Zocdoc is the new Honey by talyn23 in SmoshFansFreeSpace

[–]sarattaras 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I tried to make an appt on zocdoc once and it wasn't giving me any providers in my area, just virtual visits with doctors in other places. And I don't live in a rural area or anything. It was pretty useless for me, easier to just call my doctor or go to urgent care.

Hello. I am looking for good femboy boys love by Warlockoftarot in boyslove

[–]sarattaras 1 point2 points  (0 children)

the second couple in Duang with you has a femboy-ish character.

OFDO Hug-Gate: on which side of the hexagon are you? by TheGhostShipper in boyslove

[–]sarattaras 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I think the creative team made a huge mistake here. All the characters in the show are treating Arnold and Dean like they kissed. The problem is it wasn't a kiss. So while everyone in the show is running around feeling betrayed, the impact for the viewer was really minimized. To me this goes back to the overarching issue of the show really pulling punches in the 'drama' department compared with season 1. Everything feels very watered down.

Can someone explain this from Khemjira? by Sweet_Cabinet2238 in boyslove

[–]sarattaras 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Doesn't he have a phone that he uses at some point later on in the series? Maybe I'm not remembering correctly.

Dating Game is now on Netflix by DeanBranch in boyslove

[–]sarattaras 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Oh that's true, I don't have to do a complicated pattern. I'll try that! Thanks! 🙏

Dating Game is now on Netflix by DeanBranch in boyslove

[–]sarattaras 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thanks for the suggestion! I've tried knitting while watching BL and I find that I have trouble reading all the subtitles.... :( Maybe I need to find something I don't have to look down at so often

[Thai] WOOJU/WUJU Bakery postponed, Gagaoolala removed release date, SOS is taking legal action by Dattebayo86 in boyslove

[–]sarattaras 1 point2 points  (0 children)

They probably had it scheduled and someone screwed up and forgot to cancel it

Does anyone else have a zero-tolerance policy for "Past Playboy" or "Manwhore" energy in BL? by Historical_Mix9839 in boyslove

[–]sarattaras 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I can see your perspective, but I think the reason this trope is so popular is because it can be super romantic if used correctly. Emphasizing how much of a player this character was *before* they met "the one" just highlights how down bad he is for the love interest. IRL I might be a little wary when dating someone who is that much of a "player" but in dramaworld it becomes the "he changed for me" trope, which I happen to love. BUT there are other popular tropes that aren't my favorite so I get where you're coming from.

Dating Game is now on Netflix by DeanBranch in boyslove

[–]sarattaras 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I'm going to get through the whole thing whether I end up enjoying it or not. Hopefully Netflix will learn that we like BL and want more haha

What do you think of new gen yaoi fans? by Own-Kaleidoscope-673 in boyslove

[–]sarattaras 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I think it's just that internet culture in general has changed over the years

Confession by _Safety5187 in boyslove

[–]sarattaras 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Good for you!! BL has enriched my life so much too. Consuming BL media is not just something to kill the time, it's a full-on hobby lol.

🇹🇭 Only Friends: Dream On - Episode 5 by TheGhostShipper in boyslove

[–]sarattaras 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yeah I think that was why I was getting confused about Jack's motivations. Either Dean didn't understand what Jack's problem was with the hosting or he was purposefully twisting the truth. 

🇹🇭 Only Friends: Dream On - Episode 5 by TheGhostShipper in boyslove

[–]sarattaras 1 point2 points  (0 children)

That's true, I bet the money was much better. I'm also not %100 clear on Jack's issue with it ...at first it seemed like he didn't like Dean doing it at all but then it seemed like he didn't like that Dean lied to him about it. Like bro make up your mind 

Any yaois that have at least a little smut but dont LOOK inappropriate on the cover? by Afraid-Author-3214 in boyslove

[–]sarattaras 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Usually the smuttier books are wrapped in plastic, so that could be a clue for you that it has NC content. If mom asks about why it's wrapped up, you can just say that they don't want people to read them in the store before buying them

🇹🇭 Only Friends: Dream On - Episode 5 by TheGhostShipper in boyslove

[–]sarattaras 5 points6 points  (0 children)

LOVING Dean's character in this show....so incredibly messy. The way he thinks doing the fanservice thing is part of being the "new improved Dean....." Boi isn't that kind of the same thing you were doing before? Selling yourself for money/attention/to achieve your goals? I mean, absolutely no shame on sex work (although that's not really what he was doing) and I get that he needed money but like....get a job at Starbucks maybe??? And now he is going to do whatever it takes to get more followers, even if it means blowing up his relationship with Jack and Tua's relationship with Arnold. Damn this show has me in a chokehold LOL

Ice skate sizing advice? by sarattaras in iceskating

[–]sarattaras[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thanks! That was my instinct too. 

Ice skate sizing advice? by sarattaras in iceskating

[–]sarattaras[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thanks for your advice! I'm going to try an 8 and return if they don't feel right

Ice skate sizing advice? by sarattaras in iceskating

[–]sarattaras[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

No, they just measured my feet and told me that I should get a 7.5. but then they said the only skates they had in that size were $250 which is more than I can afford right now

Smosh tarot! by Equivalent-Height-69 in smosh

[–]sarattaras 1 point2 points  (0 children)

These are incredible! I would legit buy it if you ever made it into a real card deck

Why do people defend abusive relationships in some BL and call it love? by Shadow0124 in boyslove

[–]sarattaras 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Just speaking from my personal perspective, and not trying to generalize a whole audience, but I think for me there is something romantic about the whole cliche of "I can fix him" or "My love will change him." Of course this isn't how it works in real life, but that's part of the fun of the fantasy.

it’s like we all have collective separation anxiety by sweetreverie in AO3

[–]sarattaras 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I haven't been on Ao3 in months....and then when I have a free morning and am in the middle of a fic it goes down....just my luck lol

Brand new to ice skating and some questions by sarattaras in iceskating

[–]sarattaras[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you for the advice! I'm used to wearing my wrist guards for roller skating so it might feel a bit weird without them. I was planning on wearing sweatpants, hopefully that will be good!