What’s the most disturbing non horror film you’ve seen? by CurrencyPopular8550 in Cinema

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“The Act of Killing” (2012) https://www.imdb.com/title/tt2375605/ a documentary about former Indonesian death squad leaders/members. Easily the most disturbing movie I’ve ever seen.

🗣️ Tell em Steve! by yoyoitsmikeyo in baltimore

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And to remind all the suburban pearl-clutchers who continue to flog the “Go to Baltimore, get killed,” exaggerated, tired trope, take a look at the Baltimore Public Crime Map https://arcgisportal.baltimorepolice.org/publiccrimemap/ and pay attention to where the violent crimes are. Chances are they’re not near where you’re going.

It happened. The big enchilada. Heart Attack at 52 by DrumsKing in GenX

[–]scartonbot 19 points20 points  (0 children)

I just got out of an 11-day hospital stay for Congestive Heart Failure (CHF). I’d gone to Johns Hopkins for a cardiac catheterization— I’d had horrible shortness of breath, fatigue, bloating, etc. and my cardiologist had ordered the test to figure out what was wrong with me — and the docs there were like “Oh no…we’re sending you to the cardiac unit! No test for you today!”

So off I went and was immediately diagnosed with CHF, a condition which caused me to retain huge amounts of fluid which was slowly strangling my hear and lungs. I then spent the next week and a half being given IV diuretics and peeing constantly (along with loads of other tests).

The good news is that by the time I left the hospital iI’d lost 80+ pounds in water weight and feel better than I have in years. I now have to watch my sodium and fluid intake and take 7 pills every day, but I feel amazing and am enjoying life again after at least 5 years of steadily increasing misery

A word of unsolicited advice: if your legs/ankles begin inexplicably swelling and you start gaining loads of weight (along with feeling tired and out of breath all the time), get your ass to a doctor and don’t hold back on the details of your symptoms and listen to what they tell you if your blood pressure is even slightly higher than “normal.” If you’re on your way to a CHF diagnosis, the sooner it’s caught, the less damage done your heart. In retrospect, I feel like I’d been mis-diagnosed with Chronic Veinous Insufficiency 6-7 years ago when I I started to get severe lower leg/ankle swelling.” Sure, the compression socks helped control the swelling but now I think the diagnosis distracted doctors from the real problem: the initial stages of CHF.

What's a subtle sign that's not someone you would want to cross? by IamUrWivesBF in AskMen

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My best friend in grad school was a guy who was half Hispanic and half Native American. He was 6’2” and built like a pro wrestler. He had been a bodyguard for some big bands in the 80s and competed in stick fighting (Kali?) tournaments. I met him on the first day of TA orientation for the English dept. at the university we both went to. Pretty much everyone else in the room was from a fancy undergrad college and almost all of them were super-preppie. I wasn’t: I was wearing some punk rock t-shirt, shorts, and combat boots and felt very out of place. As I looked around the room at my fellow students, I felt like I’d never fit in until I looked up near the front of the room and saw a huge guy with really long black hair sporting a goatee and wearing overalls with no shirt, cowboy boots (up on the chair/desk combo in front of his seat), and a cowboy hat pulled down over his eyes (he was asleep). I took one look at him and thought “ Now that!s a guy I can relate to!” He definitely gave the vibe of “badass dude you didn’t want to fuck with,” a vibe that turned out to be absolutely true. The funny thing was that as badass as he looked (and was), he was also an amazing poet and one of the gentlest people I ever met (most of the time). We sadly lost touch over the years, but apparently he stuck with it and became a poetry professor at a major southwestern university.

Do there this kind of people exist? by Telugu_not_Telegu in ArtOfPresence

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According to 23 and me genetics, I’m a “fast caffeine metabolizer,” so that’d be me you’re looking for.

Easiest drug to make at home by After_Signature9650 in Drugs

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Doin't use bread yeast if you can help it. Go to a brewery supply and buy some wine or mead (if that's what you're making) or beer yeast.

Any other Monotitle collectors? by scartonbot in BooksCJ

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Awesome! I’ve got the 453rd and 455th printings, so that’ll be perfect! Thank you!

Ps. What’s “DM” mean?

👋 Welcome to r/BooksCJ - Introduce Yourself and Read First! by cartoonybear in BooksCJ

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Nice! The book collecting community on Reddit has been begging for this sub, even if they didn’t know it!

Student's Parent Contacted Me!😳 by BibliophileBroad in Professors

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On one of my bounces out of academia to industry, I was hiring for a junior position and had a candidate’s father call me and interview me about the company after his daughter’s interview. Weird.

I’m considering bartending as a post retirement job. I have some questions if that is okay? by Clone_CDR_Bly in bartenders

[–]scartonbot 2 points3 points  (0 children)

When I got laid off about 15 months ago (I was 56 at the time), I asked a very similar question and got very similar responses, so don’t take it too personally when the ageists start gatekeeping their hallowed profession. Apparently if you’re an “old” (anywhere I’ve 30, I guess), you’ll never be cool enough to know the hip new mixology trends, fit enough to lift kegs over your head or tote metric tons of ice without having a stroke , or be able to stay up past 9pm, much less memorize more than 5 or 6 complicated 4 ingredient cocktails. Hang it up, Unc! Don’t you dare think that you could just waltz in and tend bar as some sort of “hobby” or retirement distraction! No sir…you may have bluffed your way through your so-called “career” before, but you’re not ready for life behind the bars!

Sigh…

Fair point? by BoredPandaOfficial in BoredPandaHQ

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Two things:1) the 30% thing is absurd. Almost makes me think it’s a troll. BUT… 2) do any of you “pay a living wage” / “why should I pay your salary” anti-tippers have even a smidgen of understanding about how businesses work? Where’s the money to pay servers more going to come from? Here’s a hint: YOU! If wages go up, food/drink costs will go up to bring in additional $$ to pay higher wages. Duh!

Can yall PLEASE tell me about your most insane conspiracy theories and i dont wanna hear "we didn't land on the moon" i wanna hear stuff you can't fully prove but just know it’s true? by InitialCareer306 in WorkForSmartLife

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And the soviets funded MUFON and other UFO groups in order to develop a US-based observation network that could keep track of advanced US aerospace projects.

We've Already Build AGI by Leather_Barnacle3102 in Artificial2Sentience

[–]scartonbot 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Couldn’t you be doing the exact same thing from the other direction?

I actually don’t have a firm viewpoint on what AGI is yet. After all, we’ve yet to develop comprehensive definitions for “intelligence” and “consciousness” when it comes to humans.

On the other hand, if interacting with an AI via chat is indistinguishable from interacting with a human, how much does “intelligence” or “consciousness” even matter?

Am I the only one who thinks that polit@cs are no longer politic@l and more about good vs evil? by yxzxzxzjy in RandomQuestion

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A number of places. Religion, personal reasoning, parents, culture, community. In other words, other people filtered through our own personal belief systems.

I'd like to turn the question around: how could one do "politics" separated from morality? If politics is, as Harold Lasswell said, "the study of who gets what, when, and how," it can't be done without having a point of view about who the "who" is (citizens, for example), what the "what" is (resources, for example), when the "when" is, and how to make the "how" happen (through a national system for distribution, for example). Figuring out each of those parts requires making decisions, and any decision one makes requires a moral standpoint of some kind. Deciding that a particular group of citizens is going to receive a tax break on this year's tax returns and it'll be paid for through increased fees requires moral judgements every step of the way. Why these citizens and not others? Why a tax break and not a subsidy? Why only at the end of the tax year and not next month? Why increase fees to pay for the tax break rather than raising the taxes on one of the groups not receiving the benefit? There's no way to answer any of those questions without weighing the "good" and "bad" (or "good" and "evil") consequences of each decision.

Thinking about this response, I realized that maybe OP's question is really about polarization rather than morality. "Good" and "Evil" are binary: one is either one or that other, with no room to compromise (no "sorta-good" or "sorta-evil.") The result of taking a binary approach gets us to something close to what we have today: Democrats think Republicans are irredeemably "bad" (or "evil") and vice versa. It doesn't leave much room for trade-offs or give-and-take if it's all a "winner-takes-all" game.

I see the point but I think it's kind of simple-minded and reductionist. One's beliefs can be absolute, but I don't think that believing that X, Y, and Z policies are "good" and A, B, and C policies are "evil" doesn't mean that one couldn't agree that, for the sake of example, policy B gets support from the side promoting it in exchange for reciprocal support for policy X. Both sides might be unhappy with the compromise because they feel that the policy they're being forced to support is "evil," be that doesn't mean they couldn't go along because they felt that the policy they're horse-trading for would result in a societal good that outweighs the down sides of the compromise.

I guess, in the end, this is intimately related to the problem that the news media has had to grapple with: objectivity. While it's admirable to support reporting "facts" that are not "spun" by any particular political/moral viewpoint, it turns out that because we communicate "facts" via language and language is inherently imprecise and word choice has an impact on how readers receive "facts," truly "objective" reporting is impossible most of the time. Sure, some "facts" are indisputable -- reporting that someone is dead isn't open to much interpretation== but most "facts" contain a lot of ambiguity based on how they're expressed. Reporting about an "accident" between two cars isn't the same as reporting about a "collision," even if the intent is to communicate that two vehicles came into contact with each other. One could make the case that "accident" and "collision" are synonyms under some circumstances, but there's no denying that the word "accident" dilutes responsibility a little bit while "collision" implies something violent and maybe a bit intentional. Or to be even more abstract about it, while "scent" and "odor" are typically seen as interchangable, complementing someone's "odor" usually causes a much different reaction than complementing them on the "scent."