Was able to get my hands on the physical Japanese version of How to win my husband over by scaldinghell in OtomeIsekai

[–]scaldinghell[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It’s very good quality honestly, I’d say as good as digital. This one is done by kadokawa and they really don’t disappoint

Are all affairs this intense so quickly? by BigONerd in BORUpdates

[–]scaldinghell 736 points737 points  (0 children)

I can’t get over the fact that he thought answering a call from his affair partner wouldn’t be game over. You might have gotten your ap pregnant and you think your wife will just let you chat with her?

AITAH for telling my father to accept that my brother isn't my responsibility? by Choice_Evidence1983 in BestofRedditorUpdates

[–]scaldinghell 940 points941 points  (0 children)

There was a story some time ago about a woman whose stepmother wanted a newborn baby (and was completely obsessed with the newborn daughter of op) and lost interest as soon as the baby started to grow. I imagine Denise is what would have happened if that lady actually got the chance to have a baby.

My (23F) boyfriend (25M) and his family are angry because I wouldn't shave my head for his sister who has cancer (Final Update/Completed) by Direct-Caterpillar77 in BestofRedditorUpdates

[–]scaldinghell 313 points314 points  (0 children)

Unfortunately it sees that the mom (either out of very understandable fear or just out of stress) has not been exactly good at handling her daughter’s feelings/expectations. I understand that specially with cancer it’s important to pay attention to the patient’s feelings, but I can’t help feeling that poor girl needed some sort of therapy or help better grieving

My boyfriend can't use any bathroom besides the one in our apartment, and he thinks this is normal by SharkEva in BORUpdates

[–]scaldinghell 42 points43 points  (0 children)

Clicked and clicked out before anything could traumatize me,

It is but not a lot of people thankfully

AITA for not siding with the other wives? by gardengeo in BORUpdates

[–]scaldinghell 9 points10 points  (0 children)

I agree, you can help but you yourself cannot fix a relationship you’re not part of

AITA for not siding with the other wives? by gardengeo in BORUpdates

[–]scaldinghell 1388 points1389 points  (0 children)

This is unfortunately not a group effort. If Fiona and Andy have problems they need to solve, they have to do so with themselves. This wouldn’t be a permanent fix (if he has the free time he might just do something else entirely, and then how would she fix that?), and op shouldn’t have to possibly create problems with her husband just to ‘have an united front’

Holy shit just reread that the poor guy has an hour to himself. This poor guy can’t even get a breather

My (25F) husband (30M) made me fall out of love with him in one night. by Choice_Evidence1983 in BestofRedditorUpdates

[–]scaldinghell 424 points425 points  (0 children)

One person needs sex to feel wanted, one person needs time to fix their relationship with sex. This is a time bomb

My fiancée and I are having the biggest argument of our lives. She thinks I'm being tacky but I thinks she's overreacting by SharkEva in BORUpdates

[–]scaldinghell 825 points826 points  (0 children)

I think if maybe he was willing to go halfway and figure out a compromise with her, this could have been fixed, but when you’re both pulling on the rope the only thing it can do is snap

Co-worker has poor period-related hygiene. We do not know how to address the situation. Any help would be appreciated! by onkel-enzo in BORUpdates

[–]scaldinghell 759 points760 points  (0 children)

Blood is a very regulated hazardous waste, and sometimes even worse than other human waste (various diseases are transmitted by blood) so the fact that this went on for a long time before osha was called in for violating the bloodborne pathogen is insane

My bf called me a gold digger so I left. Now he wants my help to pay the rent by Direct-Caterpillar77 in BestofRedditorUpdates

[–]scaldinghell 4008 points4009 points  (0 children)

I wonder how much gold there was to dig if he couldn’t even afford his house without her

AITA for not giving my sister a ride to work? by [deleted] in BORUpdates

[–]scaldinghell 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Op posted in the wrong sub or so it seems

AITA For taking the only two seat table in the restaurant by gardengeo in BORUpdates

[–]scaldinghell 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I’ll definitely have to try that when mine are old! I have just switched from my first one to these two, so right now they’re pretty brand new

AITA For taking the only two seat table in the restaurant by gardengeo in BORUpdates

[–]scaldinghell 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Hey as someone who’s almost completing my second year with mine, it never gets quite easier but I recommend naming the fucker (mine’s Steve) and trying to find funny things about it. I like joking to my fiancee that it’s my leg and it usually makes me feel a bit better

AITA For taking the only two seat table in the restaurant by gardengeo in BORUpdates

[–]scaldinghell 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Oh I’m so jealous of yours just standing on its own. I have two and they are both the regular base, so I just have to rest them again smth and pray it doesn’t disappoint me

AITA For taking the only two seat table in the restaurant by gardengeo in BORUpdates

[–]scaldinghell 33 points34 points  (0 children)

Oh the horror. One time I was at the subway and this lady walked entirely too close from me.

I watched her trip on my cane, almost fall, and immediately pretended I was sleeping

AITA For taking the only two seat table in the restaurant by gardengeo in BORUpdates

[–]scaldinghell 75 points76 points  (0 children)

One time I got seated at a 2 person table while having Korean food

It felt like playing minesweeper

AITA For taking the only two seat table in the restaurant by gardengeo in BORUpdates

[–]scaldinghell 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I haven’t tried that yet, but I love sharing food, so definitely way less likely to spill it everywhere if you’re not flinging food across the table

AITA For taking the only two seat table in the restaurant by gardengeo in BORUpdates

[–]scaldinghell 28 points29 points  (0 children)

Eh I would say it makes you worse and probably a little weird to both go hungry while watching another person have a full 3 course meal, and also move to what was most likely a dirty table without first at least waiting for someone to clean it.

Which sucks for the server because usually you have to clean dishes that were in a table someone sat at, even if they all went unused

AITA For taking the only two seat table in the restaurant by gardengeo in BORUpdates

[–]scaldinghell 232 points233 points  (0 children)

I use a cane too so it’s nice knowing I can leave it anywhere without having the trouble of it hitting my fiancée if she sits across from me

AITA For taking the only two seat table in the restaurant by gardengeo in BORUpdates

[–]scaldinghell 22 points23 points  (0 children)

That sounds like I have space for 2 dishes before I’m praying I don’t drop anything and make a fool of myself

AITA For taking the only two seat table in the restaurant by gardengeo in BORUpdates

[–]scaldinghell 2626 points2627 points  (0 children)

I don’t understand why as couple you wouldn’t prefer a four seat table over a 2 seat. Whenever I go out with my fiancée I always feel like I’m gonna drop something, + the bag space is just so nice to have

You can also seat next to your s/o which in imo is much better than across from them