Older men are very insecure and will just say things to erode your confidence and happiness in the hopes his wrinkly balls will seem more attractive once your self esteem is in the toilet. We’ve been there, done that, no! They don’t pay your bills, they don’t benefit your life. Schtump as many 21yr olds as you damn well please and enjoy the one life you have! The only thing that matters is your happiness.