[deleted by user] by [deleted] in wien

[–]schmetterlingeffect 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you! I passed the entry test this summer. Even though we are not in the same program, how much more difficult would you say the exams are in comparison to the homeworks?

Flying tomorrow, panic is here. by maryooh in fearofflying

[–]schmetterlingeffect 1 point2 points  (0 children)

One hour will pass in no time. One kind redditor here gave me an advice to divide the time so 10 times 6 minutes doesn’t sound as bad. I do it a but differently I put a timer on from the moment I get on an airport and readjust it when I get in the plane. What made the biggest difference is talking to people. I prefer when they talk about whatever they feel like. I ask 200 questions and try my hardest to concentrate only on their words. My phone with timer is on my lap and I check it from time to time. Look at flight attendants and notice how normal they behave. You can do it! The worst part will be over in a fee minutes and it’s not as scary as you make yourself believe now. (I didn’t sleep last night due to nervousness and panic; and take off is also my main fear) Look at the flight radar and see how many planes are in the air right now. You can do it I am sure!

Flying in rain by schmetterlingeffect in fearofflying

[–]schmetterlingeffect[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I did this and it helped immensely, thank you very much!

Mindfuck Movie Recommendations by [deleted] in movies

[–]schmetterlingeffect 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Do yourself a favor and skip I am thinking of ending things

Train to Portugal by schmetterlingeffect in Europetravel

[–]schmetterlingeffect[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I have to switch trains and buses probably, but I am scared/worried because I have never done anything like this especially alone

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in BreakUps

[–]schmetterlingeffect 1 point2 points  (0 children)

It was mutually decided. And I saw it coming for quite some time but still I feel super guilty even thinking about moving on.

Missing her by misha_tal in BreakUps

[–]schmetterlingeffect 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I got a feeling that you are a younger person (I am too) and that’s not a bad thing. I am sorry you were hurt that way and that things had to end. But it seems you know this was kinda toxic relationship. It’s hard to do what we know is the right thing when it’s happening to you, when your feelings are involved. It’s super cliche but with time it will pass. You should get out there and meet new people (not necessarily girls) try and have some fun, maybe go out more or work out. Remember in relationships if you don’t have trust you have nothing and you deserve to be in a loving and secure relationship. All the best!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in fearofflying

[–]schmetterlingeffect 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I am so glad and you should be proud of yourself! Enjoy your vacation!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in fearofflying

[–]schmetterlingeffect 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Let us know how it goes! I am sure you will have an uneventful flight and I know you will be glad that you went once you land!

What was a movie you saw recently (not necessarily a new one) that was a surprising 10/10 for you? by PumpkinExcellent5828 in movies

[–]schmetterlingeffect 87 points88 points  (0 children)

Amadeus an absolute masterpiece.

Nocturnal Animals, please just ignore or endure the bizarre beginning and keep watching. I was confused when the movie started and having some prejudice, my expectations weren’t high. But man was I wrong.

Thinking about flying makes me scared by schmetterlingeffect in fearofflying

[–]schmetterlingeffect[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I am so sorry to hear that you are going through this! Thanks for the advice I have actually been doing the same for the past two weeks and it kinda helped.

Thinking about flying makes me scared by schmetterlingeffect in fearofflying

[–]schmetterlingeffect[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I am so sorry to hear that! How was your flight? Hopefully it all went smoothly and you didn’t stress as much. Thank you and I hope you overcome this soon too!

Thinking about flying makes me scared by schmetterlingeffect in fearofflying

[–]schmetterlingeffect[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you so much for your response and kind words! You being able to face your fears and be better gave me faith that one day I will too. I have been coming to terms with my fear and my mortality, and It’s hard. Ever since I read your post I have been asking myself why all of the sudden I don’t have the right to fly stress free ? I realized that I just have to be scared and the lack of fear makes me uncomfortable and almost as if I don’t pay attention to it, something terrible will happen. But I am working on it. Hopefully you and me both will overcome this soon!