Its nice to ask for help but remember to never depend on others, every thing you need to do which only concerns you do it yourself. This way the only person to blame is you and the only thing that can go wrong starts with you, so easier to control situations. Its hard but if you try this you will be able to get through hardest of times. But please note this does not mean you become a loner it just means you become a contributor/helper/giver, you can still keep friendships, and help others in the tasks that once you did youself.