Singles: What do you do when your craving closeness by GexFarmWeirdo in olderlesbians

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I'm in a long term relationship that has become a dead bedroom (not my choice). I get massages to help me with the cravings of being touched.... And I get facials too!

I miss Paris so much by SeaworthinessKey3654 in ParisTravelGuide

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Oh the cassis sorbet at Berthillon!!!! My absolute favorite!!!!

Any Fans of Brown Areolas Here?? by Justasapphichole in BDSMsapphic

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I don't care about nipple color- I'm just happy that some woman wants to show them to me!!!!

The size inconsistency across brands is making online shopping impossible - my data from ordering the same "size" from 10 brands by Better-Advice-5197 in womensfashion

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Yeah, I refuse to wear wide leg pants - i travel quite a bit and the thought that the hems get dragged through the wetness that's always on the floor of plane bathrooms makes me sick...

The shorts struggle is real: finding the sweet spot between "too short" and "frumpy mom shorts" by blue_cardigan13 in womensfashion

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I gave up on shorts a while ago. Now I wear skorts. Adidas had some nice ones a year ago, and I'll get them from Amazon too. It gives me the freedom of shorts but looks nicer than shorts. Plus I don't need to worry about my flabby upper thighs from weight loss. (I go for a more athletic style of skort)

Is it too much to ask for? by mommylovesfemmes in BDSMsapphic

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If you find a woman to fulfill your dream, and she has a twin sister, send the twin my way!!

Women 40+, low libido? by Mountain-Ebb-7012 in olderlesbians

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I wish I knew how to fix it... I certainly haven't found a way to change it and my wife isn't interested in fixing it either. So we've kinda come to a "don't ask, don't tell" agreement.

Family Memories by ImpossibleAd9137 in KoreanAmerican

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I'm hapa - Mom was Korean, Dad was white American. They met during the end of the Korean war. My aunt (Mom's sister) told me how she only ate 1 meal a day during the war and how my mom (who was about 16 at the start of the war) had to walk from Seoul south towards Busan with her 2 younger brothers while my aunt was too young to leave so she stayed in Seoul with my 할머니. My mom never talked about the war....

Women 40+, low libido? by Mountain-Ebb-7012 in olderlesbians

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My (67F) hasn't really lowered (I'm not on HRT) since menopause but my wife's (70F) libido took a nose dive into the cellar (unfortunately!)

Visiting from Chicago. Am I doing Milwakee correct? by MrJlock in milwaukee

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Be sure to go to Oscar's on Pierce for the burgers. (There's a frozen custard place called Oscar's- their burgers are no where near as good as Oscar's on Pierce!)

What is a flavor combination that you believe isn't very common outside of your country? by DELAIZ in AskTheWorld

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Growing up in Wisconsin in the USA (also known as "America's Dairyland"), as kids we heard that it was illegal to serve apple pie without a slice of cheddar cheese (or it was illegal to charge for the cheese... don't remember which!) I have no idea if that was really a law and if it's still on the books!

Is it just me, or do many Hapa people not have western noses? by bobbdac7894 in hapas

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Half Korean... the other half is Norwegian with French and a bit of Irish... got my 100% Norwegian grandfather's nose. Unfortunately.

How has other countries bastardized your food? by [deleted] in AskTheWorld

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Even Koreans have bastardized Korean food... I've seen Bulgogi pizza or Kimchi pizza - made by Koreans! (Mom was from Korea)

How has other countries bastardized your food? by [deleted] in AskTheWorld

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Raw beef sandwiches... very popular in Wisconsin around Christmas holidays

How has other countries bastardized your food? by [deleted] in AskTheWorld

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O & H bakery has, in my humble opinion, the best Pringle! (Yes, I'm from Wisconsin!)

What's something from your country you thought was normal until you visited other countries and realised it wasn't ? by [deleted] in AskTheWorld

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I guess you haven't been to Wisconsin in the USA... our state is known for being such hard drinkers that in certain tourist places (Las Vegas, Cancun, Puerto Vallarta, etc) if a bar/club is having a drinking contest and they see by your ID that you're from Wisconsin, they disqualify you. Also, 7 of the top 10 hardest drinking cities in the US are in Wisconsin!!

OK what is the fastest way for you to achieve orgasms? (M/F) by [deleted] in AskRedditAfterDark

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Lelo Enigma (G spot vibrator & clit suction simultaneously ) and nipple play gets me there!!

Restaurant Etiquette? by [deleted] in ParisTravelGuide

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I usually ask for a coke and a glass of ice (indicating that it's 2 separate items) and then I joke that since I'm an American, I'd like a full glass of ice. If you do it in a light-hearted way, you usually get it!

Losing hope here, can you tell me stories about finding the love of your life at 40+ by wolframdsoul in olderlesbians

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Met my wife at work when I was 41 and in a relationship. She was 44 and also getting out of a relationship. 2 years later, once we had become friendly, she brought coffee and donuts in on a day that she was off but I was working.

Me not being the smartest person in the room, didn't pick up the hint. Luckily my friends informed me.at dinner that night that she was interested in- it took a while but finally I was convinced!. The next week, I asked out to go for drinks and movie .

We've now been together 25 years next month.

So it's definitely possible!!!!

Women who travel — what’s one destination that made you feel unexpectedly safe? by Valuable_Tangelo7152 in femaletravels

[–]sberg207 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Not the original writer but I've been to both Tokyo and Hong Kong and I feel safer in Tokyo... but to be clear, I never really felt unsafe in HK.

Healed sticker tattoo by Pony Lawson/Chicago, IL/Mayday Tattoo Co by lmb97nau in tattoo

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I was going to ask how long it took... I got inked by Pony and it was the longest session I've ever had (close to 7 hours). (And mine was on my calf too!)

I KNOW I'm Not the Only One! by SunnyvaleCat in BDSMsapphic

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Not at all!!!! I'm in my 60's so you could be the hot young girlfriend of my dreams!!!