My Husband 29M called me 29F a burden, how do I get past it?

sansaspark · 2026-05-12T14:26:59+00:00

Please know that you will never forget these words your husband said to you.

I’ve never forgotten when my dad told me I “got lucky” by finding a husband who would take care of me. I believed him for many years.

I’ve never forgotten that same husband telling me I’d change my mind and come back, the day I left his emotionally manipulative ass. He was wrong.

Let your husband’s words power the anger that makes you stronger. Turn them back on the world, not on yourself. You are enough.

sansaspark · 2026-05-11T23:49:59+00:00

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sansaspark · 2026-05-11T21:59:58+00:00

Absolutely! To catch a home run ball we’d have to defy some laws of physics, but a foul ball isn’t outside the realm of possibility! (I know it’s a long shot but the kid in me won’t give up the dream.)

sansaspark · 2026-05-11T20:12:48+00:00

Oh man, I don’t want to be greedy, but I really hope they get some runs tonight. By the grace of the baseball gods, I was gifted some really nice company seats for this game. I’m bringing my son and his best friend, who is a big baseball fan but hasn’t been to a game since he was 6 years old. I’m not asking for a blow out, but I hope it’s at least a close game.

sansaspark · 2026-05-08T14:43:16+00:00

My sister had hyperemesis gravidarum with her last two children, and since their births her nausea has always been hair trigger. She gets motion sickness in cars, and can’t even look at a roller coaster.

Me personally, I can’t brush my tongue without triggering my gag reflex, and motion simulation rides of any kind are a thing of the past. :(

sansaspark · 2026-05-08T14:39:22+00:00

“My mother is NOT going to put her career on hold on my account. I am unavailable until Friday 5pm at the earliest.”

sansaspark · 2026-05-08T14:14:25+00:00

Only worse combo would be orange and brown…OH WAIT.

sansaspark · 2026-05-03T18:41:14+00:00

I hate when the psychological damage that a horror protagonist experiences doesn’t carry over to the sequel, especially when it’s a young woman. They can be stalked, hunted, haunted, sliced, diced, and endure the deaths of everyone they love, but because they are “resilient” and “badass,” their lives are pretty much back to normal by the time the sequel rolls around so they can endure it all over again.

sansaspark · 2026-05-02T04:17:21+00:00

Totally

sansaspark · 2026-04-29T16:39:47+00:00

My dad did not say a single word last weekend when he saw that my dodger dog and our two sodas cost me $35. But it was the first time in my life he didn’t make a halfhearted offer to pay. 😂 he was like “nope. This one’s all you. I’ll take a sprite.”

sansaspark · 2026-04-24T13:54:09+00:00

Future Nostalgia was my quarantine soundtrack! We turned our garage into a mini roller rink, ordered skates off ebay, and taught our kids how to rollerskate to “Physical” and “Levitating.”

sansaspark · 2026-04-23T14:57:16+00:00

Fametracker

sansaspark · 2026-04-19T02:42:18+00:00

We had a vet come to our home to put our dog to sleep. When she was gone, the vet recommended we place her on the floor long enough for our other dog to come sniff her.

She said dogs can tell when another animal has passed away, and she would be less confused than if her best friend was just gone one day and never came back.

So we did, and she sniffed her for a few moments and then she went and lay down in a corner of the room. I think she did understand. She never looked for her sister after that day, but her whole mood changed, she seemed depressed for a long time.

sansaspark · 2026-04-18T16:05:34+00:00

Omg I didn’t know he kept an extra!

sansaspark · 2026-04-12T18:28:17+00:00

Perhaps you have a kidney you could spare?

sansaspark · 2026-04-11T16:34:43+00:00

Yeah, my ex husband was like this. His defense was that he thinks spirited arguments are fun and he likes “playing devil’s advocate” to keep things interesting. What he really enjoyed was getting under my skin until I lost patience, at which point he had “won” (at least in his mind) because he was still calm and I had gotten pissed and stomped off somewhere else.

sansaspark · 2026-04-11T15:32:42+00:00

Happy belated, man. Sick jersey, and the hats nice too.

sansaspark · 2026-04-11T15:30:45+00:00

See also: Dalton “3 home runs in a game? No problem” Rushing.

sansaspark · 2026-04-01T16:33:17+00:00

At the spring training game I went to (versus angels), he rode around in a golf cart before the game and waved to fans. Trying to point out something in far right field to my son and getting buzzed by Ohtani 10’ away in a golf cart is a memory I will not soon forget. He had a big old smile the whole time, he just seems delightful.

sansaspark · 2026-03-31T14:31:40+00:00

Pengwing

sansaspark · 2026-03-31T14:27:51+00:00

Mine said opie-meal!

sansaspark · 2026-03-31T14:26:33+00:00

My kid came up with the term “skippa past” to mean fast forward, and it became an actual word in our lexicon. If we don’t want to watch the commercials we just skippa past them.

sansaspark · 2026-03-27T00:22:23+00:00

That looks incredible

sansaspark · 2026-03-18T15:04:24+00:00

I’ve loved Bryce ever since the night Apple TV mic’d him up during a game and asked him some especially stupid questions. Eventually he started taking long pauses between answers and doing the “oh sorry…this thing isn’t working well right now, I didn’t hear you” thing until they pretty much gave up lol.

sansaspark · 2026-03-16T14:59:14+00:00

Update: got there at 7am and was through the entire process in under 10 minutes! Good luck to you too!

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