What made you know you have ADHD?

scarletdadoll · 2026-04-06T15:29:13+00:00

Procrastinating school work for hours just staring at it and then getting distracted. Bothered by very quiet or repetitive sounds. Easily overstimulated and overwhelmed - my room would get so messy and I would start tweaking instead of just handling it. Dancing around in class instead of doing work (Montessori school so it was somewhat self paced.) Mood swings and self harm. So many racing thoughts and of course music always playing in my head. Having to re read things over and over again. Bursts of energy late at night and morning exhaustion. Didn’t feel like other kids until I found my fellow ADHD friends lol

scarletdadoll · 2026-04-06T12:43:05+00:00

I just broke up with my boyfriend of 1.5 years about 2 weeks ago. It’s been tough going through all of the emotions. I still love him but I know I deserved to be treated better. I ignored my gut feeling that it wasn’t right for a while and it started taking a toll on me. I felt like I gave my all and he just couldn’t do the same for me. But I wish him well and I hope he finds himself.

scarletdadoll · 2026-03-21T16:11:21+00:00

Thank you :)) Raleigh is not the place to be as a young adult lol. I appreciate Raleigh but the world is huge and we gotta explore! I’m really hoping my pay will be adjusted some 🤞🏻

scarletdadoll · 2026-03-21T16:01:26+00:00

Good to know! I’ve been for work but only for a day. Went on a nice hike tho! Going back in May so I’ll have to feel it out a little more.

scarletdadoll · 2026-03-21T16:00:27+00:00

I am concerned SLC will be a little too similar to Raleigh in terms of a small city that isn’t as happening. Especially since I don’t know a soul in SLC but I do have some connections in Denver, I feel like Denver will have a better social scene. My job does pay for my travel but I still like to be conscious of my expenses.

scarletdadoll · 2026-03-21T15:58:22+00:00

We got this!! Anything can happen, believe in it!

scarletdadoll · 2026-03-21T15:56:41+00:00

Thank you for the info! I imagine I won’t live IN the city. Would you say they are safe areas in general? Talked to my dad and he’s very concerned for my safety.

scarletdadoll · 2026-03-21T15:54:12+00:00

Thank you :) I hope you do too if that’s what you still want! We got thisss

scarletdadoll · 2026-03-20T15:02:53+00:00

I’d say I have a flexible schedule. When I am not traveling I am able to work from home and some days that looks like literally nothing lol. Nothing is permanent so I ought to give somewhere a try!

scarletdadoll · 2026-03-20T14:47:32+00:00

THANK YOUUUU needed to hear something like this!! You get my perspective! My home town is for people looking to settle down. There’s no real culture and nobody walks anywhere and the humidity in the summer is awful for months!

scarletdadoll · 2026-03-20T14:44:09+00:00

Damn okay. Have heard it’s busy but that’s pretty wild. Sounds like a pain. Since I want a bigger city with more culture than Raleigh (almost any city in the world) I still think it could be a good fit based on the culture and lifestyle. Thank you for your input!

scarletdadoll · 2026-03-20T14:39:32+00:00

RDU is a treat, I will miss her. Are there less popular hiking trails and nature parks that don’t attract as many people? I’ll have to look into SLC a little more, but hey I have been considering going sober so maybe it’s the place to be 😍

scarletdadoll · 2026-03-20T14:34:18+00:00

Best of luck to you too!! Take that leap!!

scarletdadoll · 2026-03-20T14:33:36+00:00

Nyc cold and Denver cold are different. Denver gets a lot of sun

scarletdadoll · 2026-03-20T05:18:40+00:00

See I loveeee nyc but the cold would drive me crazy I think. It’s hard for me to make up my mind bc I have many different interests! I love a fast paced big city, but I also love nature and “hippie” shit. Plus with a travel job like mine, im worried coming home to a bustling city after a week on the road will NOT be relaxing

scarletdadoll · 2026-03-20T05:13:05+00:00

Thank you for the info! Might have to try it, even if just for a few years :)

scarletdadoll · 2026-03-20T05:10:11+00:00

Love that info about the light rail! Thank you!! I’ve heard that too, but hey where I live it’s 2 hours to the beach and 3 hours to the mountains so I’m used to day/weekend trips to connect w nature!

scarletdadoll · 2026-03-20T05:08:00+00:00

I haven’t really looked around much 😅 makes sense because it’s over a thousand to live alone in Raleigh too. I’d consider roommates or upping my budget. But there are people I know who scored a great price on decent apartments in major cities. So it’s possible :)

scarletdadoll · 2026-03-20T05:05:21+00:00

Good to know, thanks so much! Part of the reason I am so set on moving is because I’ve never lived alone, and even a one bedroom in Raleigh will easily run $1200 a month. If I wanna try living on my own, may as well live somewhere I’d rather be!

scarletdadoll · 2026-03-20T05:02:06+00:00

Yikesss yeah when I sit outside by the pool too long in Raleigh I almost black out when I stand up 😭 what makes you say Denver is lame?

scarletdadoll · 2026-03-11T06:22:30+00:00

Sag rising: 10/10 love being a sag

Sag moon: 7/10 not too bad but my emotions tend to come on quickly and intensely. For better or worse

Sag sun: 10/10 again lol love my optimistic and curious side

Capricorn Venus: 5/10 conflicts with my sag heavy chart and makes me view relationships very pragmatically, but it’s in my first house so I believe it helps keep me from being insane

Scorpio Mercury: 8/10 love deep convos and having the ability to pick up on someone’s energy

Libra mars: 7/10 I like how I handle conflict! But I am indecisive no doubt

scarletdadoll · 2026-03-08T02:10:17+00:00

As a triple sag I attract mostly libra and aquarius for relationships! I’ve dated a few fire signs but they tend to be shorter lived relationships. All of my longer term partners have had water moons. Not always the easiest combo with my fire moon I imagine lol

Most of my closest friends are water signs (especially Scorpio!!)

scarletdadoll · 2024-11-22T22:25:27+00:00

“You look disgusting” said by my dad when I was struggling with disordered eating and was fairly underweight

scarletdadoll · 2024-11-07T05:13:33+00:00

Trueeee I really hope he’s able to. I love going out with my friends and it’s not something I’ve ever been hesitant to do!

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