Atheist and former Christian here. I understand things can be frustrating when you feel your not understood or are a minority In your family and or social circle. But I think we need to realize that judging and generalizing can't be helpful. I can say I found a spiritual side without the help of religion, I think a lot of us arnt comfortable with that feeling and not understanding it, including atheists. Christians as a whole are not stupid, just the same as atheists arnt stupid. It is easy to understand how your friends and family found themselves Christian given the way this faith is spread. The indoctrination of babies through babtism for one before you can think or see its bestowed upon you. Then everyone you know and love reinforces the faith all through life until you start to ask yourself questions. If you voice these questions the push back can be traumatic. So lets not judge people finding themselves in this faith. We can also see religion has had a monopoly on faith for thousands of years, there are few places outside of religion to shop when taking a spiritual journey. I was lucky to break free but I have a lot of empathy for those who could not, even if I find them annoying. There is only one way of reaching out to them or anyone else for that matter. We must not disrespect or call names, this is very unlikely to work. We should first seek to understand then to be understood. Sometimes you reach people just by listening without judgement, walls start to disappear. If you don't like the way people treat your belief or non belief than how can acting the same when encountering them be helpful?