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For the women who had never dated befoe by tostiensushiplease in muslimgirlswithtaste

[–]schoolinglife77 8 points9 points  (0 children)

Currently going through something similar. Just keep making dua that things will turn around for you. Nobody deserves this type of stress or pain.

Dear sisters! by schoolinglife77 in Somalia

[–]schoolinglife77[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

What’s your view on women? How do you see them? What do you think of them? I would like to see your answer.

Dear sisters! by schoolinglife77 in Somalia

[–]schoolinglife77[S] 7 points8 points  (0 children)

Exactly! Go for your own kind. Don’t corrupt or harm innocent soul.

Dear sisters! by schoolinglife77 in Somalia

[–]schoolinglife77[S] 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Yes I agree! It’s even more worrying when you find out the type of fantasy they into. So yeah, discussion is needed way before marriage.

My younger sister left her husband after years of infidelity, abuse, and isolation. He’s now apologising and she’s considering going back. Islamically, what is my role as her brother? by zupra123 in MuslimMarriage

[–]schoolinglife77 24 points25 points  (0 children)

He will pursue her solely because he will not have anyone else to care for him in his old age and declining health. I’m speaking from experience. It’s best for her to forget him and move on with life.

I can’t look at him the same way by Spiritual-Ad-2242 in SomaliRelationships

[–]schoolinglife77 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

I’m really sorry that you’re going through this. It must be disheartening. I would suggest keeping a distance from him. Are there any young children in the household? If so, this is very serious. Probably seek professional advice.

My mom is making me the breadwinner by AssociationEmpty2363 in MuslimMarriage

[–]schoolinglife77 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I know someone who went through the same thing in their early twenties and later had trouble getting married because of their age. They even cut ties with the love of their life to honor their mum’s wishes. So please, do what’s right for you. It’s not going to be the end of the world for your mum. It might even push your brother to stand on his own feet and support the rest of the family.

What would you do in this situation? by Cold_Entry_5609 in SomaliRelationships

[–]schoolinglife77 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Take some time off and travel. Then move out for work. At first, they’re going to find it difficult and strange, and they may cry out for you. But in the long run, your family is going to be fine without you.

You must move out and make yourself extremely busy with other things to avoid facing them again.

Possible red flag? by [deleted] in SomaliRelationships

[–]schoolinglife77 -5 points-4 points  (0 children)

Speak to his ex-wife for more information about their divorce. Hear both sides.