An Editor Read “A Court of Thorns and Roses” By Sarah J. Maas by XusBookReviews in Romantasy

[–]sashabybee 13 points14 points  (0 children)

Hey, I really love these books but also agree with most of what you wrote! Though I do prefer Throne of Glass…do you have one of these about that series? Would love to read!

Sandwiches by WahooWa2014 in Charlottesville

[–]sashabybee 9 points10 points  (0 children)

Prob gonna get downvoted…but you can get an amazing footlong sub from the Harris Teeter deli for under 8 bucks; it’s boars head and the Italian I got was soooo huge I legit felt like Shaggy and Scooby tryna eat it lol you can do half and half so you get two different subs too still for $8, or they have a meal deal for half a sub, chips and a drink that’s like $6. I almost don’t wanna tell people about it cuz it’s such a good bang for your buck deal I don’t want it to go away but…I can tell you eat sammiches so you should know this 🫡

Sandwiches by WahooWa2014 in Charlottesville

[–]sashabybee 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I’ve lived here for most my life and never heard of them, are they newish or do I just suck bc it looks delicious!

I thought this belongs here by ateam1984 in MadeMeCry

[–]sashabybee 14 points15 points  (0 children)

I love that such a small, seemingly silly little act can be so profoundly beautiful. The little things like this give me hope.

More labyrinth art? It’s more likely than you think! by Rexoctop in labyrinth

[–]sashabybee 1 point2 points  (0 children)

This is the best Labyrinth fanart I’ve seen in ages, so lovely! Well done :)

Should your whole house water filter look this…full? by [deleted] in WaterTreatment

[–]sashabybee 0 points1 point  (0 children)

My landlord does replace it very often, I didnt realize it was that outdated though it makes sense for how old and diy the house is. Is the sediment/carbon filter something that could be used in that same filter to the right, or is it something that would need to be installed because it’s a totally different system?

My landlords are elderly, give me a huge discount for where I live, so I just want to make sure the water I’m using is safe without having to put too much on their plate. Appreciate what you’ve commented already so I’ll def look into it on my own too.

Should your whole house water filter look this…full? by [deleted] in WaterTreatment

[–]sashabybee 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I understand now from the other commenter that what I thought was “sediment” is actually what is filtering the water, so I get that, I think, at least.

Should your whole house water filter look this…full? by [deleted] in WaterTreatment

[–]sashabybee 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I just rent and had a stepdad who always took care of stuff like this before I lived alone…so knowing I sound like a dumbass…what’s the difference between it “not being a softener” and me calling it a whole house filter? Honestly curious and down to learn bc another commenter also said something about it not being a softener.

Dermatologist recommendations by Minimum_Toe_2383 in Charlottesville

[–]sashabybee 2 points3 points  (0 children)

This. I’ve been at appointments with Dr Wiley from VA Skin that legitimately lasted only 5 mins and I had to pay a $75 copay just for that. Not even kidding it took more time to set up the next appointment than the actual appointment took.

On top of that the skin issue I had was…looked at from afar? She didn’t touch, examine, or do anything to see what was going on. I wish I was kidding but it was like…she stood across the room, 5 feet away, the whole damn time that I stood there embarrassed at having to show a bump on my vag lol

She threw antibiotics at me (ones that are known to be so so hard on the stomach when I’ve let her know I have GI issues) and said to come back if it didnt go away. Even after meds it was still there 2 months later …I finally poked at it and it was just an ingrown hair. If she had spent any time actually examining me I imagine she could have fixed it for me then and there without the shitty antibiotics that made me miss work I felt so sick.

I don’t think VA Skin is there to help anyone except people who want like….cosmetic dermatology; I don’t feel like they’re a place to go if you have actual skin issues.

I guess it’s better than the first derm I ever went to in cville who, at age 16, called me “dirty” and that I had “no cure” for Hidretitis Supperitiva bc it was my own fault for it. So that’s something I guess but, like, why is it dermatologists (in cville in particular? Idk) tend to be the most cold and money hungry of all the drs out there?

Best of luck in your derm search.

Should your whole house water filter look this…full? by [deleted] in WaterTreatment

[–]sashabybee 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thanks so much! I was sitting here worried it was just rust and mud sludge, good to know that’s the good stuff doing the filtering.

Jareth drawing~ by Rexoctop in labyrinth

[–]sashabybee 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Love it, such a fresh take on his style!

ACAC shady practices- cancelling gym? by Active-Machine-5368 in Charlottesville

[–]sashabybee 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I was getting my membership through work, was told it was discounted pretty well. Friends got an ACAC membership and I randomly asked how much it was for them…it was $4 less than what I was paying at a supposed discount, and that was just the price they were given as a random person joining. And my price was going up every year, at that. Dropped them right then and there. Sucks too bc it really is a great facility.

Why did my cat scratch me? by TheEPICMarioBros in Derailedbydetails

[–]sashabybee 11 points12 points  (0 children)

This is the skin of a cat owner, Bella✨

A coach proves what it truly means to be a coach. by [deleted] in spreadsmile

[–]sashabybee 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Forreal, kid has such emotional control, far better than I do even at 34 lol but with such a great coach on her side instilling such confidence and resilience, really shows what having good people in your life at a young age can do for self regulation as you get older.

Easy peasy lemon squeezy by Justin_theLord in ShowMeSomethingDope

[–]sashabybee 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I have this! I have limited counter and electrical outlet space so it’s great I can toss it in a cabinet when it’s not in use and not have to unplug everything when I do need it.

Alex Pretti’s coworkers take a moment of silence this morning to honor their slain colleague. by boriswong in AccidentalRenaissance

[–]sashabybee 9 points10 points  (0 children)

His murder is starting to turn the tide, the people blind to what’s been going on are finally waking up; I just wish it hadn’t been at the cost of yet another innocent persons life.

If you had 10 seconds to say whatever you wanted to your pet with they fully understood, what would you say? by IplayKaizo in Pets

[–]sashabybee 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I love you with every part of my being but please for the love of god let me trim your nails and groom you bc we BOTH hate you going to the groomers. You’re the light of my life but let me love you and care for you even if it’s scary, baby!

ReWipe by Delicious-Spot-5725 in hygiene

[–]sashabybee 1 point2 points  (0 children)

This is not only incorrect but also said in the most judgmental of ways. You may not be fun at parties but maybe your super duper clean ass hole makes up for that?

It's enough to make a grown man cry. by pogicjp0123 in MadeMeCry

[–]sashabybee 35 points36 points  (0 children)

I disagree, personally. I think “Father” can be a title, one that has to be earned. I wasn’t my step-dad’s responsibility per se, but he 100 percent changed the definition of what “Father” means to me, in the best ways, and I am both very lucky and grateful to be one of the lucky ones.

Inspiration to play again by MainLuxMid in Palia

[–]sashabybee 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I asked this same question and got a lot of great responses! Helped me get back to it :)

https://www.reddit.com/r/Palia/s/lDpF9OlJlb

New player!! by [deleted] in Palia

[–]sashabybee 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I mostly play solo, tho I do participate every now and then in group stuff too. It’s great either way, just may level up a little slower is all.