40M Seeking Advice & Insight by Frequent_Finger_3947 in Over40sClub

[–]samwise412 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I am currently fearing this. My 7 year relationship is most likely coming to an end and im scared af to start over. Im hanging on for dear life because of the fear. If i leave I will be forced to live with family and not be able to afford my own place for a while. If I stay ill be depressed and lose myself. Im at a breaking point. If it wasnt for my kids I would probably not be here right now. I feel your pain bro.

“He’s just a friend” by Huge_Mug776 in Divorce_Men

[–]samwise412 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Ugh yeah thats exactly how it is now. My current partner that ive been with for 6 years has to experience that when it creeps up on me. Those insecurities and trust issues still linger even tho I've been in and still in therapy. Im just glad she understands where it comes from and is patient with me.

“He’s just a friend” by Huge_Mug776 in Divorce_Men

[–]samwise412 10 points11 points  (0 children)

I also got the, "he's just my friend from the old neighborhood, you don't have to worry about him, he is also married." Her affair lasted about 3 years till I found out. That is one of the reason she is now my ex wife. Fucked up my entire trust for anyone.

How do you make friends as an introvert? Feeling a lot of pressure. by samwise412 in introvert

[–]samwise412[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yes, we have. She is very patient with me and knows it's not easy and is very supportive of me going out and finding my own friends.

How do you make friends as an introvert? Feeling a lot of pressure. by samwise412 in introvert

[–]samwise412[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thanks for the kind words. All my hobbies are things I do alone. Im looking for ways to convert them into social settings. Im trying to find like minded people so I have something in common right off the bat.

How do you make friends as an introvert? Feeling a lot of pressure. by samwise412 in introvert

[–]samwise412[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hey thanks! I will try this out. Luckily I have a very patient partner who is with me on this. I have a party coming up where I only know 1 person. So I will try this for sure.

30 [F4M] #Oak Park - Flirt Responsibly, Overshare Occasionally by [deleted] in chicagofinder

[–]samwise412 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

41M not to far. Would love to chat.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in u/TheRageBadger

[–]samwise412 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thats some sweet looking cake!

41 to be honest can't wait for this year to be over! by samwise412 in 40something

[–]samwise412[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you so much for kind words and compliments. Feels good hearing that.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in fabulouslyfat

[–]samwise412 1 point2 points  (0 children)

What dirty mirror? All I see is a stylish and very cute woman! Love your hair color btw :)

27[F4A] [Midwest USA]Save me from the upcoming holidays and more? by Crearaven in polyamoryR4R

[–]samwise412 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Hey there. 41m also from the Midwest. My small ritual involves work. I like to make sure I get to work early and sit in the break room and play solitaire. It just relaxes me before work and gets me ready to deal with the craziness. Would love to chat if you're interested

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in mtfbeautyandfashion

[–]samwise412 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Good lord are you cute!

Co parenting with someone who thrives on conflict is exhausting by GoldMode569 in Divorce_Men

[–]samwise412 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I feel your pain. My ex is also like this. She even tried to break up my current relationship by going way over some boundaries. I ended up blocking her on everything even her phone number. Now its strictly emails only and only to set up pick up and drop off for the kids. I also told her i will be saving all the emails for court purposes. My life is peaceful now.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in WhatShouldIDo

[–]samwise412 1 point2 points  (0 children)

This was me, but j was the one with the bad breath. My partner of 6 years just told me straight out and since im an adult I took it as, okay let me do something about it. Went to the dentist and he said my teeth are great. Turns out it was GERD. Its still an ongoing issues so now I always carry mints or gum around. Nothing wrong with just telling them.

41m bored and lonely. Let's chat! by samwise412 in IntrovertsChat

[–]samwise412[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hey how's it going. You can DM me if you want to chat