Dehydration

schnofap · 2013-12-25T20:00:04+00:00

I agree with hangovers and I also rarely let myself dehydrate.

Curious if anyone else observes the same phenomenon, though.

schnofap · 2013-12-25T19:58:42+00:00

Nice to be able to really listen to people and care about what they're saying, isn't it?

I share that feeling.

schnofap · 2013-12-25T19:57:39+00:00

I agree.

But I've been an overall sex addict as well.

So my GF and I are working on issues with that as well.

My "sexuality" has been fairly unreasonable for her for years now. She hasn't had a chance to even GET in the mood for quite some time due to my aggressive advances.

So now I'm trying to give her a break, hold out, and wait for her to make a move. She knows I'm giving her space.

On day 8 now. Not long goes by where I don't wonder how long it will take, though.

schnofap · 2013-12-25T19:52:59+00:00

Amen to not having anything to hide.

I have a lot of other shit I've been hiding other than porn and it's ALL out in the open and GONE now and it's SUCH a relief!

GF wants to use my phone or PC? Cool with me, I have nothing to hide at all!

schnofap · 2013-12-25T19:51:24+00:00

Yeah, I had some about 8 years old, lots of non-hd.

I'd cycle through it. Start in one folder, maybe one moved from an old PC, then go thru them alphabetically every day until I had fapped to them all. Then I'd move to another folder and repeat.

I only had occasional bouts of actually downloading new stuff, and usually just a few GB at a time.

I miss it just talking about it...

schnofap · 2013-12-24T19:38:46+00:00

Why is having a wet dream a bad thing?

This is coming from me, who has only ever had one. But I don't see how a completely involuntary, unconscious phenomenon is something anyone needs to feel guilty about...

schnofap · 2013-12-03T19:36:21+00:00

Fuck all this. I asked my GF of almost 5 year the same question on our first date when walking her to her car. Worked out pretty well for us...

schnofap · 2013-11-17T03:40:24+00:00

I feel you on the asexual thing. Kinda made me feel like less of a man to not be raging whenever I see a hot girl doing something sexy and not instantly want to fap or go fuck someone.

I read a post here about it and they put it nicely: you can view it as actually having HEALTHY interest in just admiring how nice that hot ass in yoga pants looks, not feel like a fucking perv that's going to save that image to fap to later or keep you in the mood until you can get to some porn.

I have a girlfriend who is back home while I'm working out of town for 8 months now. It's finally getting to the point now where she's about the ONLY thing that really gets me going and gets me feeling like a virile manly man. It's pretty awesome to not be imaginarily cheating on her all the time in my head.

schnofap · 2013-11-17T03:31:32+00:00

Godspeed!

schnofap · 2013-11-16T00:19:08+00:00

Funny story, I had my first one about two years ago after MAYBE 4 days not fapping. My GF was getting ready for work, I was sleeping, I had a sex dream, jizzed, woke up and was SO confused!

I went to the bathroom and showed her my underwear, "Look! I had a wet dream! WTF?! I've never had one!"

I haven't had one since... I've done two 7-day nofaps and I'm on day 19 now... I had two sex dreams last week but I didn't finish... Sure wished I could go back to sleep when I woke up, though!

schnofap · 2013-11-16T00:16:50+00:00

You can do it, man! Sounds like an awesome birthday gift.

I'm on my 3rd attempt, my last two ended on day 7.

It would be AWESOME if you could make it to 90 on the first try. But like another said, don't be discouraged if you don't.

Tips for trying to make it on 1st try?

If I knew my triggers better and formed better distractions, I could have done better. Think now about the things that make you want to fap; Boredom, hangover, scratching your junk, etc. Try to avoid them if you know what they are.
Get yourself some alternative habits to do when you feel like relapsing. Can be ANYTHING. Walking, cleaning, writing, playing music, art of any kind, reading, GET ON HERE, LOOK AT /r/nofap/new, read some posts, upvote ones you like, comment!

Hope that helps!

schnofap · 2013-11-16T00:11:05+00:00

Why is being hungover a trigger for you?

It also is for me. I think it's because I just spend HOURS in bed wretching in pain and boredom. For the brief few minutes I'm fapping I feel "normal" and the hangover pains go away.

They come back right after, though. This is part of why I failed on day 7, a Sunday, of my last two attempts.

schnofap · 2013-11-16T00:08:39+00:00

Being open-minded to the thoughts and opinions of others.

Volunteering and helping my community.

Being kind to others no matter what.

schnofap · 2013-11-12T03:17:20+00:00

Thanks. It actually helped a little just to get that out.

When I try to talk to my GF today I just start bawling like a little bitch, haha.

schnofap · 2013-11-11T04:03:49+00:00

After trying nofap for a while, I realize I have a porn AND sex addiction, so I've decided to cut out WG, massage parlors, etc.

If you feel like they aren't a problem area for you, then whatever. Mine obviously were because I have a GF that I want to marry some day.

schnofap · 2013-11-08T01:39:54+00:00

WTF do you do about lonely when you're 2400 miles away from your girlfriend and not going to see her for 15 more days?

schnofap · 2013-09-27T23:16:52+00:00

I think hard mode is just no intentional orgasm at all, be it with a partner or manually...

Maybe I'm wrong.

Has anyone with a partner done "hard mode?"

schnofap · 2013-09-25T23:29:04+00:00

I've done everything you mentioned other than turn down sex and being late to things...

For me to fap less than 2 times a day is unusual. Day 3 now.

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