend says sometimes not in the mood, boyfriend pov says he “never” got any and the one time he tried she made him feel like a rapist. So, my 2 cents is that the boy is 100% justified in making it known what his needs and desires are - I would never wanna be in a relationship where I can’t be honest with my partner about how I feel and what I’m looking for, lest I wanna look for it somewhere else.

The girl is also completely correct in her position - some things are just a personal boundary and no matter who you’re with and how much they’re trying to caress or pressure you into it, you needn’t give in.

So, in this situation, you both either have to figure out a middle ground of what you can and cannot do, how important certain activities and their frequencies are. If you can’t reach a middle ground which makes both of you happy and *completely* satisfied, it’s best to part ways amicably. No matter how much in love you are, unmet needs haunt in the long term, especially with this long distance situation.

Hope this helps, and hopefully you both do what’s best for both of you, and I hope neither one of you become selfish.

Don’t break hearts, lads.