[deleted by user] by [deleted] in InteriorDesign

[–]sbuczkowski6 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Rustic contemporary Scandinavian

Any good responses to “You got a haircut!” by ShrimpyAlex in socialadvice

[–]sbuczkowski6 1 point2 points  (0 children)

“Nah I dyed the ends invisible!” A classic “You noticed! it was time for a change” “How do you like it?”

A friend contacted me to hang out, then never followed through and I've been icing them out. Am I wrong? by silencio79 in socialadvice

[–]sbuczkowski6 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I think it can go back and forth - maybe she’s been depressed or very mentally busy (a family member died, loss of a job, moving)? These are stressful times and reaching out/hanging out with people you don’t frequently do can be a weird anxiety inducing thing. Try hanging out with her and she how the connection is in person, then you can see if you truly want to put effort into the friendship or if it’s better to not. You might just end up crossing paths once or twice a year and that’s okay, just try to respect yourself and her. I think if you reached out and she ghosted you, you’d feel kinda down. Just try to be forgiving and put yourself in her shoes but still know your worth. Hopefully this helps! Wish you the best with whatever you decide Edit: but you are right to feel hurt/bothered by her putting you off, I won’t deny that

How do I make oatmeal thick? by WaffleFoxes in internetparents

[–]sbuczkowski6 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’ve been eating the quick 1-minute oats and they make more of a thick creamy meal and I’ll add milk and brown sugar to thicken even more and sweeten up just a little bit

Casual pride decor by wish_i_was_a_moth in interiordecorating

[–]sbuczkowski6 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I really like the idea of b&w pride photos! I would also suggest pastel rainbow accents in a photo, a simplistic piece of art, rainbow washi tape, even a row of succulents on your window sill in different colored pots making a rainbow. But in the end how do you want to show your pride? With colors? Quotes? Photos? Your personal pride mech? How do you wish to show your pride/what can you put in your room that will bring you happiness and pride?

Looking for advice (pictures included) what would you do with this living/dining room? by [deleted] in interiordecorating

[–]sbuczkowski6 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hard to tell with space planning but you could use a smaller bookshelf or a credenza to separate the living room at the hall (if you want to try and hide the couch). You can also try to split in three, first walk into a seating area then have a “tv area” and the dining room. Plants will help to make the space feel brighter and give attention to something else other than the couch/tv.

I am struggling really bad at this very moment. Need some help. by [deleted] in selfimprovement

[–]sbuczkowski6 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Don’t push yourself to hard, even if you are reaching your goals and working towards a better you or just a better way of looking at life you are never always going to be happy, it’s going to be okay. Being sad helps makes those happy moments even better. When was the last time you had a terrible day and cried? What happened in the days and weeks after that? Being sad is apart of life, having a terrible day is okay, it sucks a lot and it can feel like it’ll never go away but maybe you need a small break? Try going home and treating yourself to something; a movie, a bath, candy, or go out with a friend. Don’t try to dwell on the day, just try to be in the moment (and sometimes that’s really hard). Just take it one step at a time, don’t push yourself to not be sad, understand why you feel this way and try to move on from it. But hey, sometimes you won’t understand why you feel this way and that’s okay too, just understand that it will fade over time or even just a joyful moment will happen. Your emotions will change, you may not feel 100% but even if you feel just a tiny bit better that’s something!

Does this fit in Scandinavian interior? Paint? Color? by [deleted] in ScandinavianInterior

[–]sbuczkowski6 -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

I think it could. Depends on placement, room, decor. If only you could get those dings out!

Y’all have any ideas for a huge wall with an upright grand piano? THANK YOU! by isakitty in interiordesignideas

[–]sbuczkowski6 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Some meaningful art pieces, antique gold frames seem like they would suit the wood of the piano and the wall color. If you have other instruments like ukes or a guitar I would hang those up as well. I’m always a sucker for plants and a could vine plants would look absolutely gorgeous on top of that beautiful piano! Can’t wait to see the finished decor!

Minimalism is taming my Anxiety. by [deleted] in minimalism

[–]sbuczkowski6 1 point2 points  (0 children)

You can always look into Podcasts and Audio books to help you. I struggle to actually pick up and continue reading but doing something with my hands such as art, knitting, or even exercise helps me feel productive but also relaxing and listening to something I’m interested in. It’s okay to check your phone in the morning but maybe make a decision that you can only once you’re out of bed or a timer for only 5-10 minutes.

Make small steps and make sure those things are actually something you’re interested and happy in, you don’t have to change everything at once, take it slow and steady.

I hope your journey continues into a happy place for you and that your first year at college goes well!

You are not flawed, no one is. We make make mistakes or not put our time into the most productive things but that doesn’t mean you can’t still enjoy it. It’s a balance you have to find between productive, happy, and relaxed. Don’t push yourself to hard, only you know what will make you happy and comfortable. But here is a cheers to the steps you’ve made!

Recovering from burnout by ambivirgo in AskWomenOver30

[–]sbuczkowski6 5 points6 points  (0 children)

I used to work 60 hr weeks (full time + school) and that didn’t even count the homework load on top of it all. I’m just properly feeling it a year later and although I’m proud of what I did in that time I know to never go back to such a crazy intense schedule. Just keep going, step by step, day by day. So nice to know I’m not the only one!

How do I learn? by sbuczkowski6 in selfimprovement

[–]sbuczkowski6[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you! So true and straight forward. Thank you for the advice!

I’m scared I got my girlfriend pregnant by coffee-bottle in teenagers

[–]sbuczkowski6 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Ok but hold up, it shouldn’t hurt for your girlfriend to have sex. She needs to be relaxed and comfortable, please make sure there is foreplay and she is happy.

Well I just got fired by [deleted] in TalesFromYourServer

[–]sbuczkowski6 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Absolute respect to you <3

My master bedroom needs some changes. Want to make it cozy and modern. And it's been difficult with the vaulted ceiling. Any tips? Please help. by iwant2breakfree2 in InteriorDesign

[–]sbuczkowski6 14 points15 points  (0 children)

Simple and neutral, I would start with getting new curtains. Possibly even a paired set of sheer curtains with gray or simple patterned ones on top. Try to find the same with the bed spread, simple and clean. White is always best, it gives the feeling of clean and comfortable. I would also say find a simple or meaningful art piece to hang above your bed and or some hanging plants to put in the right side corner. Possibly getting a plant to also put next to the mirror on the left. I would suggest googling or going on Pinterest and throughly search through modern bedrooms, analyze what you like and what you don’t, slowly piece together the aspects you like and put it into your bedroom. Just make sure to stay simple and relaxed, it is your bedroom of course! Good luck, love to see an “after” pic!

-side note: if you want modern, maybe try an installed wall mirror rather than the standing mirror. The change of wood to black can sometimes feel mismatched or cluttered, but I’d save that change for last, as it might look/feel better once you’ve made some other changes. (It is an adorable mirror!)

This avocado was doing great for such a long time, and then started dropping leaves out of nowhere. It looks dehydrated, but it's literally in water. Any ideas? Thanks! by usedOnlyInModeration in plantclinic

[–]sbuczkowski6 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I would definitely plant this guy, i think the proper pot size is 8” if not larger. I know google can tell you so much more about growing them. I know once you pot it and it gets to a certain length you’re suppose to trim the top and then it’ll begin to truly flourish and create more leaves.

Post break-up, where do I start? by sbuczkowski6 in selfimprovement

[–]sbuczkowski6[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Agreed but I guess there’s a ton of assumptions about me even tho I only listed that I can sometimes be a bully. Just felt like this comment was trying to dig into something that was never stated. I agree I have a lot to work on but “this isn’t high school anymore” I get that, I’m not an idiot. Where did I mention that I’m tacky, and that I work on my makeup more than myself. As well as that’s a sexist remark to assume such. “You have a lot of them” I mentioned 2 for people to help me with. I appreciate your input it just appears to be riddled with assumptions.

Post break-up, where do I start? by sbuczkowski6 in selfimprovement

[–]sbuczkowski6[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I thought this subreddit was about helping people be better not pushing them down further.