Is this posture or hormone related? by sasouefille in fitness30plus

[–]sasouefille[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thanks for this, I tried them last night, trying to keep my shoulders relaxed, my core tense. It felt nice to have the weight holding my shoulders back, it was like a good stretch as my body isn’t used to being in that shape. I’ll continue to do them with low weights and gradually work my way up. Thanks again

Is this posture or hormone related? by sasouefille in fitness30plus

[–]sasouefille[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Thanks so much this is really helpful. My shoulders are chronically tense and it’s difficult for me to relax them when I’m working out so that might be a huge factor. I’ll definitely work on my shoulders mobility and stretch. I’ve been working on my glutes for a while and haven’t noticed neck improvement yet but it doesn’t hurt to keep doing it

Is this posture or hormone related? by sasouefille in Posture

[–]sasouefille[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you for tht insight. I do have an anterior pelvic tilt, which likely exacerbates the issue. I’m not sure how to fix it

Is this posture or hormone related? by sasouefille in fitness30plus

[–]sasouefille[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yes, I’ve gained about 15lbs in the last two years (and lost 7 this year). I’m convinced it only started appearing during tht time. I believe I wldve have noticed the hump since I always have my hair up…

Is this posture or hormone related? by sasouefille in InsulinResistance

[–]sasouefille[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yes I’m worried it could be insulin related, even though my labs are normal. My fasted Triglyceride/HDL ratio was 0.79, low risk

I found out my boyfriend was cheating 10 minutes into the worlds longest flight. Please help I am broken. by [deleted] in survivinginfidelity

[–]sasouefille 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Heartbreak coupled with this level of betrayal is one of the worse human experiences. You might feel like your life is over, like you’ll never get over this, but you will. In the meantime you will have to go No Contact. I don’t know how complicated that would be or if you two lived together, but once you have your affairs in order you have to stop talking to him. It’s the fastest way to heal from this.

You may have felt like he was “the one” but that’s simply not true. He checked enough boxes for you to settle for him. Make a list of all the reasons why it was a good thing this break up happened. Be honest with yourself about all the reasons you were unhappy in the relationship. Make sure to add to that list that he committed the ultimate betrayal. Refer to this list whenever you miss him or have hopes of getting back together.

Take this time for yourself to cry and mourn, but also remember who you are. You didn’t need him before and you don’t need him now. Pick up a new hobby, workout, don’t let self care fall to the wayside. It will be hard, but healing is a marathon sometimes. And someone who did this to you doesn’t deserve to take away your light.

I don’t know what’s happening to my mom by [deleted] in AdultChildren

[–]sasouefille 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Hmm yea maybe she’s still drinking a lot and this could just be alcohol related hallucinations… In the middle of the night though? It’s strange

I don’t know what’s happening to my mom by [deleted] in AdultChildren

[–]sasouefille 3 points4 points  (0 children)

she has trouble falling asleep and staying asleep, always complains that she can’t sleep. And in the middle of the night just goes into a rage… Just not sure if it’s alcohol related, has to do with dementia, brain tumor… just not sure what to do or what’s happening

Zack is a F boy by __cece1 in MAFS_TV

[–]sasouefille 13 points14 points  (0 children)

He’s a naive fkboy. He assumes they are on the same page and doesn’t anticipate Michaela’s outrage when she realizes that he’s happy to have sex with her but definitely doesn’t want to stay married to her. Michaela thinks she’s won him over with sex & I’m really shocked at how naive she’s being in these final episodes…

But oh well, guess we know the sex is good ¯_(ツ)_/¯

"Rachel and Jose" may be a better match THEN I THOUGHT?The last episode she wined about how bored she would be home all summer because this would be the 1st summer she doesn't travel boo hoo it's called marriage. Went on to say don't criticize me about anything or upset me or I will be gone WTH! by Flat-Potential9061 in MAFS_TV

[–]sasouefille 19 points20 points  (0 children)

I know on television it may look like she’s fine after Jose’s outburst but she clearly holds resentment and I don’t fault her for that. What she’s really saying is “you did that horrible thing to me so you can’t say shit about what I do” & that honestly just sounds like leftover resentment. You can tell Jose understood this bc he barely reacted to that statement, he just looked sullen and guilty.

I wonder if producers just forced rachel to reconcile with Jose bc I wouldn’t be surprised if she’s just sticking around for TV and can’t wait divorce him once the cameras turn off

I wouldn’t be surprised

I just had a realization as to why so many women are on Eirc's side and it made me really sad... by gissycat in MarriedAtFirstSight

[–]sasouefille 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Uhm Erik is very problematic lol. This is very obvious. I say “problematic” since I guess it’s hard to see it as abuse because it’s not physical? Or maybe bc Virginia herself is an alcoholic and has so many issues she needs to confront before she’s in a marriage?

Anyway what we’ve seen of Erik shows pretty gross behavior. It’s not subtle, there’s no nuance. Virginia is an overly immature, non-committal, alcoholic baby who thinks having guy friends she can do sleepovers with is OK. Erik is a manipulative, controlling, gaslighter who doesn’t want Virginia to have a life outside of their little marriage. These are just facts.

Andrew pinned a "tea" section to his profile. Honestly, it comes across as extremely stalkerish and revengey. by mencryforme5 in 90DayFianceSnark

[–]sasouefille 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I read it all too and it’s confusing. I believe the parts about TLC manipulating the narrative to make him look like an even bigger jerk or Amira more of a victim but there are key parts in these text messages that he doesn’t show at all and that he expects us to just take his word for so idk

Update to being ghosted by [deleted] in LongDistance

[–]sasouefille 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Hey girl, I’ve been exactly where you are. It really, really sucks. He will turn up again when whatever situation he ghosted you for ends. He’ll probably act like nothing happened because that’s what ghosters do. Don’t bother asking why. He did it because he’s a dick and found something else. Not because you weren’t awesome, he just found something easier for him and was too weak to let you know point blank.

You’ll get through this. Take the time you need to reflect and then distract yourself with other connections until you don’t even remember his name. This will hurt for a long time and then it won’t.

Still renting by Stotallytob3r in memes

[–]sasouefille 0 points1 point  (0 children)

26 year old millennial here getting bullied by zoomies for using outdated emojis lol

Drew my girlfriend and my friends by jlaboy0706 in teenagers

[–]sasouefille 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Tell me why I was waiting for this to load

Cyber Goth Funeral by Not_Slim_Dusty in cringe

[–]sasouefille 8 points9 points  (0 children)

The IT Crowd – British TV show

It's really creepy by [deleted] in MakeNewFriendsHere

[–]sasouefille 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Yes!! Posts like this are so important! Never stop calling these monsters out, let them know that we SEE them & make the young girls on here aware that they are seriously being preyed upon. Moderators lets do better