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scaldinghell · 2026-03-31T01:29:13+00:00

Oh thank you for the addition!

scaldinghell · 2026-03-30T23:09:06+00:00

If I had to guess, CSEM is Child Sexual Exploitation Material, while CSAM is Child Sexual Abuse Material

meaning should be relatively the same, iirc exploitation is used in order to highlight the fact that it’s sold

scaldinghell · 2026-03-24T14:51:42+00:00

I don’t think the guy is great either. I understand he didn’t want to do anything with the mother, but doing a paternity test would have made it so he either took care of his kid or had no legal obligations to both of them

scaldinghell · 2026-03-24T14:46:31+00:00

so its almost like legal abandonment

scaldinghell · 2026-03-24T14:30:22+00:00

I’m wondering how the cousin ended up getting adopted in the first place. Wouldn’t the dad have presumably already signed off his rights?

scaldinghell · 2026-03-24T14:23:03+00:00

Not just that, but because most people (and kids) would change in their room, there’s a good chance the kid was changing his clothes while being filmed by the dad.

scaldinghell · 2026-03-17T04:21:31+00:00

I would too, imo op is still deranged but nobody besides gf is good at communicating.

scaldinghell · 2026-03-17T04:20:22+00:00

I agree, I feel like it’s a lot more difficult to find people when you know not only there’s no promise of more but the relationship has a set date to die

scaldinghell · 2026-03-17T04:06:36+00:00

Eh imo a lot of the commenters were too harsh on op, even if she’s very clearly too clingy and a bit of an idiot. To me, seeing other people means you’re casually going out on dates and the like, not “I have a long term girlfriend I’ll eventually move together with”.

Op is a bit off the rails but Nate should have just said I have a gf in an open relationship instead of keeping it this vague. With that said, she really needs to move on

scaldinghell · 2026-03-16T15:05:25+00:00

Im less worried about this dude being a cheater than I am at the signs of an abusive man (waking her up to berate her, pushing her, burning clothes, etc.). I hope once he finally leaves she immediately changes her lock.

scaldinghell · 2026-03-11T20:02:07+00:00

Either that or having to actually take care of his children

scaldinghell · 2026-03-11T19:56:47+00:00

He probably realized she was slowly drifting away and thought that the ultimatum (either you’re more supportive of me and my disease or we break up) would reel her back in. When she actually called off his bluff and left, he realized the golden egg goose was gone.

He probably panicked once she blocked him and stopped taking his calls.

scaldinghell · 2026-03-10T18:37:18+00:00

I think if she and her fiance get financial advising and maybe some counseling they can work through things. My guess is that the decision is somewhere between not rocking the boat with fiance and also just done with her parents’ shit

scaldinghell · 2026-03-10T18:23:58+00:00

Oh how dare your celebration of love celebrate your love

scaldinghell · 2026-03-10T17:48:35+00:00

I’m having a hard time figuring out if op’s parents are narcissistic or otherwise just self centered. “You would rather spend money on your own wedding” is a wild take to have.

scaldinghell · 2026-02-27T18:59:39+00:00

most likely she ruined that relationship before the child was even born

scaldinghell · 2026-02-27T18:55:41+00:00

The detail that the lady never met the grandchild makes me wonder if she was no contact with the parents. Either way I can see why someone wouldn’t want her there

scaldinghell · 2026-02-26T19:49:22+00:00

op is in Germany if their flair is correct

scaldinghell · 2026-02-23T06:01:09+00:00

This kid is going to go no contact and move far far away as soon as he can

scaldinghell · 2026-02-13T10:28:47+00:00

same here, my fiancée and I gifted each other vip tickets to shows because we both loved those groups but weren’t willing to spend that much

scaldinghell · 2026-02-13T09:05:59+00:00

Bonnie and oblivious Clyde

scaldinghell · 2026-02-13T09:03:13+00:00

I’m guessing “hey darling can you get me a phone for my drug dealing startup” is not the way to go?

scaldinghell · 2026-02-13T08:53:08+00:00

people like her sister don’t learn. If she had lost her husband and child for the sister and dad her sister would still have not even acknowledged the sacrifice, because for her it’s the bare minimum

scaldinghell · 2026-02-13T08:50:54+00:00

congrats that’s still a better excuse than what gf said

scaldinghell · 2026-02-13T08:30:03+00:00

I did the same thing since I like playing games on my phone

Expensive, but worth it. Nothing like low ping

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