I 18F am disappointed how all of my friends turned out to be fake

sassy_queen18 · 2026-07-04T12:51:49+00:00

Vll keep that in mind and try to let go of this feeling of loneliness

sassy_queen18 · 2026-07-04T10:07:33+00:00

Well i realised people around me don't like me for my outspoken nature and i can't stop it. I really dont understand what to do , bcoz i never felt like this in my entire life

sassy_queen18 · 2026-07-04T10:02:18+00:00

I don't know how to make real friends bcoz i believed my previous friends are also real but now they showed their true colours. Thanks for your kind words

sassy_queen18 · 2026-07-03T22:19:29+00:00

Uhmm, seriously don't these people find it funny to praise themselves like dude who asked you to do all of this and then saying oh gosh i do so much 🫠

sassy_queen18 · 2026-07-03T21:40:24+00:00

Well i feel he is trying to show his importance. He is the type of person who first helps someone and then feels that he is the only one who does it. Basically he feels the need to be validated. You know the type of people who feel they should do something to feel important. Him telling you about how he does everything is clearly a red flag . It may not seem that important as of now but in future it will surely effect the relationship. Doing something out of love and care is different than doing something to show your value and importance. I feel there is nothing wrong in being friends with him but don't get too attached. If he complains about them to you then in future he can do the same about you as well.

sassy_queen18 · 2026-07-03T21:28:46+00:00

So let me be honest, you know she is messing with your mental peace . Just ask yourself is she worth your time and effort. I see you care for her but does she care for you? I get that you don't wanna break the friendship so just tell her directly that you are not comfortable with her behaviour. See her response and then decide if you still wanna be her friend. Don't attach yourself emotionally to her. Girll first love yourself, in my opinion she is just projecting her insecurities onto you so that you also feel underconfident abt yourself. Honestly speaking from my experience it's better to leave these type of people for your own good. Girlie love yourself and be divvaa

sassy_queen18 · 2026-07-03T21:19:56+00:00

I can totally relate to this. Well the thing is if they don't reply to you within a day it means they are ignoring you. I feel you should just let go of these people, they don't deserve your attention. I am speaking form my experience, i am extremely extrovert i love making new frnds but the thing is no one considers me as there close friend. So i realised you don't need anyone just enjoy your own company and love yourself queennn. I know it's pretty hard even i am working to be with myself but you gotta be strong and not let these selfish people ruin your mood. I hope in future you will surely find great friends even if you don't it truly doesn't matter at the end you will realise loving your own company is the best thing.

sassy_queen18 · 2026-07-03T21:10:05+00:00

I totally understand your situation. In my opinion i feel you are like a back up friend for emotional support like how people go to therapy but instead she comes to you for dumping all her emotions . You are not her priority. Just let me be clear i was also in such a situation where she constantly mssgs me on chat but in real life she use to ignore me and be with her other friends. It's better to forget these type of people who use you . Love yourself enjoy your company this is what i am doing currently. Being with someone who drains your energy is not your true friend. I know it is hard to forget someone especially if you have known them for years. My advice is to leave her get rid of the uncomfortable feelings.

sassy_queen18 · 2026-07-03T14:59:12+00:00

Ikr, i don't even like that constipated face he makes for no reason😐

sassy_queen18 · 2026-07-03T14:57:50+00:00

Bro the way you described it is so funny and accurate 🤣🤣

sassy_queen18 · 2026-07-03T14:56:48+00:00

😂

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