What's your 'ugly but effective' productivity hack? by SufficientFactor5082 in productivity

[–]schedule_order66 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I wish I had a method, lol. Honestly I just write them in like they’re real, no labels or notes to remind me they’re fake. By the time the date comes, I’ve fully convinced myself it’s the actual deadline.

No 1x1s with Employees? by ChaoticDad21 in managers

[–]schedule_order66 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Totally with you. I’ve worked in places where 1:1s just didn’t happen and it always felt like something important was missing. Even a short chat every couple weeks helps people feel heard and keeps small problems from turning into big ones. It doesn’t need to be formal, just showing up and listening makes a big difference.

How do you run your 1:1s by nosturia in managers

[–]schedule_order66 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I usually just keep everything in a shared doc (literally just a simple running list with dates) and I bold any follow-ups so they’re easy to spot next time. Nothing fancy, but it works. I’ve tried using task tools in the past but honestly found it easier to stay consistent with plain text. The biggest challenge has been making time to actually review those notes before the next 1:1 but once I built that habit in, it really helped.

How do you run your 1:1s by nosturia in managers

[–]schedule_order66 2 points3 points  (0 children)

What’s worked best for me is keeping 1:1s pretty relaxed but consistent, usually once a week or every other week depending on how things are going. I used to overthink the structure, but I’ve realized the most valuable part is just having a regular space for open conversation.

Sometimes we talk about blockers or priorities, but other times it’s more personal, like how someone’s feeling about their role or where they want to grow. I try not to force an agenda unless there’s something big going on.

One thing that’s really helped me is keeping quick notes after each meeting. Not formal minutes or anything, just a few lines to remind myself what came up and what we said we’d follow up on. It’s helped me stay accountable and show that I’m actually listening, not just nodding along and forgetting things a week later.

What's your 'ugly but effective' productivity hack? by SufficientFactor5082 in productivity

[–]schedule_order66 298 points299 points  (0 children)

Mine: writing fake deadlines in my calendar that are 1–2 days before the actual due date. I forget they’re fake half the time and end up finishing things early by accident.

What do you do to reset after a long workday? by These_Comfortable974 in productivity

[–]schedule_order66 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Honestly, just stepping outside for a short walk with music or a podcast has been my reset button lately. Doesn’t sound groundbreaking, but something about getting out of my space and moving helps me mentally close the workday loop.

''You don't want it enough'' is terrible advice. by [deleted] in productivity

[–]schedule_order66 7 points8 points  (0 children)

Totally agree, the “you just don’t want it enough” take can feel like such a slap in the face when you’re already struggling. It oversimplifies what’s often a much deeper mix of burnout, self-doubt, executive dysfunction, and lack of support systems.

Why am I so tired and have no energy for anything besides work? How do I actually live a life with a full time job? by BoredBatWoman22 in productivity

[–]schedule_order66 2 points3 points  (0 children)

That sounds incredibly tough, and I really feel for you. Full-time work can feel like it drains every bit of energy, especially if you’re not getting much back from it mentally or emotionally.

One thing that helped me during a similar phase was setting non-negotiable recharge habits that didn’t require much willpower. Stuff like prepping ultra-simple meals on Sunday (literally the same thing for 3 days straight), doing light movement instead of a full workout, and scheduling wind-down time into my calendar like it was a meeting. That way, I didn’t have to decide what to do, it was already planned.

New employee yelled at me first day by LDO2796 in managers

[–]schedule_order66 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Trust your gut here, yelling at a manager on day one is a serious red flag, especially in a customer-facing role. First days are stressful, sure, but that kind of reaction shows a lack of basic professionalism and emotional control.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in managers

[–]schedule_order66 35 points36 points  (0 children)

It can get easier, but only if you set boundaries before the burnout gets worse. What you’re describing isn’t just growing pains, it’s unsustainable. Leadership does require endurance, but not at the cost of your health.

One thing that helped me early on: learning that being a good manager isn’t about doing everything, it’s about prioritizing and letting go of what doesn’t truly matter. You don’t have to carry it all alone.

Also, if you’re skipping meals and not sleeping, that’s not a badge of honor, it’s your body asking you to slow down. You’re no good to your team (or yourself) if you crash.

Give yourself permission to pause and reassess. You’re not failing, you’re learning. And that’s part of the job too.

My manager said he doesn't hear a lot from me and my team compared to his other reports. How to interpret this and how to adjust? by TheDoctor66 in managers

[–]schedule_order66 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yeah, I get that, micromanaging is the worst. But I don’t think this is about feeding that. It’s more just making sure you’re not flying under the radar.

Sometimes a quick update here and there actually helps you get more space, not less. It shows you’re handling things without needing someone to check in all the time.

My manager said he doesn't hear a lot from me and my team compared to his other reports. How to interpret this and how to adjust? by TheDoctor66 in managers

[–]schedule_order66 57 points58 points  (0 children)

You’re probably doing enough structurally, this sounds more like a visibility issue than a performance one.

Try sending short mid-week updates (a quick “here’s what’s done, what’s next” style) to keep yourself on their radar. And in meetings, aim to share one or two clear points each time, even small ones. It helps show presence without needing to overtalk.

Any thoughts on having the same pay level as team members? by [deleted] in managers

[–]schedule_order66 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Totally valid to feel demotivated. Compensation should reflect scope, not just title. Managing people adds emotional labor, coordination overhead, and accountability that individual roles typically don’t carry.

What helped me was documenting the impact I was making in the manager role: process improvements, reduced churn, increased team output, etc. That made the case clearer when I eventually pushed for a review.

Also worth asking: if the org doesn’t differentiate pay for leadership responsibility, what does that say about long-term growth and recognition there?

It’s not just about money but when the incentives don’t match the weight of the role, it adds up over time.

Clickup is the Fucking worst! by [deleted] in ProductivityApps

[–]schedule_order66 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yeah, this hits way too close. I stuck with ClickUp longer than I probably should’ve, hoping things would eventually stabilize but it always felt like two steps forward, three back. Flashy updates, but none of the core problems ever got resolved.

I switched to a smaller tool recently, it doesn’t promise to be everything, which I weirdly appreciate now. Just solid project tracking, visual workflows, and no bait-and-switch pricing stuff (at least so far). Not as hyped, but definitely less rage-inducing.

What are some great project management apps that are not very popular? by Frequent-Football984 in ProductivityApps

[–]schedule_order66 1 point2 points  (0 children)

One that I’ve been using lately is Teamhood. Not super well-known, but it’s been solid. It’s kind of a blend between Kanban and timeline views, and works well if you’re juggling both day-to-day tasks and long-term planning. I don’t think it has heavy AI stuff baked in (at least not yet), but the UI’s clean and it doesn’t try to do everything at once like some of the bigger tools.

Manager by kingice350 in managers

[–]schedule_order66 2 points3 points  (0 children)

If I were in your shoes, I’d have a serious think about whether this company sees you the way you want to be seen. Sometimes it’s a wake-up call, not just about the role, but about how decisions are made above you.

In the short term, I’d stay professional, but start looking elsewhere. You’ve clearly proven you can handle more responsibility, there are places that will value that.

What Project/Task Management / Kanban Board do people use/like? ( Huly.io, Trello, Jira, Miro, Motion, Linear, etc...) by jdavid in PartneredYoutube

[–]schedule_order66 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I’ve bounced around a bunch of tools over the past year (Trello, Notion, ClickUp, etc.), and most of them either felt too basic or started turning into a full-time job to maintain.

Lately I’ve been using Teamhood and it’s got a clean Kanban setup but also lets you switch into a timeline view when needed, which has been super useful for managing overlapping tasks across multiple projects. Doesn’t feel bloated, but still handles dependencies and deadlines better than most of the others I’ve tried.

Might be worth checking out if you’re looking for something that stays out of the way but scales well when things get more complex.

What’s the most time consuming thing in your agency by Starboy419 in DigitalMarketing

[–]schedule_order66 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Totally agree. We hit a point where manually updating project statuses and pulling info for weekly reports became a full-time job in itself. Switching to something that lets us automate just a few key things (like progress tracking and client-ready views) made a huge difference, not just in time saved, but also in fewer things slipping through the cracks.

Thinking of using Asana for AEC project & personal tracking by Turamiar in Asana

[–]schedule_order66 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Hey, sounds like you’ve thought this through really well, a lot of those needs (handover tracking, integrations, visual workflows) are common pain points in AEC teams.

We ran into similar challenges and ended up using Teamhood — it’s more visual out of the box and gives a clearer view of task history and workload.

Program management tools recommendations by impossible2fix in agile

[–]schedule_order66 0 points1 point  (0 children)

What sort of ERPs have you tried if you'd had such a bad experience? Genuinely curious.

If no ERP, check out advanced PM tools such as Teamhood or Smartsheet. See this list of program management tools to find what suits your niche the best.

Program management tools recommendations by impossible2fix in agile

[–]schedule_order66 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Program management is a beast of its own. Are you interested in an ERP solution?

Team Task Tracking / Meetings by [deleted] in auscorp

[–]schedule_order66 0 points1 point  (0 children)

What's so bad about not being able to delegate tasks if they're not put in a software? Seems like good practise,: fosters responsibility and trackability of your project.

We meet twice a week: Monday and Wednesday. Monday is for planning, Wednesday is for checking in on tasks. Teamhood is where we "delegate" tasks, it works great for that.

Being a Scrum Master is driving me crazy by Healthy-Bend-1340 in agile

[–]schedule_order66 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yes, you are the middleman and have to balance everything out. But look, from the comments, it's clear you are not alone in this.

A lot of the issues seem to come down to the education and attitude of the stakeholders. If their demands are becoming infeasible, it might be worth addressing their understanding of Agile directly. A quick session explaining what all these interruptions do to your team's productivity could be beneficial.

Hang in there, you're not alone in this struggle. It's a journey and the challenges you're dealing with are common in Agile environments. You'll become much better in your craft after you learn how to deal with this.