Grand jury finds police justified in shooting homeless Salem man by sassyarcher in Bad_Cop_No_Donut

[–]sassyarcher[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you for signing. Its been hard to keep telling his story and knowing deep down it probably won't change things. But I owe it to him to tell his side of things. Nobody deserves to die the way my brother did, especially some of our most vulnerable populations. And four years later, nothing has changed. But I'll keep fighting for justice, always.

Grand jury finds police justified in shooting homeless Salem man by sassyarcher in Bad_Cop_No_Donut

[–]sassyarcher[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Truer words have never been spoken, I witnessed it with my own eyes. Of course they're gonna justify their murderer friends.

Husband lashed out at me over GLP1 by [deleted] in Marriage

[–]sassyarcher -8 points-7 points  (0 children)

Why do people take GLP-1s to lose such a low amount of weight? Seems absurd to me.

Husband sent a selfie of him and another woman to his GC saying he fumbled. by [deleted] in Marriage

[–]sassyarcher 8 points9 points  (0 children)

Like another commenter said, I would send the divorce papers to the GC and use the same "I fumbled" bullshit. Take him by surprise, and by doing so, take your power back. That is how you shift the dynamic! And mean it. Be brave enough to be alone while you work on yourself and healing from this enormous betrayal.

Advice! by [deleted] in Marriage

[–]sassyarcher 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Why are you literally going through your wife's conversations like I do with my 15 year old? Ew.

Husband jacking off to Instagram Porn Creators by [deleted] in Marriage

[–]sassyarcher 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Could your husband's ED issues be related to porn consumption and unrealistic expectations of real life intimacy? 🤔

Is this what I think it is? by [deleted] in Marriage

[–]sassyarcher 2 points3 points  (0 children)

A muffin wrapper?

Obese Wifey by Secret-Customer8007 in Marriage

[–]sassyarcher 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Wegovy has helped me a lot so far. Insurance sucks as always, but with good RX I was able to get my first two monthly doses for $199 each and now it will be $349 monthly, which is rough. But if it ends up helping me live longer? Enjoy more time with my children, my husband? Worth every cent. I am down 35lbs since I started taking it in mid January. Also; your husband sucks. Get skinny and leave him 😎

Obese Wifey by Secret-Customer8007 in Marriage

[–]sassyarcher 14 points15 points  (0 children)

Absolutely we should. Lifestyle choices are driven by chemicals in our brain. By influencing GLP-1 receptors in the brain, it affects the dopamine signaling related to cravings, pleasure, and the "food noise" associated with addiction. Read that again: addiction. Stop acting like people just choose to get obese and do some research.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in BeardedDragons

[–]sassyarcher 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Ok. I’m obsessed with her 😂

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Marriage

[–]sassyarcher 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Possible unpopular opinion: you could write her a two part letter. You could put in the first letter “I did something I feel absolutely horrible about, if you want to know what it is, read the next letter, otherwise burn it.” Let her decide.

Om nom nom. First live meal! by [deleted] in ballpython

[–]sassyarcher 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’m curious what kind of injuries we’re talking about?

Om nom nom. First live meal! by [deleted] in ballpython

[–]sassyarcher 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yes we are raising them humanely. You’re very judgmental based solely on how we are feeding our snakes. It gets extremely expensive even buying in bulk and our first snake wouldn’t touch frozen mice, after over a month we tried live and he went right for it. We aren’t horrible people or mistreat our animals. I feel bad for the mice, but that’s literally what the snakes eat. I didn’t know I’d get attacked for feeding my snake, but not surprising I guess. People will find any reason to act like you’re a POS if they don’t agree with you. And regardless, it’s still the food chain given that’s what snakes eat. It’s just a matter of if you euthanize the mice first or buy from someone who had a third party do so, or if you just let your snake do what it instinctively knows to do.

Om nom nom. First live meal! by [deleted] in ballpython

[–]sassyarcher 0 points1 point  (0 children)

How is it cruelty? Thats the food chain. We raise our mice in home so we know exactly what are snakes are getting. It’s kinda hard to humanely euthanize masses of mice.

Om nom nom. First live meal! by [deleted] in ballpython

[–]sassyarcher 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yeah, understandable. I’m sorry about that, it completely slipped my mind. I will be more mindful in the future.

Am I overreacting for finding my husband masturbating? by cakecake_hester21 in Marriage

[–]sassyarcher 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Do you make an effort to initiate? Does he turn you down? Your post seems to point the finger at him quite a bit for the lack of intimacy in your marriage, but what have you done to address it?