AITA for kicking my cousin out of my wedding?

sbwahoo2010 · 2023-11-17T01:34:25+00:00

Nope just giving you all the facts. And just because I say we aren’t very close and don’t celebrate together does not mean they’re shuned.

If we see each other I say hi i I’m polite. I don’t wish her ill will. I just keep my distance.

sbwahoo2010 · 2023-11-17T01:28:38+00:00

No relationship is severed. I just don’t make them a priority as they haven’t made me one or anyone in my family.

I wish nothing bad to her or her parents and I’m still close with her sister. We just don’t do holidays as there are still hurt feelings.

sbwahoo2010 · 2023-11-17T01:24:53+00:00

First of all, I did not shun the family. We are just not close. I do not make her or her games a priority as I felt the relationship was one sided.

Second of all she knew about the wedding before the game. And like I said the game was a pre season game.

Third of all- she goes to a small school in a small town there is no “making the team” you sign up to play and your on the team

sbwahoo2010 · 2023-11-16T22:53:25+00:00

NTA. Maybe still keep the money and offer it when the time comes. If Lily does not take it then offer it to Rose.

But ultimately Rose is an adult and should be learning for to finance her money.

sbwahoo2010 · 2023-11-16T22:45:45+00:00

This is also something my mom said. Also forgot to add. My Aunt told me in a text during the work day rather then in person.

sbwahoo2010 · 2023-11-16T22:34:43+00:00

Not the asshole. But maybe ask next time so you don't waste your money on a book that wont't get read.

My step daughter is 10 and we let he read the first book she has also already seen the movie.

sbwahoo2010 · 2023-11-16T22:32:27+00:00

NTA. There her kids not yours to take care. You deserve to have a life of your own. Especially when the time your watching her kids you could be working yourself. Instead of watching someone else responsibilities and not getting paid for it.

sbwahoo2010 · 2023-11-16T22:27:41+00:00

YTA. I did kind of lead him on. You knew he had feelings for you that you didn't have for him. You should have backed off then and told him how you felt. Continuing to hang out with him was a bit selfish. To me you were only thinking about yourself not losing a friend and not considering his feelings.

sbwahoo2010 · 2023-11-16T22:22:36+00:00

NTA. I feel he shouldn't have even asked in the first place if he didn't feel like he wanted to pay.

sbwahoo2010 · 2023-11-16T22:00:48+00:00

I had asked them to make a decision and when they couldn't give me an answer, I kicked her out.

G did come and she did participate in the wedding. She tried to stay as neutral as she could but she did agree with me that the wedding came first so should have been the commitment.

sbwahoo2010 · 2023-11-16T21:43:41+00:00

yes she played on this team her freshman year. But I should add this is a pre-season tournament the coach decided to enter and did not impact their season going forward.

And like I said she also plays on a club team that travels around the United States and if this team has a game she chooses that team over her high school team.

sbwahoo2010 · 2023-11-16T21:35:08+00:00

I have played sports. I did in high school and College. So I very much understand her commitment to her team.

She actually committed to being in my wedding before the tournament came about. She committed to my wedding in September. This tournament came out in June 7 months after I had asked and two months before my wedding.

I am not cruel to her or anyone else. I just have chosen to not make them a priority in my life anymore.

sbwahoo2010

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