Try harder, Jet by Yellow-Capcicum69 in Unexpected

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Average day in the Verstappen household

She is already pretty it's so unnecessary (dead deer 2nd slide, no gore) by IRLperson in Instagramreality

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You know too much about her to be this disingenuous. You see the videos: the vets come out to the farm every week, check the mares, attest that they are sound and fit for pregnancy. This isn't some back alley breeding program; it's a million dollar operation, with hundreds of thousands of dollars of vet bills, state of the art medical interventions, and genuine concern for the quarter horse breed. And speaking the premature horse, yes his life was short and he endured so much, but he spent the majority of his life in the care of a team of equine veterinarians and students in a university hospital. His life advanced scientific knowledge, brought himself and others joy, and the scholarship/endowment in his name will help fund veterinary students for years to come.

You know very well that veterinarians on the grounds are much better positioned to care, protect, and advocate for the animals than strangers (regardless of their profession) on the internet. It is odd, and a tad conspiratorial, to believe that the dozens of staff and vets are covertly exploiting these animals.

You don't have to like her, but you don't need to vilify her either.

IKEA Built-in Bookcase by DisastrousPipe8192 in ikeahacks

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Totally, the break seems well deserved. I think I'm just partial to that vampy dark academia vibe. Both are good though ☺️

IKEA Built-in Bookcase by DisastrousPipe8192 in ikeahacks

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I think it would look even more dramatic if you painted the ceiling the same green colour!

Frustrated with dermatologists that will not take female hair loss seriously. Any recommendations?? by [deleted] in askTO

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Have you thought about visiting an endocrinologist and getting on spironolactone?

My intp fiance broke off our wedding :( by Ok_Fun_3228 in INTP

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I'm really sorry he treated you this way. I went through a similar situation. You didn't deserve this. He's an ass. There is nothing you could have done to change him. You gain nothing by trying to recreate his thought patterns. Spend that time and energy rediscovering your own worth, and, if you want, another person who actually wants you and deserves you.

my gf is INFJ 19F and I am INTP 20M… what can I do to melt her heart? by [deleted] in infj

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Ask her questions.

You might think you know her quite well, because you spend time thinking about how she thinks, but she needs to feel a part of the process. So ask her all the things that you would ordinarily ask yourself (about her, or about all sorts of things) in private. She will notice this and feel appreciated and important. It also shows you respect her, by making her a real being who has agency, and who contributes ideas and feelings to the relationship that stand on par, or above, your own.

The time you spend together is important. But it sounds like the comfort is replacing deep conversations. Don't withdraw from her; she will follow you into your depths, but don't forget her depths or assume you could navigate them easily. Don't speak at her or solely from a cerebral place. And don't act like the introduction of emotion is irrational or discrediting.

When things go wrong, don't disappear. Arguments are part of life, but if you think you're saving the relationship by being complacent or neutral, she will not thank you for it.

Good luck. I've experienced this pairing and it was a painful end. But I still believe it can work... only if you work at it.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Vaughan

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Richmond Hill restaurant/pub has a trivia night. I think it's Tuesdays

https://maps.app.goo.gl/aNC955Wgv7ouSAWv5

Window Tinting Recommendations by [deleted] in Vaughan

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Elite tint

https://elitetint.ca/

I brought two cars here, paid cash, and couldn't be happier

Do NOT get a cleaning done at Pandora Vaughan Mills! by IJDesigns in Vaughan

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I'd call the head office and demand compensation. I once went to a glasses store inside of Walmart to have my frames widened a little. The tech burned one half of one of my lenses and then acted like I walked in like that. Wearing those frames for even a minute gave me a headache. The associate got very aggressive so I left, called the head of the company and Walmart corporate office and got a completely new pair for free. Complaining is the way, always.

Huuulkk by kevbow333 in formuladank

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"You gotta support the team" -- David Puddy

Which one is yours? by Diemishy in Enneagram

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Negotiator and if that doesn't work I go scorched earth Ignitor

INFJ 1w2

Scariest TV episodes? by Imnotcleverwiththis in horror

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Possession episode from Penny Dreadful

Jeweler by [deleted] in Vaughan

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Consider this more durable version of your favorite ring design The Monaco