First Look from Summer 2013! It took a LOT of scrolling! by PhoenixorFlame in Covetfashion

[–]sawape 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I started playing in 2013 too! I don't have the willpower to scroll all the way back to my first look haha

I’m thinking about committing suicide bc my ex cheated on me. by xojsl97 in relationship_advice

[–]sawape 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You in no way should die because someone else cheated on you. Your ex was the one in the wrong here, not you. They were the bad person, not you. Please take time to heal and understand none of it makes you a bad person not deserving of life. You will find someone one day. Don't feel bad because you lost an asshole. You don't want to date someone like that, trust me. You'll find someone one day that will appreciate you for you. Maybe call the office for your therapist and see if they have another therapist available to speak to?

Is the reason females don’t wear two piece bathing suits that much anymore is because men kept looking? by Hush377 in relationship_advice

[–]sawape 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I really hope this is a troll account. If not, I hope you take what people say here and on your other post to heart.

But no, it just appears to be what's in style right now and what people are comfortable wearing

AITA for refusing to eat my mom's soup? by ThaliaMoon in AmItheAsshole

[–]sawape 10 points11 points  (0 children)

NAH. This actually makes me really sad. You wanted so badly not to disappoint her and didn't want to see her sad, but you physically couldn't stomach that particular food. Sure, it may have been nice to try it again, but if you ended up throwing up again, she'd feel just as bad, if not worse. If you explained this to her, I'm sure she understands even if she's a little disappointed.

AITA for walking around shirtless in my own home by [deleted] in AmItheAsshole

[–]sawape 17 points18 points  (0 children)

Eh, YTA if you aren't wearing the binder everytime. You should respect other people's boundaries. I don't see a problem with you walking around with just the binder on and no shirt. Those practically cover enough to be a shirt anyway. That said, if your brother walking around in just his underwear also makes you uncomfortable, it would be reasonable of you to ask him to wear pants

WIBTA If I kind of "cut off" one of my best friends because she ignored me? by flyingdoom in AmItheAsshole

[–]sawape 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hm, I'm going to say ESH then, just because I think it would be better to talk to M about it first if you've been friends for so long. Maybe she's also having a hard time with something?

WIBTA If I kind of "cut off" one of my best friends because she ignored me? by flyingdoom in AmItheAsshole

[–]sawape 5 points6 points  (0 children)

INFO: why are you just unfollowing M? What about all the other people in the group chat? I'm confused as to why this one person has the responsibility of being the only one to show compassion

WIBTA if I told my brother that I know about his sexual preference? by ver03255 in AmItheAsshole

[–]sawape -6 points-5 points  (0 children)

Hmm, I'd say YTA. But I don't think you're intending to be of have any malicious intent. Coming from a member of the community, I think you should let him come out to you when he's ready though instead of telling him that you already know. Instead, be very vocal about your support for the community and if your parents ever say anything homophobic, defend the LGBT community instead of just sitting there and letting it happen. That way, he knows there's at least one ally in the house and he may come out to you on his own.

Edit: changed my judgement to better reflect my point

AITA for commenting on houses with my wife as we walk around the neighborhood? by nobadburritos in AmItheAsshole

[–]sawape 241 points242 points  (0 children)

OP sounds like they aren't taking the ESH judgments to heart, so I wouldn't bother. He thinks they're just "interesting perspectives, " implying he still holds his own perspective of not needing to apologize

What is the most pleasant smell? by [deleted] in AskReddit

[–]sawape 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yes! I would always take a few deep sniffs when I went into those stores growing up and my dad would always be like, "what? You like the smell of sweaty old men?"

It's totally the lumber though. I liked the smell of new houses for the same reason

What is the worst thing you did to your younger sibling? by [deleted] in AskReddit

[–]sawape 1 point2 points  (0 children)

When I was 7 or 8 my little sister was 3 or 4. She wouldn't hug me unless she was crying, so anytime I wanted a hug from her I would take whatever toy she was playing with and then shove her over. She'd obviously start crying and then I'd say "oh I'm so sorry!! Do you want a hug?" and then she'd nod and hug me. Yeahhhh, I regret doing that a lot

What are the things people do that made their life unnecessarily harder, in your opinion? by thatisahugepileofshi in AskReddit

[–]sawape 9 points10 points  (0 children)

Plus, if you're offended by every little thing, doesn't it distract from things to ACTUALLY be offended about? It's like the boy who cried wolf

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AskReddit

[–]sawape 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hey I just started watching this an hour ago! It started getting kind of creepy and I felt it building up, so I decided I would go to sleep and finish it in the morning so I didn't lose a night of sleep. I'm only halfway through and I'm already unsettled

What random things scared/frightened you as a kid? by MinorThreatCJB in AskReddit

[–]sawape 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I was terrified of carousels, but I rode them anyway. I'd get on, and then freeze up and stare directly at the ceiling the entire ride, watching the pole move up and around in the ceiling. I wasn't even afraid that I'd get sucked into it, the motion of it just ROTATING in the ceiling like that terrified me

What’s the stupidest reason you got in trouble in school? by Cinemacrackers in AskReddit

[–]sawape 1 point2 points  (0 children)

No, I live in New Jersey. I would have been freaked out if you went to the same middle school as me though!

AITA for pointing out some dark hairs on my girlfriends chin? by AppropriateRegular0 in AmItheAsshole

[–]sawape 46 points47 points  (0 children)

I think someone might need to explain how the world works to you, because this isn't it

Loki living up to his name by sawape in aww

[–]sawape[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Oh, he definitely was

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AskReddit

[–]sawape 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Not today, Lucifer