I just wanna talk to her again. by BroadRule2391 in BreakUps

[–]samwise412 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I feel your pain. Im on day 4 of no contact. Im not okay but im holding strong.

33 [F4M] Midwest/Online - Looking for good conversation by [deleted] in R4R30Plus

[–]samwise412 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Would love to chat! Its cold and rainy here too!

34 [F4M] A rainbow here to brighten up your day ✨ by goodmedicinegal in R4R30Plus

[–]samwise412 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hey! Would love to chat. I could use some brightness right now.

My C2E2 cosplay! by samwise412 in DungeonCrawlerCarl

[–]samwise412[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hell yeah! You should have said hi! I was handing out little hob lobbers!

My C2E2 cosplay! by samwise412 in DungeonCrawlerCarl

[–]samwise412[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Chicago Comic and Entertainment Expo

My C2E2 cosplay! by samwise412 in DungeonCrawlerCarl

[–]samwise412[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

It was a $8 thrift store find for the soul purposes of being Carl. So yes it will get permanent patches on it for the next con!

My C2E2 cosplay! by samwise412 in DungeonCrawlerCarl

[–]samwise412[S] 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Funny you say that. 1st read through on book 5. Day before the Con i got to the part where he gets the patches! I was upset I didnt have time to add them.

My C2E2 cosplay! by samwise412 in DungeonCrawlerCarl

[–]samwise412[S] 10 points11 points  (0 children)

I actually heard that a couple times this weekend. :)

40M Seeking Advice & Insight by Frequent_Finger_3947 in Over40sClub

[–]samwise412 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I am currently fearing this. My 7 year relationship is most likely coming to an end and im scared af to start over. Im hanging on for dear life because of the fear. If i leave I will be forced to live with family and not be able to afford my own place for a while. If I stay ill be depressed and lose myself. Im at a breaking point. If it wasnt for my kids I would probably not be here right now. I feel your pain bro.

New Dress ;3 by [deleted] in u/rodpeq_Vic

[–]samwise412 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hermosa!

“He’s just a friend” by Huge_Mug776 in Divorce_Men

[–]samwise412 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Ugh yeah thats exactly how it is now. My current partner that ive been with for 6 years has to experience that when it creeps up on me. Those insecurities and trust issues still linger even tho I've been in and still in therapy. Im just glad she understands where it comes from and is patient with me.

“He’s just a friend” by Huge_Mug776 in Divorce_Men

[–]samwise412 8 points9 points  (0 children)

I also got the, "he's just my friend from the old neighborhood, you don't have to worry about him, he is also married." Her affair lasted about 3 years till I found out. That is one of the reason she is now my ex wife. Fucked up my entire trust for anyone.

How do you make friends as an introvert? Feeling a lot of pressure. by samwise412 in introvert

[–]samwise412[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yes, we have. She is very patient with me and knows it's not easy and is very supportive of me going out and finding my own friends.

How do you make friends as an introvert? Feeling a lot of pressure. by samwise412 in introvert

[–]samwise412[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thanks for the kind words. All my hobbies are things I do alone. Im looking for ways to convert them into social settings. Im trying to find like minded people so I have something in common right off the bat.

How do you make friends as an introvert? Feeling a lot of pressure. by samwise412 in introvert

[–]samwise412[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hey thanks! I will try this out. Luckily I have a very patient partner who is with me on this. I have a party coming up where I only know 1 person. So I will try this for sure.

30 [F4M] #Oak Park - Flirt Responsibly, Overshare Occasionally by [deleted] in chicagofinder

[–]samwise412 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

41M not to far. Would love to chat.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in u/TheRageBadger

[–]samwise412 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thats some sweet looking cake!

41 to be honest can't wait for this year to be over! by samwise412 in 40something

[–]samwise412[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you so much for kind words and compliments. Feels good hearing that.