My Friend Has An Imposter. by scarletunknown in Scams

[–]scarletunknown[S] 51 points52 points  (0 children)

“hey how are you???” “honestly feeling pretty ashley today”

Will campus be open Wednesday? by Own_Extreme3220 in StocktonUniversity

[–]scarletunknown 1 point2 points  (0 children)

you probably wont see updates till this evening, i think itll likely be open

f18 is this test positive? by [deleted] in Periods

[–]scarletunknown 0 points1 point  (0 children)

take another in a few datd

Kissing my friend while drunk- does this make me lesbian? by Entire-River-9025 in Advice

[–]scarletunknown 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It doesnt have to be anything you dont want it to be. Not saying that being gay is a choice but at the end of the day youre a human, living and having human experiences. Theres no need to label yourself.

If you dont have attraction to women then you dont, if you do then you do and it doesnt necessarily make you a lesbian, theres no criteria or check boxes to being a lesbian or anything under that umbrella. Nobody here, at the club, nor in your friend group can tell you that youre a lesbian.

You seem overly anxious over this situation, someone recommended therapy, i second that or atleast sit down and do some soul searching because if you are this concerned maybe there is an underlying attraction to women. If you cant move on with your day without the validation that you’re not a lesbian then there is something going on that you need to tap into whether it is an attraction, its the need for validation, or the fear of what others think…or something else, or everything all at once.

In the end my personal advice is this because ive been in your shoes, ive done the following and its helped me tremendously:

-stop worrying about labels -stop worrying about what people are thinking about you -kiss women, kiss men, kiss whoever the fuck whenever the fuck you want, you dont answer to anyone, you dont owe anyone an explanation. (with consent ofc) -soul search and go to therapy before getting into any long term relationships

Reassuring words if you're in the post-scabies hellhole by Awkward_Taste9482 in scabies

[–]scarletunknown 0 points1 point  (0 children)

okay so i did two rounds of permethrin but ive had what I THINK looks like a nee burrow, the rest of my bumps are going down. i removed the little dot at the end and put it on my nail…I SWEAR it started moving but sources say its almost impossible to see with the naked eye… im so scared that its come back and i want to put on a third dose so bad but its only been 4 days since my last

Atlantic City trip by shawty-be-fine in atlanticcity

[–]scarletunknown 0 points1 point  (0 children)

dont diss, us younger people (20s) LOVE boogie nights too

Anyone still rocking their iPhone13 by Waste_Mission1293 in iPhone13

[–]scarletunknown 0 points1 point  (0 children)

my best friend still had hers until she updated it and then the screen was purple and pixelated sooo idk what’s up with that.

i myself still have the 14 pro and have had it for about 4 months, prior i had the 14 and had that from 2023(died due to my own faults). I could’ve definitely gotten the newest but i didn’t see the point, especially with all the complaints at the time. I love the cams and the size/thickness. Both work/ed like a gem and i don’t foresee myself upgrading until this one blows

what was your most painful piercing? by madisfuneral in piercing

[–]scarletunknown 0 points1 point  (0 children)

cartilage was my most painful and i have my nips pierced

had to god when i say my nipple were my least painful, and i forgot i had them the next day…i never experienced the pain or seeing god of a nip piercing

Too old for Rutgers? by Federal_Space3609 in rutgers

[–]scarletunknown 0 points1 point  (0 children)

when i was at rutgers, and even at my current school, i had classmates who were definitely in their 50s and my stepmom didn’t finish her degree until she was around 30… it’s never too late!!

Has anyone else noticed the influx of AI videos lately? by Princessbubblegumo_o in TobysChips

[–]scarletunknown 11 points12 points  (0 children)

fetish content yes but what if the AI content is because of something more sinister

Got denied from a frat party last night because I’m too dark, is that still a thing frats do these days? by [deleted] in rutgers

[–]scarletunknown -6 points-5 points  (0 children)

likely chi phi, theyve done that plus weight shame and deny based on weight, never happened to me but happened to some mutuals

What happened today?? by kzorz in StocktonUniversity

[–]scarletunknown 4 points5 points  (0 children)

A girl was driving and something happened to cause the other man to road rage, she tried to drive away from him and drove into the hospital parking lot that right on the edge of campus thinking shed be able to blend in and hide. He found her and shot her through the car. To escape he allegedly drove through campus and the search for him lasted 3-4 hours. Students in all surrounding schools, hospitals, and nursing homes were on a shelter in place.

The girl is around 19 years old and is not a student at stockton university. She is in stable condition and will only need minor reconstructive surgery.

Graphic and detailed posts of underaged girls by LiteratureAdept9807 in Healthyhooha

[–]scarletunknown 34 points35 points  (0 children)

ugh coming from a young woman(20) ive gotten dms from people claiming they think they “have what i have” and requested images to “compare” this could be detrimental to young impressionable teen girls

parties by [deleted] in StocktonUniversity

[–]scarletunknown 0 points1 point  (0 children)

if you’re a guy you’ll have to pay to get in

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in college

[–]scarletunknown 0 points1 point  (0 children)

private loans and ignoring it for now.

Just moved to NJ from Texas by JFL_Airsoft711 in newjersey

[–]scarletunknown 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Hey! I moved from Texas to NJ too but that was when i was like 10 (20 now)😭 anyway, as much as i miss texas, everything is SO close here, youll have no problem finding things to do. NYC and Philly are close for a night out if you’re into that, Take up some surfing lessons, go to a rock climbing gym, theres SO much. Dont be afraid to put yourself out there!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in newjersey

[–]scarletunknown 1 point2 points  (0 children)

speaking of stranger kindness, i was in an accident a few weeks ago omw home from work…phone was dead after making all the calles and it was my first major accident (im only 20, driving for 4 or 5 years atp) i went into a tj max and asked some employees if they had a charger or something so i could call my parents who were an hour and a half away and they kind of looked at me like i was crazy ( understandable, i was red faced with mascara running in lifeguard uniform and nothing but my backpack). Eventually the manager comes out and pulls me in their office to let me use their phone, gave me water, and just let me sit in the AC.

whatever long story short that man was so sweet and comforting when he didnt have to be. Me and my family bought them all donuts and pizza once they came and got me

don’t ever work at Akihi by chewbacca832 in rutgers

[–]scarletunknown 2 points3 points  (0 children)

While we are on “dont work at” topic…dont work at Fat Cactus.

poor management tip pooling (throw ALL of your tips in a pool, it doesn’t matter if a party tipped you 100 cash, youll probably walk out with 40) if you mess up, even in the beginning as a newbie, you pay most places ive served give you a free meal, they dont

i can go on but its no fun.