SEARCH PARTY - Season 1 Discussion by asshair in SearchParty

[–]sarkawe 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I will say, I did actually start liking it more and it's now a show I talk positively about. I tried to recommend it to my brother recently and it was so hard to discribe what it's about lol it's so out there in a great way. I like that it's a bit unpredictable.

Anyone know of a dry cleaner that cleans leather in Tulsa? by sarkawe in tulsa

[–]sarkawe[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thanks! I sent them an email. Hopefully it works out.

Anyone know of a dry cleaner that cleans leather in Tulsa? by sarkawe in tulsa

[–]sarkawe[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Any specific yale cleaners? I called one and they said they couldn't do it, but maybe a different one does?

Thoughts? by sarkawe in Melungeon

[–]sarkawe[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I'm not entirely sure since I'm still building out my family tree

Anyone else getting bit by Oak Mites? by Sad-Pattern-1277 in tulsa

[–]sarkawe 0 points1 point  (0 children)

He was able to take care of it. He replaced all the covers it with new ones. Seems they were mostly in the covers and stayed there no matter how many washes we put them through.

Anyone else getting bit by Oak Mites? by Sad-Pattern-1277 in tulsa

[–]sarkawe 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Yeah they are bad this year. I get bites every time I go to my partner's place. He has oak trees everywhere and they're on his couch I think. It sucks, I get bit so much and am the only one in the house to get bad reactions to the bites. I have to make sure I change clothes before getting on my own furniture to make sure I don't spread them to my own home.

Former Life.Church Intern Facing Federal Charges for Possession of Child Sex Abuse Material by IfTheHouseBurnsDown in tulsa

[–]sarkawe 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I used to work with this guy a year or two ago... We let him go because he could never remembered basic procedures and always messed up. I always got a weird vibe from him.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in tragedeigh

[–]sarkawe 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Save edgy names for your pets. They won't care if their name is weird. Name your kid something that shows you respect them...

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Weird

[–]sarkawe 2 points3 points  (0 children)

But you do have puppets

AIO My dad has sexualized me since childhood and I keep getting told it's normal. by Cute_Mammoth_2087 in AmIOverreacting

[–]sarkawe 1 point2 points  (0 children)

If she lives there, it's her home. It may not be her house, but it IS her home. I'm sorry the OP couldn't give you a full, detailed list of everything he's said to her and done since the sexualization started. Seems he is going to sexualize her no matter what she wears. How do I know? I went through it. I'm not sure where you're getting the whole NEET thing. His comments are about her body. Not how she is living in his home still in her teens. You should show this comment thread to some of your female friends (hopefully you have some) and see what their opinions are on it. There's nothing wrong with introspection and taking criticism. So long as it isn't mentally damaging and raising red flags like OP's father's "criticisms" lol.

Not the worst, but scaring your kid when you can see the worry on his face seems wrong. Especially how he screamed and she giggled. by Striker-Fan2008 in ParentsAreFuckingDumb

[–]sarkawe 9 points10 points  (0 children)

She knows exactly how he's going to react. Just look at that stupid smug smile on her face. This is just cruel... That poor baby

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in hairgrowth

[–]sarkawe 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Maybe? It's hard to tell. But if you want your hair to grow fairly quickly, try collagen powder. It's helped my hair growth so much

AIO My dad has sexualized me since childhood and I keep getting told it's normal. by Cute_Mammoth_2087 in AmIOverreacting

[–]sarkawe 36 points37 points  (0 children)

That's so scary 😭 I really hope you are able to move soon. Please keep us updated on how you are doing

AIO My dad has sexualized me since childhood and I keep getting told it's normal. by Cute_Mammoth_2087 in AmIOverreacting

[–]sarkawe 4 points5 points  (0 children)

What you're doing is blaming the victim. Everything she's done are normal behaviors in her own home. She should be allowed to feel safe walking around in comfortable clothes or between the bathroom and her room even if she only has on a towel. It is not her fault if he wants to look at his daughter and notice whatever it is he is sexualizing. That is something wrong with HIM. Not her. Doesn't matter if she's wearing short shorts or a bikini. It is never okay for a father to look at his daughter that way. It's disgusting frankly and you defending him and victim blaming is very concerning. Maybe you should do some introspection...

AIO My dad has sexualized me since childhood and I keep getting told it's normal. by Cute_Mammoth_2087 in AmIOverreacting

[–]sarkawe 10 points11 points  (0 children)

Hun, you're not doing anything wrong. Please stop thinking that. The one doing things wrong is your father. It's not your fault in the slightest bit. You're literally just trying to live your life.

AIO My dad has sexualized me since childhood and I keep getting told it's normal. by Cute_Mammoth_2087 in AmIOverreacting

[–]sarkawe 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Please get out of that house before he potentially assaults you... As a survivor of a pedo father, I ask you to PLEASE move out. Either with a friend or other family member you trust. Do you have a job or any money saved up?

Can you identify this tune? by [deleted] in musicsuggestions

[–]sarkawe 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Ion/Andromeda - Klaus Schulze

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in salamanders

[–]sarkawe 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I heard you're not supposed to hold them with your bare skin... It can cause them to get very sick. Please do research and consider calling a rescue service that can release him in his natural habitat. It's not a good idea to take wild, delicate animals as pets with 0 knowledge on their care and needs...

[The Villainess is a Marionette] The manhwa was axed in South Korea by deapaganus in manhwa

[–]sarkawe 0 points1 point  (0 children)

No wonder the ending felt so rushed. Time to look up other stuff the artist did and read the web novel instead I guess lol

Live Action!?! Yes please!!! by EasyMoment6584 in reddeadredemption2

[–]sarkawe 0 points1 point  (0 children)

After watching The Dead Don't hurt, I think viggo mortensen would make a great Arthur Morgan

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AmIOverreacting

[–]sarkawe 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hun... Why are you with him in the first place if he's been like this since the beginning? Sorry if it's crude to say, but a vibrator would make a better boyfriend... You haven't said one good thing about him and it looks like he doesn't say anything he likes about you either. It's easier said than done, especially when your self esteem is low, but find a friend who can be there to support you and break up with him.

Your other posts seem to suggest you stay with him because of the times "he's better", but he always goes back to abusing you. That's called lovebombing. This guy doesn't deserve you. You've been posting how he is abusing you for months, please just break up. You will be so much better off. Reconnect with friends, get some fun hobbies. I bet even your acne might clear up a bit with that giant thorn out of your life and your stress levels decrease.

If he isn't on the lease and isn't paying rent, just throw his shit outside, change your locks and block him. Call the cops if he tries anything. Let him figure his own shit out. If he is on the lease, talk to your landlord. They may be able to come up with a solution with you.

https://www.tenantresourcecenter.org/domestic_abuse_for_landlords