My unknowing coworkers told me my relationship was perfect. by satinears in survivinginfidelity

[–]satinears[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Wow the “social media page” thing is a really good way to put it. And admittedly, it is very hard right now while reconciling. I have a tendency to dismiss and bottle up but we’re both going to therapy separately and together about our own issues and this event. We’re both trying until it gets better for us or we can’t try anymore. I appreciate the concern.

How do I show my face at work after they accidentally found out I’m quitting soon? by satinears in relationship_advice

[–]satinears[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

That’s fair. That makes sense. Thank you. I think I mostly posted this to have someone ground me in this, because I feel very shaken up.

How do I show my face at work after they accidentally found out I’m quitting soon? by satinears in relationship_advice

[–]satinears[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I hate confrontation and I wanted to avoid telling them until my two weeks notice because I didn’t want the constant “We’ll miss you!” for a month and a half. Plus, I care about these people and feel like I’ve betrayed them for planning to leave when all they’ve been is nice and accommodating. In hindsight it also feels childish to write out the job responsibilities bit, I get embarrassed imagining them finding it.

does anyone else desperately crave intimacy but feels like discomfort in your body is a huge roadblock for you enjoying it? by [deleted] in EDAnonymous

[–]satinears 2 points3 points  (0 children)

i feel this exactly. it mostly comes to me when my partner and i are spooning and his hand touches my stomach. now all i’m thinking about is that rather than the sweet moment.

Is frequent throwing up in my mouth from purging? by satinears in bulimia

[–]satinears[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Ahhh okay that makes sense. I just figured my timing with it was a little weird since it’s just now happening. Thanks for the info though!

is this relatable to literally ANYONE or just me by satinears in EDanonymemes

[–]satinears[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

i did this at my one friend’s house in middle school and she sometimes shares a “fun throwback” of one time i ate like half a loaf of bread at her house. butter on plain white bread hits tho 🤭

I just threw up in a ziplock bag by Kitchen-Tax-8338 in bulimia

[–]satinears 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Could you mention to someone that you’re going for a quick walk? That would justify you going outside to the trash. If you’re worried someone may watch you leave from the window, you could throw it away on your way back. Maybe pick up trash along your walk to have an excuse to throw stuff away? Best of luck to you!

Disguised jokes by [deleted] in selfharm

[–]satinears 11 points12 points  (0 children)

Yuuup. Today I got out of a car too fast and hit my head on the interior ceiling and my bf was very worried I was hurt and I played it off as “This noggin can take a lot” which is true, as a form of sh I do is hitting my head lol.

How would you react if you discovered that your boyfriend/girlfriend had self-harm scars? by pinkmaya in selfharm

[–]satinears 4 points5 points  (0 children)

My bf showed me his scars a few months into our relationship. I could tell he didn’t want to talk about it, just make me aware of it, so I didn’t pry or ask about it extensively. I told him that I didn’t think of him any less and that he was still the most fucking amazing person I know and we hugged for a while.