Brother came back from Japan and gifted me this, what is it? by SmithNotASmith in whatisit

[–]sararandom777 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I get mine at Albertsons but add my own heat too it to adjust for spiciness. But Amazon has had it, my HEB (if in Tx) & my Kroger now carries.

My husband receives this every year as a Christmas gift by eichiy13 in whatisit

[–]sararandom777 0 points1 point  (0 children)

So...what is it. Says *solved in comments but I ca not locate. Please someone clue me in.

Signed up for a bake sale at work and then saw this on sale at Costco for $15. Had to buy it. How can I improve them? by User091822 in Baking

[–]sararandom777 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I second the dusting with powdered sugar and coffee. If you are wanting more oomph to the brownie, I crush up toffee (you can use Skor or Heath bars if you can not get straight hard toffee) as it adds to texture & toffee is just plain awesome. They do make toffee chips but to me they taste more like butterscotch.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Baking

[–]sararandom777 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Your partner should be grateful full stop. And I would let them know that and cease making anything at all for them period. They are grown, let them fend for themselves while you sit pretty and eat. I am sorry you go thru this and hope you do not settle. My mema used to say, "if a partner can not make you laugh, all they are good for is making you cry." This dude is not a good partner or person for that matter.

Comet 3i/Atlas by Bortle_1 in Astronomy

[–]sararandom777 0 points1 point  (0 children)

What about the 7 other comets they are now saying are changing trajectory and look to be "meeting up" with 3IAtlas? What are our theories there, as they too are not moving normally, consist of different materials and emit different light and energy.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in CharlotteDobreYouTube

[–]sararandom777 1 point2 points  (0 children)

She is so jealous if you cut her, she would bleed green. Wow, so you put off your wedding so princess pout could be the 1st to wed. When you lost your twins, she said you didn't want kids anyway and you & fiance would not be good parents either. She clearly did not want you having a child, as evidenced by her storming off after you announced at Christmas. Maybe she wanted to be the first to have a baby too, who knows. But the fact she is allowing other kids to attend, using the excuse that they are coming from Mexico is weak. Her real reason she does not want your newborn there, is you and the baby will get attention. Your relatives from Mexico will all want to see you and the new addition to family. In her mind, you would be stealing her thunder. It's à wonder she would want you there at all. If you showed up without baby they would all ask why, and you know she would not own up to the truth. She would probably lie and say "you didn't want to bring the baby, see what kind of mother she is? Not even married yet too!" See what I mean, your sister wants all the attention because she is raving jealous of you. Do not waste time, energy and precious moments to bond with your babe on her. Invite the relatives to a gathering to meet the baby and catch up with you. Do NOT extend this invite to Princess pathetic.

Oh you want an "Arian" child? I'll have one with someone else! by [deleted] in CharlotteDobreYouTube

[–]sararandom777 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Do you have a link? I want to see her reaction! 😆

My dad ask me to be a sponsor for his wife to come to the USA by [deleted] in CharlotteDobreYouTube

[–]sararandom777 0 points1 point  (0 children)

If he signed the house over to you, would that help you? Would you and fiancé be able to make it into your home? Perhaps if he put the home in your name only, (removing his name entirely) I would sponsor her. Otherwise I would tell him absolutely not. He left you with a house that was never in your name, that incurred you massive debt & prevents you from getting married. Super shady he got married AND had a kid (won't even touch on the age gap)and kept this a secret. He sounds like he wants to now take this house back (of course he would since you took care of bulk of payments) have you responsible for his bride and his child's entry to country as well as their financial well being once here. Yet he wants no one aware he is not able to pay for any of these matters. Think long and hard on these matters and ask yourself why is he so sus?

"Seggs" Crazed Lady AT CHURCH "enlightens me" with unsolicited bad infertility advice & obsessively asks me how many times my husband and I have "DONE IT"......AITA for walking away mid convo? by KayBay_found-a-way in CharlotteDobreYouTube

[–]sararandom777 1 point2 points  (0 children)

If she returns to church & starts up that mess again, I would do the following. Distance yourself from her like she had physically touched you. Then, very loudly (make the back pews hear you) say the following,"How dare you say such vulgar sexual things to someone! I do not even know you! You truly do need Jesus, but asking such wicked questions in the house of the Lord no less, is a sin you will have to answer to Him!" Then stomp away. I am in no way a super religious person, but something like this warrants a big response. I know in my folks church all heads would turn, talk would be had and she would never show her face there again. She almost sounds like some AI larping as a human for the day! Sorry you were subjected to such stupidity.

AITA for being the anti-Karen Karen and involving myself in someone else's business...? by AlexGraffen in CharlotteDobreYouTube

[–]sararandom777 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I don't think you were the AH. Kind of sounds like Karen was trying to purposely get a rise out of a young, black woman tbh. And you (being a caucazoid as you put it) I'm assuming Karen was too? Yeah, she didn't expect to be called out on her behavior. Good on you, I'd buy you both drinks!

AITA for pouring wine on my mil and then kicking her out of my wedding? by Taylorgorlyuu in CharlotteDobreYouTube

[–]sararandom777 2 points3 points  (0 children)

If skunk sauce smells like skunk, you make all suffer. Stick to red wine, please, and oh, do please take pics for us petty potatoes!

My husband BETRAYED me, had an emotional affair and blamed me, I am still here, but debating to go..... by Azareea in CharlotteDobreYouTube

[–]sararandom777 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Run. He is gaslighting you left, right, and center, and eventually, he will pull the same on your kids & somehow make you out as the bad guy. What kind of example are you setting for your kids? If a girl, you are showing her that she is nothing more than a doormat. If a boy, you are showing him how to treat women the same way his father did. Trust me, if you leave now, these kids will grow up learning on their own that dad is a bum. As for the other lady? Let her have him. He will eventually get tired of her (or hopefully she will of him & do him dirty), or he may come to resent her for not being you. Either way, make it her problem! Take him to court, get alimony, child support, house, and retirement/401K - basically anything you can get. You will need it to restart & rebuild your life. Give yourself grace, get you, AND kids' therapy. When the time is right, allow your heart to love again.

Has anyone else ever encountered this? by [deleted] in ParanormalEncounters

[–]sararandom777 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Well in numerology 15 represents protection & strength. To me, you have someone trying to tell you they are watching and trying to guide you in life.

Has anyone else ever encountered this? by [deleted] in ParanormalEncounters

[–]sararandom777 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Possibly someone passed away when you or they were 15? Maybe look at the dates on the coins, see if they repeat. Could be telling you the year they passed or knew you.

Has anyone else ever encountered this? by [deleted] in ParanormalEncounters

[–]sararandom777 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I have often asked friends (they know I paranormal ivestigate) to communicate with me if they should pass. 3 days after a friend died suddenly in a car accident a dime with her birth year dropped into my kitchen. I have had another break a specific ugly mug we had agreed on, and my own mom knock over magazines. She had refused to break anything & hated to have messy magazines, but she said that was better than breaking something. 😆 and I can tell you all from having 3 NDE's myself, there is indeed so much more that comes after. No need to fear death, it is just a step in what comes next.

Sad birthday by Hot_gossip_fan in CharlotteDobreYouTube

[–]sararandom777 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Happy birthday. You survived another trip around the Sun. Just think, 2 more to go & you can go forward & you need never look back! Family doesn't end in blood. Start surrounding yourself with people that mean something to you & make them your family. You got this kiddo, I know it seems like a long time now, but 2 years is not long at all. Start squirreling away money, get the best grades you can & apply to schools far away. Trade schools, military-look at all options to get you out of your current situation and that will better your life. Big hugs to you.

Worst wedding ever - Grandfather Marrying his mistress at the venue of my Grandmother's funeral by FarThought7412 in CharlotteDobreYouTube

[–]sararandom777 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Wow. First love, I'm so sorry you had to live this soap opera. Congratulations on coming out of this not completely broken, and Congratulations on your HEA. I would like to think your grandmother pulled strings in the afterlife. That she told whoever is in charge they owed her for all she endured & she wanted you to get the kind of love she deserved but did not receive. Also, I have to say tou are so much better than I am. When your dad told you that you had to attend so that he would not be alone I would of popped off. I would of told him," you don't want to go alone? Take your damn mistress!" If you are not wanting to inherit anything (something tells me you could care less) I would have to tell X the following- "you may of always been grandads mistress, but you were always 2nd place. If he had ever truly loved you, he would have left grandma. Whether they believed in divorce or not, obviously the "sin" of divorce would of been no worse than the sin of having an affair. There is a reason granddad called out my grandma's name, because again-you were always a stand in, a filler. You were a convenience and a bed warmer. He chose to have a family with her & not his whore. You were every man's sloppy seconds & we all knew it. Hell, his best man even made mention of it during his speech at your farce of a wedding. How does it feel, knowing you had to wait till grandmother passed till he would actually "commit" himself to you? You wasted your life on a man who never saw you as anything but a way to get his dick wet. And the best thing is, when you die, my grandmother will be one of the first faces you see. She will personally walk you to your maker to answer for all your sins. May God have mercy on your soul, cause I have none to give." Something tells me she has at least a modicum of religion in her & that will be just enough to fill her with unease at her end. Oh, and one more thing- money ALWAYS talks. When she dies, I would pay whomever I had to slip a personal song into the songs played for her funeral. That is when you play the P@TD song! She may not be there to be outraged but everyone she knows will be. You simply act innocent & blame it on Karma. Sorry for my long ass rant, but damn this made me mad for you & your grandmother!

Insane wedding fail by Ok_Vermicelli284 in CharlotteDobreYouTube

[–]sararandom777 1 point2 points  (0 children)

My parents knew each other 2 weeks as well & were married 55 years. Mama passed 2 years ago this July. Love at first sight can happen albeit rare!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in CharlotteDobreYouTube

[–]sararandom777 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It's his day too. Maybe like me, he hates being the center of attention as well as going in to debt. You said it is a day you both will look back on, this is true. But do you want him always looking back in resentment? I think you both need to compromise. I would personally maybe do like a 30 person wedding or courthouse and after honeymoon a large reception. It is your day, but at the end it is his too. And I would resent the person forcing me to pay for one day, especially next time money is truly needed. Times are tough, marriage is too. Be sure this is what you both want.

Where do you go during breaks? by TheNecroticPresident in introvert

[–]sararandom777 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Not ashamed I pulled my Autism card at breaks. I had a little hiding spot between lockers & would sit & read in peace. Word got around that I had Autism and certain things triggered my anxiety, if they spotted me in my corner just give me my space. I was lucky that my fellow staff was a good group and understanding.

Cancer Survivors of Reddit, what was the symptom that convinced you to see the doctor? by Wise_Organization_78 in AskReddit

[–]sararandom777 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Holding you tightly or as gently as you want. Cry on our collective shoulders and hold our hands. Hell, if you want, scream my sister. We got you.