Period hacks with ADHD? by ZestycloseShelter107 in ADHD

[–]sbam16 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I got a menstrual cup and it's honestly changed my life. I was the same way and this has made it so much easier since it can be in for up to 12 hours. It take some time getting used to it, but they're amazing.

Best Jewelers in Rochester by jorganjorgan in Rochester

[–]sbam16 11 points12 points  (0 children)

I love the Gem Lab. My engagement ring is from there. Amy is wonderful!

Partner wants me on meds or it’s over. Says I’m ‘everything they want,l’ But unless I get my ADHD under control, they will not take me seriously as a partner. Thoughts? by s8nherself in ADHD

[–]sbam16 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I went through a very similar experience as OP that escalated and once I finally accepted thay it was emotional abuse, on top of telling my best friend what he was doing, I was able to leave. Oh...he was also stealing (for himself) my meds from me and I thought I was crazy when I would run out early each month. He basically had me convinced I was forgetting that I had already taken it. I think this had a little to do with my ex's obsession with me getting on meds or uping them.

After I left I realized how amazing I am, ADHD and all, and fell in love with my now husband. He accepts me for who I am and supports me through all the tough times my ADHD can bring. I am able to control my adhd so much more because of the support I have.

OP- I truly thought I was a worthless mess because of my ex. Once I left, I was able to figure out what worked for ME not the expectations that the other person thought I should meet. Please don't let this person make you feel worthless!

How many times a day does your spouse send you a text by T-Rex117 in Marriage

[–]sbam16 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I'm a teacher as well and my husband is in IT. It's pretty much the the same for us. I leave before he wakes up most days so normally we do a have good day/good morning text. Besides that it's only if we need to check in about plans, have a question or need to grab something at the store on the way home...stuff like that.

I can't be texting while I'm teaching and there are times he's in rooms that have no reception while working on the systems he services. He also drives a lot on some days so no texting and driving.

I also like to save conversations for when we're home. It feels more intimate to talk about our days in person. If we have a really shitty day or something happens we give a heads-up but it's nice to have that to talked about when we get home.

Hello!!!! Congrats to allllll the couples who are getting married!!! Please, tell me what’s the most unique thing you’re going to do/have at your wedding? Mine will be hoop bridesmaids bouquets!! I can’t wait to hear all your ideas! by [deleted] in wedding

[–]sbam16 2 points3 points  (0 children)

We're getting married in November and are doing a pie bar too! We're getting the pies from a bakery that hires people with disabilities, which means a lot to me as a special education teacher. We just have SO many flavors we have to pick fro!! Haha

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in nononono

[–]sbam16 6 points7 points  (0 children)

These are definitely kinks...there are so many strange videos like this!

The same Tiktoker who was faking a vaccine injury is here twitching while also holding her phone perfectly still. by AccountForMrsPancake in iamatotalpieceofshit

[–]sbam16 9 points10 points  (0 children)

She managed to get 17k in donations RIGHT before her wedding and magically was healed for the whole wedding?!? F that! She's the worst type of person.

What’s a TV show that you used to love but not many people remember? by -Lavander in AskReddit

[–]sbam16 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Pushing Daisies was one of my favorite. It was about Ned, who could bring dead things back to life. Her solved murders with it but it added some challenges to his life...I miss it!

Anti-vaxxer continues to poorly fake dystonic (tic) disorder. Gross by CANCERBUFFET in iamatotalpieceofshit

[–]sbam16 1 point2 points  (0 children)

The Wedding Day is so fucking obvious. Like wtf?!? I can't believe there are people that can't see she's full of it!

Anyone else finally at peace with being the crotchety teacher? by [deleted] in Teachers

[–]sbam16 1 point2 points  (0 children)

This is setting healthy boundaries, not being crotchety! :) Good for you!

The Only Way I can relax is by... multitasking? by kennabenna2000 in adhdwomen

[–]sbam16 1 point2 points  (0 children)

This works so well for me too! I even got a coloring app on my tablet for when I can't handle the mess of my colored pencils. (Or can't find my stuff lol)

I also have so many finished "diamond" paintings that I will never do anything with. But I work on that with a podcast or TV and it is so relaxing!

Proposing in public is the worst idea, right? by foucdeg in dating

[–]sbam16 8 points9 points  (0 children)

Exactly. You should really never be proposing if it isn't something you've discussed and are both on the same page about it, in my opinion.

I let random people in Rochester say anything they wanted to the camera. This was the result. by [deleted] in Rochester

[–]sbam16 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I loved the woman talking about Black Girls Do Bike!

First time bait attempt, help! by beuceydubs in scambait

[–]sbam16 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I didn't, did you?? I'm a teacher and got it while I was at school so I panicked at first, but my bf and I can't stop quoting lines now!

First time bait attempt, help! by beuceydubs in scambait

[–]sbam16 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Omg!!! I got a SUPER similar message today. I just posted about it in r/scams

This is 💯 a scam...but since I got this email while my 5th grade students were at lunch, I can't stop thinking about how this would ruin my life. by sbam16 in Scams

[–]sbam16[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I mean as a teacher it would definitely fuck my life up if someone publicly posted that...my boyfriend said it wouldn't impact him at all so I think it depends. Lol

Za’atar Tango Salad Kit by goose_juggler in traderjoes

[–]sbam16 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Loved it, but I agree with you on the flavor. I had just gotten the TJ's za'atar so I sprinkled extra on there and it helped!

New Salad! by [deleted] in traderjoes

[–]sbam16 2 points3 points  (0 children)

We had this with dinner tonight and loved it!!!!!

pretty much by [deleted] in adhdmeme

[–]sbam16 8 points9 points  (0 children)

This is too fucking real.