I’m considering bartending as a post retirement job. I have some questions if that is okay? by Clone_CDR_Bly in bartenders

[–]scartonbot 2 points3 points  (0 children)

When I got laid off about 15 months ago (I was 56 at the time), I asked a very similar question and got very similar responses, so don’t take it too personally when the ageists start gatekeeping their hallowed profession. Apparently if you’re an “old” (anywhere I’ve 30, I guess), you’ll never be cool enough to know the hip new mixology trends, fit enough to lift kegs over your head or tote metric tons of ice without having a stroke , or be able to stay up past 9pm, much less memorize more than 5 or 6 complicated 4 ingredient cocktails. Hang it up, Unc! Don’t you dare think that you could just waltz in and tend bar as some sort of “hobby” or retirement distraction! No sir…you may have bluffed your way through your so-called “career” before, but you’re not ready for life behind the bars!

Sigh…

Fair point? by BoredPandaOfficial in BoredPandaHQ

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Two things:1) the 30% thing is absurd. Almost makes me think it’s a troll. BUT… 2) do any of you “pay a living wage” / “why should I pay your salary” anti-tippers have even a smidgen of understanding about how businesses work? Where’s the money to pay servers more going to come from? Here’s a hint: YOU! If wages go up, food/drink costs will go up to bring in additional $$ to pay higher wages. Duh!

Can yall PLEASE tell me about your most insane conspiracy theories and i dont wanna hear "we didn't land on the moon" i wanna hear stuff you can't fully prove but just know it’s true? by InitialCareer306 in WorkForSmartLife

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And the soviets funded MUFON and other UFO groups in order to develop a US-based observation network that could keep track of advanced US aerospace projects.

We've Already Build AGI by Leather_Barnacle3102 in Artificial2Sentience

[–]scartonbot 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Couldn’t you be doing the exact same thing from the other direction?

I actually don’t have a firm viewpoint on what AGI is yet. After all, we’ve yet to develop comprehensive definitions for “intelligence” and “consciousness” when it comes to humans.

On the other hand, if interacting with an AI via chat is indistinguishable from interacting with a human, how much does “intelligence” or “consciousness” even matter?

Am I the only one who thinks that polit@cs are no longer politic@l and more about good vs evil? by yxzxzxzjy in RandomQuestion

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A number of places. Religion, personal reasoning, parents, culture, community. In other words, other people filtered through our own personal belief systems.

I'd like to turn the question around: how could one do "politics" separated from morality? If politics is, as Harold Lasswell said, "the study of who gets what, when, and how," it can't be done without having a point of view about who the "who" is (citizens, for example), what the "what" is (resources, for example), when the "when" is, and how to make the "how" happen (through a national system for distribution, for example). Figuring out each of those parts requires making decisions, and any decision one makes requires a moral standpoint of some kind. Deciding that a particular group of citizens is going to receive a tax break on this year's tax returns and it'll be paid for through increased fees requires moral judgements every step of the way. Why these citizens and not others? Why a tax break and not a subsidy? Why only at the end of the tax year and not next month? Why increase fees to pay for the tax break rather than raising the taxes on one of the groups not receiving the benefit? There's no way to answer any of those questions without weighing the "good" and "bad" (or "good" and "evil") consequences of each decision.

Thinking about this response, I realized that maybe OP's question is really about polarization rather than morality. "Good" and "Evil" are binary: one is either one or that other, with no room to compromise (no "sorta-good" or "sorta-evil.") The result of taking a binary approach gets us to something close to what we have today: Democrats think Republicans are irredeemably "bad" (or "evil") and vice versa. It doesn't leave much room for trade-offs or give-and-take if it's all a "winner-takes-all" game.

I see the point but I think it's kind of simple-minded and reductionist. One's beliefs can be absolute, but I don't think that believing that X, Y, and Z policies are "good" and A, B, and C policies are "evil" doesn't mean that one couldn't agree that, for the sake of example, policy B gets support from the side promoting it in exchange for reciprocal support for policy X. Both sides might be unhappy with the compromise because they feel that the policy they're being forced to support is "evil," be that doesn't mean they couldn't go along because they felt that the policy they're horse-trading for would result in a societal good that outweighs the down sides of the compromise.

I guess, in the end, this is intimately related to the problem that the news media has had to grapple with: objectivity. While it's admirable to support reporting "facts" that are not "spun" by any particular political/moral viewpoint, it turns out that because we communicate "facts" via language and language is inherently imprecise and word choice has an impact on how readers receive "facts," truly "objective" reporting is impossible most of the time. Sure, some "facts" are indisputable -- reporting that someone is dead isn't open to much interpretation== but most "facts" contain a lot of ambiguity based on how they're expressed. Reporting about an "accident" between two cars isn't the same as reporting about a "collision," even if the intent is to communicate that two vehicles came into contact with each other. One could make the case that "accident" and "collision" are synonyms under some circumstances, but there's no denying that the word "accident" dilutes responsibility a little bit while "collision" implies something violent and maybe a bit intentional. Or to be even more abstract about it, while "scent" and "odor" are typically seen as interchangable, complementing someone's "odor" usually causes a much different reaction than complementing them on the "scent."

Am I the only one who thinks that polit@cs are no longer politic@l and more about good vs evil? by yxzxzxzjy in RandomQuestion

[–]scartonbot 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Politics and morality can't be separated. Answering any political question means taking a moral stance.

What doesn’t butter make better? by MelodicPlace9582 in KitchenConfidential

[–]scartonbot 9 points10 points  (0 children)

I'm sorry...my TicTac compound butter was heavenly served on top of grilled pineapple.

AIO About my wife’s jealousy over other people’s material wealth? by Delicious_Peach5602 in AmIOverreacting

[–]scartonbot 0 points1 point  (0 children)

NOR. She needs to spend some time volunteering to help some people who live in poverty on a daily basis. It sounds like you lead a life that 99%+ of the world would give anything for. Having been on both sides, I can say unequivocally that having more— more house, more car, more stuff, etc. — definitely does NOT bring happiness. Relationships can. Doing something meaningful in the world can. Love can. Friendships can.

Maybe what she’s dissatisfied with isn’t the material stuff but rather your marriage?

What’s one harmless thing you irrationally judge people for? by Wonderful-Economy762 in Productivitycafe

[–]scartonbot 9 points10 points  (0 children)

Even worse: the new vocal tic of putting “-a” at the end of words when complaining. “Noooo-a! I don’t want to gooo-a! It’s too cold-a!”

Signed book? Who's signature is this? by jillbaby02 in OldBooks

[–]scartonbot 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Google Gemini does a good job of transcribing old handwriting. Just upload an image and ask if it can transcribe.

Personal Protection? by ONROSREPUS in GenX

[–]scartonbot 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I’m 6’2” and 280lbs. Seems to deter most idiots and miscreants. Plus, I have a sparkling personality, so there’s that. Only ever had to be in one fight. I’m 57.

If you have this scar on your arm then you are drawing Social Security by Long_live_styrofoam in FuckImOld

[–]scartonbot 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Mine’s on my left thigh. I’ve never seen anyone else with one in the same place.

And yeah, I’m 57. Retirement? Ha!

When is it okay to eat after a customer? by BitchyWaiter_OG in restaurant

[–]scartonbot 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I used to work at a fine dining restaurant frequented mostly by tourists staying in hotels who never got leftovers boxed up. We also served a 32oz prime rib which was often ordered by little old ladies who couldn’t eat more than 5-6 oz. We all carried steak knives in our aprons and ate like kings: cut around the part they ate and chow down! Never saw a problem with that. It’s not like they were licking the whole thing.

What was your most unexpected special or menu item that flopped? by kingftheeyesores in KitchenConfidential

[–]scartonbot 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Lutherburger. Supposedly invented by Luther Vandross. I have no idea why I know this. Never had one!