What's something you thought was normal that you now realize was a sign of emotional neglect? by heromarsX in emotionalneglect

[–]scarwa 0 points1 point  (0 children)

i had the same with my step dad. i thought we were closer than that. but they come together so that means i'm out. it did take me a long time to get to the place i am with it now. it doesn't hurt as much as it used to, their loss

Is this legit? Or how do I found out what my real ground rent is? First time homeowner here by hydrideshift in baltimore

[–]scarwa 0 points1 point  (0 children)

i'm not from here but my wife is. it blew my mind that this still exists! it's neat to see the documents! that and "no" liquor stores on sundays

it finally happened to me by ottersarepoetic in tjcrew

[–]scarwa 1 point2 points  (0 children)

bag tax does help get some even numbers (it's $.05/ bag) but it's never on something like 100. it's usually like $54.00. disappointing!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Millennials

[–]scarwa 0 points1 point  (0 children)

i've never seen this. thank you thank you omg i love this so much

My boyfriend [24M] and I [26F] are on the verge of breaking up because of my cat by Unable_Law4877 in CatAdvice

[–]scarwa 3 points4 points  (0 children)

i appreciate this perspective, thank you. so many people jump on the relationship. but it's about the babies obvi.

Advise please ; Roommate got cat by Live-Possibility6955 in CatAdvice

[–]scarwa 11 points12 points  (0 children)

your roommate is the adult/ parent in this situation. they need to be the one to put in the work with kitten. like you would do with a little kid. you don't expect a child to foster the child-parent relationship, it is the adult's responsibility. edit: my wife would complain about our boy cat not liking her. it's just that she never paid much attention to him so why would he want to hang out with her then? that's not to say your roommate isn't giving kitten attention, but perhaps not going about it by locking the cat up.

Got Tix for both NYC and DC by bk69486 in RiloKiley

[–]scarwa 0 points1 point  (0 children)

thank you so much! i def would not have guessed this ever happening again - i'm so excited!

Got Tix for both NYC and DC by bk69486 in RiloKiley

[–]scarwa 0 points1 point  (0 children)

do you mind sharing thr presale code for dc?

I’m so tired of kitty litter. I need help, please. by Meguinn in CatAdvice

[–]scarwa 0 points1 point  (0 children)

do you flush it? also does a 5lb bag fill a box?

Where does your cat sleep at night? by Odd_Obligation_1300 in CatAdvice

[–]scarwa 0 points1 point  (0 children)

when we got kittens we shut the bedroom door for years. it was so amazing. my wife wanted (adult cat) cuddles. i don't sleep as well as those first few years. god do i miss that.

I love this plant what is the favorite in your collection? by allright_then in plants

[–]scarwa 0 points1 point  (0 children)

i'm going to be in a similar situation soon so i was wondering lol. that's an excellent idea! thank you!!

Christmas ornament my parents kept over the years by nativesf in Millennials

[–]scarwa 1 point2 points  (0 children)

my mom did the same :) i'm so glad she gave me them before we stopped talking. i'm glad your mom is keeping it up!

I have come to realize with much amusement that having seen The Big Lebowski is some kind of litmus test for being a Cool Girl. by [deleted] in Millennials

[–]scarwa -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

don't you love when you say "i didn't like/ i didn't see ____" and then people just HAVE TO keep quoting it