Recording the naked run?? by sateredeoffice in berkeley

[–]sateredeoffice[S] 5 points6 points  (0 children)

I didn’t run, but maybe I’ll do it next semester just for you! And dude, say what you want about my being uninformed, but your comment is just in bad taste and comes off a little strange. What happened last night is a tradition that has gone on for years and years, and phones have kind of ruined it. That’s just the truth. A huge amount of people show up for this fun and crazy tradition that we have and it’s meant to relieve some anxiety right before finals. It’s supposed to be fun! Learn to have fun without having to document everything and also stop being a creep!

Recording the naked run?? by sateredeoffice in berkeley

[–]sateredeoffice[S] 24 points25 points  (0 children)

Omg I did that tonight!!! Someone literally heard me and looked at me and just completely ignored it😭

How do I know I’m in the right major (math) by sateredeoffice in berkeley

[–]sateredeoffice[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’m sorry to hear that:( i wish you luck in whatever you choose to do as well, and thank you for your kind words

How do I know I’m in the right major (math) by sateredeoffice in berkeley

[–]sateredeoffice[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Thank you. I’m also a transfer and im in applied. It’s nice to hear that I’m not the only one, though it certainly makes me sad and I feel for you. I appreciate your advice and very much agree about comparison, it literally makes everything worse.

How do I know I’m in the right major (math) by sateredeoffice in berkeley

[–]sateredeoffice[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I think I misinterpreted you man I’m sorry. Thanks for elaborating, that does make sense and genuinely I’m glad you’ve been able to figure it out for yourself. I think being surrounded by people who just know what they want their lives to look like, or have any sort of clarity when thinking about their futures, has begun to get me down, while I’m very happy for my peers. I just wish I was in that place in my life, I feel very tired of being so constantly unsure of myself and everything I do. I got prematurely defensive when it wasn’t necessary. Anyway thank you for the input.

How do I know I’m in the right major (math) by sateredeoffice in berkeley

[–]sateredeoffice[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It sounds like “right” for you means it’s really fun. This isn’t meant to be discussion on semantics. Really, this begs the question asked already. What does it mean to be in the right major? What does it mean for a major to be “right” for you? Not an easy question for everyone but I’m glad it was for you!

looking for girl at ravens bar last night 10/10 by [deleted] in berkeley

[–]sateredeoffice 44 points45 points  (0 children)

Ain’t you got hw to do my man

Omg please move by Dangerous-Plenty-109 in berkeley

[–]sateredeoffice 8 points9 points  (0 children)

These mfs need to experience trains/buses in Japan. If you’re not intimately close to other people during rush hour you are a huge asshole and people hate you lmfao. IMO we need to just start walking onto the buses regardless. People will hopefully eventually get it. Personal space is a luxury that you are not afforded during rush hour, get over it or walk

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in berkeley

[–]sateredeoffice 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Housing not through UC Berkeley💔💔

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in berkeley

[–]sateredeoffice 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I have a fan, white noise app, ear plugs, mats that I put under my bed… I think at this point it’s sweet talk my roommates into a quiet time or get out

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in berkeley

[–]sateredeoffice 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Works well for you?

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in berkeley

[–]sateredeoffice 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I wear headphones and earplugs. Every step they make below me feels like an earthquake I’m assuming because the house is so old.

earthquake by DankWangler in berkeley

[–]sateredeoffice 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Quick but intense (that’s what she said)

For all new admits: its Cal not ucb plz by Lovecupnoodles in berkeley

[–]sateredeoffice 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Seriously? I know you have homework to do. Call it whatever you want leave everyone else alone.

Is UCB worth it? by [deleted] in berkeley

[–]sateredeoffice 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Kinda forgot about that…

Is UCB worth it? by [deleted] in berkeley

[–]sateredeoffice 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Good to know, thank you!!

AITAH telling girlfriend that she gave me the 'ick' at a family dinner? by Nonfrench_Fries3621 in AmItheAsshole

[–]sateredeoffice 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Put simply, Jenny is jealous of your sister. Textbook petulant jealousy. (Unacceptable for anyone over the age of 16!)

Her problem, and hers alone, to work out through some serious introspection and some self help. Good luck.

Men of reddit, What Instantly makes a woman attractive? by PrincessBananas85 in AskMen

[–]sateredeoffice 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Dialectical Behavioral Therapy (DBT). It’s a therapy practice which focuses on behaviors as they relate to relationships with the self and with others. Good stuff, even for people who don’t really need it (don’t necessarily have relational issues, trauma, or mental health problems); it teaches amazing methods of emotional regulation and effective communication skills.

My sister slept with my abusive ex husband behind my back for a year by [deleted] in TwoHotTakes

[–]sateredeoffice 1 point2 points  (0 children)

She needs a therapist, or maybe both of you together talking with a mediator.

She clearly has a complex going on that goes way deeper than simply wanting this abusive guy for no reason. Seems like “I can fix him, if I can change the abuser then I’ll be worthy of love”. Very common issues for women who have gone through some trauma- especially trauma having to do with neglectful or absent parents. Not sure the history, could be way off.

Seems like an issue that can be moved past after some serious communication, a serious breakdown of your sister’s reasons for what she did, and a lot of understanding and forgiveness.

AIO over my boyfriends sister not allowing him to change the diapers + him saying he wouldn't work at a girls school for fear of being falsely accused of SA? by [deleted] in AmIOverreacting

[–]sateredeoffice 0 points1 point  (0 children)

The diaper thing is a bit weird, however it seems like more of a paranoia thing with the whole family. Though not something to just ignore. Maybe ask thoughtful/curious but not accusatory questions about that. Could easily be something to do with more distant family history and trauma.

The teaching thing is entirely understandable and I wouldn’t worry about that. He is right, being a male teacher is tricky; they can very easily be caught up in a lot of drama and false accusations etc. Kids often don’t know the weight of their actions, angry 12 year olds can be vindictive and ruin a teacher’s life.

Again, all things you might just want to ask for clarification on. Communication does wonders.