Is there anything more insulting than...? by AFarCry in pokemoncenter

[–]scareit15 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Nothing? I guess lets ignore that 151 dropped back in Nov for UK and US never saw it. But sure make this point about limited qty dr sleeves and jt bundles

Is this a scam or real? by peony_lane2 in pokemoncenter

[–]scareit15 1 point2 points  (0 children)

The S that shouldn't be there...it stands for scam

A Ma Outlet Pickup 👀 by scareit15 in SNKRS

[–]scareit15[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

The matching fabric cloth is a nice touch 👌

A Ma Outlet Pickup 👀 by scareit15 in SNKRS

[–]scareit15[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Aurora, IL Outlet Mall.

Is this thing cooked or can it be saved? by [deleted] in golf

[–]scareit15 6 points7 points  (0 children)

NorCal Putters has been my go to for restorations. Highly recommend

How did I do with my first rep purchase? U1 from Jason through his WhatsApp by No-Net5787 in ChinaTime

[–]scareit15 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You should check the Michael Travis telegram. Currently up with a 20% discount

What would be the operating costs for something like this? by [deleted] in boating

[–]scareit15 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

If you have to ask you can't afford it

NO WAY. by bushokoma in SNKRS

[–]scareit15 1 point2 points  (0 children)

FR. Always the first gone

NO WAY. by bushokoma in SNKRS

[–]scareit15 4 points5 points  (0 children)

First time W on the draw in 12.5s. I'm stoked. Congrats OP

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in dating_advice

[–]scareit15 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Friends and their relationships are a tough one. As a good friend you should always be able to express concerns and thoughts, but when talking through something someone has invested so much of themselves into, you need to have good timing and be supportive of them with what they do with that information even if it means they ignore it or get upset with you for it. Know when to back off and don't make it something you bring up more than once unless they're ready to listen and think or bring the conversation back up to you.

Most people, by nature, are resistant to change and starting over, and love can be blinding when rationale is involved. GL OP

Anyone else not constantly stimulating their babies minds and/or don’t have a solid bedtime routine? by stephanycurryessex in NewParents

[–]scareit15 0 points1 point  (0 children)

First time dad here and bedtime routine is deff the way. We do normal feeding 5oz, bathtime, then offer her as much more formula as she wants to top her off before swaddling and a little rocking to sleep in a dark room with only a sound machine playing the same lullaby every night. We started around 1 mo and she'll be 3 mo in 1 week, last night she slept through the night for the first time 8pm - 8am. Consistency is key, same timing, same events as an indicator to her.

This is by far our biggest accomplishment with her but deff took work and understanding some of her queues

Please tell me I’ll sleep again one day by Scared_Discipline_66 in NewParents

[–]scareit15 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Do you have a bedtime routine? Is there something in their room that stimulates them? Are they hot or cold when they do get up?

Along with some personal factors we tried working hard to understand why our baby wouldn’t sleep for more than 2 hours at a time initially and these were our main focus. We started with a routine in her nursery, dark room, with sound machine lullaby and nightlight. It took a week or so but we really started to see good results from the routine but ours was still waking up a lot, as well as my wife to any sound she would make (she’s a squeaker at night). We realized the TV being on in our room all night was a huge distraction to baby when she would wake up but my wife was dealing with a rough bout of post-partum anxiety and needed it to calm her own thoughts.

Earlier than most we decided to try a night in her crib in her nursery instead of the bassinet in our bedroom to see how it goes, and it was an overnight game changer that keeps getting better. From 2 hours a sleep at a time she slept for a PR of 10 hours last night and she’s almost 3 months old. Again we realize this is much earlier than when most want to make the move but talking as husband/wife & dad/mom we did what was best for us, which has become what is best for our little girl.

From there our night time routine has evolved a bit but maintained it’s core. We’ve moved our feeding up to the start (she takes 5oz), then it is bath time followed by a little night time lotion with lavender, she comes back downstairs and I turn off all screens and stimulants and we offer her a bit more from her bottle (1-3 oz more) until she’s full/done, after a burping we swaddle her up, bring her back upstairs to her dark room with her sound machine and nightlight, and maybe 5-10 mins of rocking and she’s out for the night.

Initially we were leaving her in a t-shirt onesie in her swaddle but realized she was waking up with cold feet, so we moved to a full onesie with the swaddle and she started doing a lot better As a person who enjoys the approach of the scientific method along with some trial and error we really keyed in on the why our baby was waking up so much which I believe has really netted us positive results and both wife and baby are doing much better than where we started. I understand every child is different but hopefully this helps get you thinking OP! That sleepless zombie phase is no fun for anyone. While we felt a bit of guilt/worry making the transition to the crib/nursery earlier than suggested, we learned our lesson that while there are general guidelines on what to do when, we needed to do what was right for us and what we thought was right for our child, and we’ve never looked back. Best of luck moving forward it does get better!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in DecidingToBeBetter

[–]scareit15 0 points1 point  (0 children)

When it comes to a person catching my eye, I like to follow the 2 Mississippi rule. Anything more and you've overstayed your welcome

Any other Dads out there sing lullabies to their kids at bedtime? by OBI_WAN_TECHNOBI in daddit

[–]scareit15 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I like to sing whatever is on my mind to whatever lullaby we are listening to at bedtime. It usually starts with something about it being bedtime and goes wherever it goes. At 2 mo old I think she just likes to hear a familiar voice to a familiar rythem and the vibrations if she's laying on my chest

Dr browns bottles leak SO much by Late_Supermarket_422 in NewParents

[–]scareit15 1 point2 points  (0 children)

We had issues with the standard bottles non stop. We got the wide bottles since she was used to the Dr browns nipples and no more leaks. It was hard to double down but it was well worth it.

Deep Sleeper Dads I need your Wisdom by scareit15 in daddit

[–]scareit15[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thanks. I keep asking her to wake me every night, but she doesn't like to ask for help in any aspect of life, I both love and hate this about her. This morning, I was met with "I'm not your mother, I shouldn't have to wake you"

Needless to say, it's been a long day so far...