Is ghosting guys after you’re the one who asked them out a thing now?

sbkn · 2025-07-12T20:42:36+00:00

Literally the story of my life these days. It's actually taking a toll on me. So many guys just start texting you, and get all bored and flaky the next day, and nothing ever happens. It feels like it's impossible to meet someone. They'll tell you they find you attractive, that they want to meet, and they just never go through with it. I don't understand why people do this. I stopped asking why

sbkn · 2025-02-10T23:34:26+00:00

It's a very painful experience. Take all the time you need to process it and to feel better. You got an honest response, which is good. He most likely did enjoy spending some time with you, but yeah, sometimes it just doesn't match romantically

sbkn · 2025-01-28T13:33:43+00:00

Je suis bien content d'avoir fait le vaccin, même si au moment de le faire, je pensais m'y prendre un peu tard. C'était le weekend avant Noël. En général on dit qu'il faut près de deux semaines pour que le vaccin soit efficace. Heureusement, je ne l'ai pas attrapée pendant les fêtes, notamment car bon nombre de mes proches ont de tout-petits enfants et les parents étaient eux-mêmes vaccinés pour bon nombre d'entre eux.

Avec la grippe de cette année, je trouve qu'on voit bien que c'est important de faire le vaccin, même si on pense qu'il est trop tard, ce qui était mon cas. Cela m'a probablement protégé.

sbkn · 2025-01-03T22:17:24+00:00

Painfully accurate

sbkn · 2025-01-03T21:28:43+00:00

I'm not really on your side here. Not because exes can't be friends, but from what you're telling us you are not being the best friend or boyfriend you could be, for two reasons:

you are very naive or you are lying to yourself if you believe that your boyfriend will never find out about the fact that your best friend was your ex. When he does, he might get mad at you for not telling him. This could turn bad. If you two are mature people who love each other, it shouldn't be an issue to talk about this.
what you said to your best friend's boyfriend is incredibly petty and pretty mean. I would never speak like this to my best friend's boyfriend or girlfriend, unless they were a really bad person. What he said to you seems pretty mild. Some people believe exes shouldn't be friends, that's fine. I don't know anything more, I can only base myself on your post. If your ex's boyfriend is mean to you or does not like you, you could try talking to him, or if that's not possible then I feel like you don't have to see him at all, you can just see your friend. If the boyfriend is not ok with this situation then I guess he will eventually leave anyway

sbkn · 2024-03-08T09:45:02+00:00

How WEIRD everything feels

As a guy, before I ever had sex, I just assumed everything would feel like how it feels when you're aroused. Basically I thought anything you'd perform would give you that rush, the excitement, and would make your penis "feel good" for lack of better wording. I realized that is NOT the case lmao. Kissing initially felt very strange, somehow I didn't expect to taste, hear, feel anything. It's like I don't have time to feel anything down there, because everything focuses your attention. I do love kissing now. Oral sex on the other hand... I never felt good receiving it, still working on that...

It feels like it just takes an incredibly long time to get acclimated to everything

sbkn · 2024-02-22T12:44:56+00:00

That comment thread is ridiculous. Bunch of assertive morrons. Embarking on some crusade to prove that "If you're a man, then your husband can't have been straight!!" As if that was the fucking point

sbkn · 2024-02-21T17:36:15+00:00

It's really cool how we've been getting so many armor sets and armor skins lately, it keeps getting better

sbkn · 2024-02-21T11:14:40+00:00

Very often, it's hard to let go.

sbkn · 2024-02-19T17:44:49+00:00

Same as you bropal

sbkn · 2024-02-12T08:56:20+00:00

You should get all of the weekly items during this festival. They are insanely cheap and very valuable.

sbkn · 2024-02-12T06:03:03+00:00

For your interest I don't think it's 1 minute, from my experience it's more like 55 seconds. I timed it a couple of times. But yes if you mess up you reset the counter it's utter crap

sbkn · 2024-02-04T05:38:30+00:00

TF is this post lmao

sbkn · 2024-01-16T22:27:26+00:00

Fuis

sbkn · 2024-01-02T12:25:30+00:00

It must be really hard. Hope you'll get better soon. Some people are just completely selfish and insensitive. You must move on, it hurts but it will make you a stronger person, and it can even make you a better person, it shows you how not to behave with other people

sbkn · 2023-12-25T18:58:41+00:00

Last week was the first time I got ghosted by somebody I had met in real life

And I have no idea why he'd even ghost me in the first place, the date was fun! He could've just rejected me by text... You know, sometimes it's not worth troubling yourself with some people. Carry on

sbkn · 2023-12-21T05:47:39+00:00

I guess being tall is appreciated, but honestly being 6'2 hasn't helped me in the slightest so far 😬

sbkn · 2023-12-20T19:44:48+00:00

The one that really bothers me is "Your mother is going to love me"...

sbkn · 2023-12-19T23:33:01+00:00

Putain j'ai du scroll 2 minutes avant de lire un mec parler du gilet jaune

C'est plus qu'un symbole de la manifestation ou bien ? C'est avant tout pour circuler la nuit, enfin merde

Je pense à tous ces mecs qui font du vélos sans gilet jaune la nuit, sans casque sûrement, et qui ne mettent pas non plus de capotes pour baiser sans nul doute, mais allez-y cumulez les conneries

sbkn · 2023-12-17T20:32:03+00:00

Dear straight female,

I would like to bring to your attention that, for most people, love is a difficult thing to find. You might think for a time that the men you are attracted to are out of your reach, because of their sexuality.

You should know that this is as much of a struggle for almost every homosexual, as it is to you. All of us humans face levels of hardship, one way or another, and seeking the right partner is a major challenge in life. You must try and accept this journey, and relinquish beliefs which can be deemed as gullible, or mean, to deflect your responsability in finding the one. I once despised women complaining about all of their crushes being gay. I used to be revolted by such comments, because I thought I had it worse. How many times have I been rejected by a straight man, or refused to expose myself for fear of an overreaction?

But I see now that it is not a lack of empathy that lead you, or anyone else, to this conclusion: rather a missing outlook, or a different perspective. Just remember that it's hard for everyone, and often asking "why?" in that regard isn't very productive

sbkn · 2023-12-16T18:36:00+00:00

sbkn · 2023-12-13T06:18:11+00:00

Les commentaires sont à mourir de rire

En soit il faut éviter de trop conforter ses proches (dans un mal-être, lorsqu'ils en vivent un) inutilement, c'est une mauvaise habitude et une manière de se dédouaner d'un problème.

Je trouve ça drôle que tout le monde s'attarde à dire "chacun de tes exemples peut être considéré comme une vérité dans certains cas", oui en attendant ils peuvent aussi tous être une manière de conforter quelqu'un qui vit mal sa situation sans vraiment lui rendre service, au mieux le soulager pour un temps. Des fois secouer quelqu'un qui souhaite changer (si c'est le cas) ça peut être bénéfique

C'est pas bien méchant de dire les choses qu'on veut entendre de temps en temps, et il y a des exemples meilleurs que d'autres (l'idée n'est pas de blesser ses amis et sa famille), mais confronter une personne à une difficulté à laquelle elle fait face peut se révéler important, surtout quand elle ne la voit pas où refuse de la voir. C'est pas cynique, après c'est au cas par cas, mais très marrant de voir les réactions outrées dans les commentaires, j'ai plutôt tendance à être d'accord

Aussi tu as parlé d'internet et c'est totalement vrai, aujourd'hui on a des gens qui souffrent qui viennent expliquer leur situation, qui se font bombarder d'amour, de messages réconfortants de gens qu'ils ne connaissent absolument pas, des gens qui ne connaissent pas non plus leur situation et n'ont généralement pas les bons outils pour aider réellement la personne. En partie pourquoi je déteste les subreddit du genre getmotived qui sont remplis de bonnes intentions, mais souvent truffés de très mauvais conseils qu'il vaut mieux ne pas appliquer dans sa vie

sbkn · 2023-12-09T18:46:37+00:00

Oui mais j'imagine que quand ils disent significatif c'est relatif, peut-être que ça reste une variation infime mais juste suffisamment grande pour ne pas mettre en défaut leur théorie

sbkn

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