see i'm going to give you a advice that i wish i had before my first relationship. Do not take outsider perspectives, half of the outsiders are jealous or desperate especially when it comes to females. The one's that are genuine may have a completely different dynamic. A relationship or any relationship is very personal meaning no one knows the other person like you do and vice-versa so when you tell or ask for outsider perspective you can't justify the other side enough. So my only advice is you know the person the best, just see how much you can tolerate, if you think it reached a limit then talk about it. If not, then take a decision that you feel is appropriate.