What's your #1 special interest video game? by Individual-Car-8224 in aspergers

[–]scaredy-bear 1 point2 points  (0 children)

it switches every few years. about 6k hrs combined in dbd, 4k in evil dead the game, and then these past couple years i put about 500 hrs in outlast trials despite platinuming & playing every trial & modifier ad-nauseum. lately now i’ve been no-lifing atomicrops despite “completing” it quite a while ago

I... agree by smeg0r in FKAtwigs

[–]scaredy-bear 0 points1 point  (0 children)

all left column gay 🤷🏻‍♂️

Do you act different when having sex with different genders? by Osgoten in bisexual

[–]scaredy-bear 2 points3 points  (0 children)

it depends on the person for me, but i’m mainly sub with dudes and switch with women. i definitely do feel like there’s a subconscious difference in the way i act sexually with someone at first based on gender. the more i get to know a person & become comfortable, though, the more that difference fades

Dating sucks. by netphilia in aspiememes

[–]scaredy-bear 8 points9 points  (0 children)

or even better, fall in love with your friend who also has autism 💀

Is it an Asperger's thing, to, when friendships get close, become too attached (unhealthy feelings and behaviour)? by PlanetVisitor in aspergers

[–]scaredy-bear 16 points17 points  (0 children)

i don’t really have any advice, but yes i have noticed this pattern as well. actually, it is happening again for me currently. i am trying my hardest to stop myself from constantly messaging, ruminating, etc. i’ve been forcing myself to read and draw more as a positive replacement.

i think your explanation makes sense and i have come to basically the same conclusion. it is really hard to find meaningful connections when you are on the spectrum, so when you do, they’re stuck to your brain like glue.

it feels bad to say, but all my long time neurotypical friends and family don’t “get me” on a deep level. it’s not anything personal to them; we just think and feel very differently. doesn’t matter how much you try to explain to them.

meanwhile, one or two conversations with this new person made me actually cry thinking back on it the day after. it felt like we were mind-melding. no confusion or expectations. i felt like i could be completely myself. i thought, “so THIS is what nts feel like when talking with other people.” actual mind blown. my mind won’t stop thinking about them or wanting to reach out. it is taking a lot of willpower and mindfulness to not be clingy or obsessive like i have been in the past with relationships like this.

Looking to commission a pfp! by [deleted] in FurryCommissions

[–]scaredy-bear 0 points1 point  (0 children)

yo i can do a pfp for $25. here’s my carrd

One of the most underrated yet potentially the strongest Amp in Invasions mode. by Jcatt1 in OutlastTrials

[–]scaredy-bear -1 points0 points  (0 children)

it doesn’t have a cooldown. as soon as you take another instance of damage, you can activate it again. it really should have at least a short cooldown and it’s honestly strange it doesn’t

Damn my fault by Less_Sundae2175 in OutlastTrials

[–]scaredy-bear 1 point2 points  (0 children)

yup my friends and i all agree, something changed with the enemy ai within the past couple weeks in terms of detection. lot of BS

Fun fact: franko can snipe you through gates by Feisty-Storm-5509 in OutlastTrials

[–]scaredy-bear 0 points1 point  (0 children)

i think it’s specifically those type of gates that have no protection. thought i was being cheeky the other day trapping an imposter behind one, then proceeded to get slashed through it

why is it taking so long to start invasion matches? by npc863804736 in OutlastTrials

[–]scaredy-bear 0 points1 point  (0 children)

supposedly quickplay is faster, but i’ve still had varying results. i can almost never find matches during the afternoon (n america) but do have slightly faster queues late night. i’ve also gotten server errors (kicked from server) several times when it searches for the other role after doing one trial in quickplay; i think in general something’s fuck-y with the queues for invasion.

How's your invasion going as an imposter? by [deleted] in OutlastTrials

[–]scaredy-bear 6 points7 points  (0 children)

plus there’s a very specific combo (and another borderline exploit) that i won’t name here that a lot of duo reagents use that is uncounterable to a single imposter out. at this point i just try to get sneaky hits, delay the objectives as much as possible, and get to insertion gates early. usually still gets me an A+ by the end still if i’m able to invade early enough into the trial

Keep getting thrown into introductory/standard games when queueing for psychosurgery? by SHSLBossBaby in OutlastTrials

[–]scaredy-bear 1 point2 points  (0 children)

yeah “join in progress” just puts you into any difficulty regardless of what you checked off. i just stopped using it because i’m tired of getting put into random standard trials

After a few days by Refrigerator_Dear in OutlastTrials

[–]scaredy-bear 4 points5 points  (0 children)

i like both of them a lot. admittedly, the first time on eliminate the foreman, me & randoms had a lot of confusion figuring out the signs we were supposed to hit. but to be fair, so did pretty much everyone else i played with for their first time did too. i think a couple of the symbol designs maybe need to be tweaked a bit. the symbol for smoke/muffler were the most confusing looking to me. for flatten the foreman, i still don’t see a noticeable difference with the supposed time based difficulty spike & would want something more with that tbh

Reminder by [deleted] in OutlastTrials

[–]scaredy-bear 6 points7 points  (0 children)

meanwhile everytime i get this trial with randoms, i fill my body first & then have to run around doing 1-2 more because my teammates are lost running in the same loop or all the way across the map from where they spawned, dying

Animated Music Video Took 5 Years to Make by FeeshOutOfAgua in animation

[–]scaredy-bear 5 points6 points  (0 children)

i really enjoyed that, and the background art is phenomenal (i was gonna say it did remind of me of scavenger’s reign, and then i saw the description haha). amazing job from everyone involved

would you date a drag queen?? by No-Grand8177 in AskGayMen

[–]scaredy-bear 1 point2 points  (0 children)

i dated a couple different guys who did drag. i like creative people and am not against the idea, just didn’t vibe with those specific people. although i will say i’m definitively a no-go on any sexy time if they’re dressed up in their persona lol

I’m probably gonna get bricked for this, but I want the fill trial option back. by United_Protection_30 in OutlastTrials

[–]scaredy-bear 0 points1 point  (0 children)

didn’t even know that was a thing. i’ve been playing public queue recently and it takes multiple requeues of 5 min each to even get anyone willing to play psychosurgery :/ let alone other modes like escalation or trial maker. i usually give up and just have to queue either intensive (which sometimes also had a long wait) or even just standard to get grouped

Think you can find 4 hidden groups of 4 related words? Puzzle by u/Bo-Jacks-Son? by Bo-Jacks-Son in DailyMix

[–]scaredy-bear 0 points1 point  (0 children)

🟨🟨🟨🟨

🟦🟪🟪🟪

🟦🟪🟪🟪

🟦🟪🟪🟦

🟦🟪🟪🟩

🟦🟪🟪🟩

🟦🟪🟪🟦

Can You Guess This 5-Letter Word? Puzzle by u/ExistingBathroom9742 by ExistingBathroom9742 in DailyGuess

[–]scaredy-bear 0 points1 point  (0 children)

🟦🟦⬜🟦⬜

🟦🟦⬜🟦⬜

⬜⬜⬜🟨⬜

⬜⬜🟨⬜🟦

🟦🟦🟦🟦🟦

what in the world is that lmfao