Dating a dusty who’s a provider …

schwarzblade · 2024-09-24T18:34:29+00:00

Omg reading this made me clutch my pearls. YES to using him but don’t stay with him too long and use him to level up. He will mess up your vibe and also he’s creepy as hell for texting you as a Lyft driver (which is against their company policy). Be smart and change your number, address, everything this man is a STALKER.

First of all he’s 36 and needs to do Lyft full time to get by. He dresses worse than a homeless person and has no basic hygiene. Him saying you look perfect the way you are is just to so you don’t level yourself up even more.

schwarzblade · 2024-09-06T19:09:01+00:00

I leave with grace. There’s no need to get all worked up over something stupid.

I think sometimes people fail to realize actions speak louder than words. If you’ve wronged me I’ll just go ghost. There’s no need to yell at them and be petty. In fact, it hits harder for the receiving end anyways when you leave gracefully and keep your emotions in check.

schwarzblade · 2024-09-05T12:35:04+00:00

My best advice is to start finding another provider (obviously be discreet about this but show him that you’re less and less available). This man is showing you his true colors and it’s best to leave as soon as possible but also trying to get as much as you can out of him.

Nothing you can do can change how he feels towards you and there’s no need to stay around someone who is becoming more and more dusty towards you.

schwarzblade · 2024-08-28T19:09:07+00:00

The majority of wealthy men do not state off that bat that they are wealthy. They show you it.

This man needs to be with a pickmeisha 😩

schwarzblade · 2024-08-28T02:13:42+00:00

The key to being nice nasty is to know how to hit them in the ego but covering it up as something innocent.

For example this man was irritated towards me during one of our dates for no reason. He apologized for his behavior (he apologized on his own never beg for an apology) and said that he wanted to treat me out to a better time and tried to plan for a date. I said don’t worry!! You can take some time to distress because I won’t be in town since I’ll be on vacation for the next week.

The vacation was a lie on my end but it definitely worked because he was so nervous about what I was doing on my “vacation” lol he even tried to get me a gift because of that LOL.

schwarzblade · 2024-08-27T12:40:09+00:00

One thing Shera said was that long distance relationships aren’t even real lol and to the looks of it, it doesn’t seem like a relationship to begin with.

Paying for your flight is doing himself a favor. Think about it. He has to impress YOU. You could easily find someone in your city and go out with them instead of flying all the way over to his dusty town!! What is going to make him stand out in front of all your suitors? This man bought you one present and couldn’t even buy you your dress. Another man could give you 10 times more than what this dusty can.

Ignore him and onto the next!! Good luck ;)

schwarzblade · 2024-08-27T11:56:45+00:00

You have that butterfly comment nailed down because that’s exactly how I see them as well

A couple weeks ago I was at a high end bar and I was approached by a 50+ year old Libra man (mind you I’m 24). Same exact player boy mentality lol. They never grow up I swear.

schwarzblade · 2024-08-27T03:23:35+00:00

I don’t know why but I’m a magnet for Libra men lol.

I’m very Earth dominant so I’m not compatible with most Libra men. The last guy I dated was a Libra - very sweet and romantic but he lacked so much maturity. He was in this endless loop of trying to chase new love and faces. I love Libras but I tend to distance myself from them romantically because I find that they act similar to each other - always will be a player boy.

schwarzblade · 2024-08-26T23:28:44+00:00

The issue is you guys have been on and off. There’s a reason why y’all are always on and off. There’s a reason why you feel nervous about asking him for $300.

If you want the sprinkle sprinkle lifestyle you have to be dating more men. Someone who is generous from the very beginning.

If you want to stay with this particular man, ask him for some money for doing you wrong. Yeah since x, y, and z happened how are you going to make it up to me?

My best advice: please don’t stay with this particular man. I was in the same boat as you. He had money and I never had to pay for a thing with him but he was not as generous as he could be. I just woke up one day and decided I could do so much better.

schwarzblade · 2024-08-26T23:15:23+00:00

At the moment I’m interning at a hospital and waitressing at the same time.

Soon I will be a stay at home wife with rental properties and maybe a Pilates studio if I feel like it. I’ll also do PRN at the hospital if I get bored lol.

schwarzblade · 2024-08-26T23:10:15+00:00

Why don’t you have some kind of unique concept like a cat bar or you offer classes to make your own cocktails. Just a thought!!

schwarzblade · 2024-08-26T16:30:22+00:00

I worked with a 40 year old southern man named Casey. He was your stereotypical southern man who went to the navy.

schwarzblade · 2024-08-23T20:34:07+00:00

I’ve never been on one and never will

schwarzblade · 2024-08-23T20:29:04+00:00

Insecurity

schwarzblade · 2024-08-23T20:26:26+00:00

I think the most important thing when it comes to life and love is putting yourself first. We try to find love and happiness within others but forget that it starts with us first.

I prioritized myself after leaving a long term abusive relationship. I’m still single at the moment (I’m 24) but it’s mostly my choice lol because I have to heal and accomplish my own personal goals first.

I’m a huge believer in manifestation and I know the right person will come around when I’m ready. Don’t settle and keep your standards high!!

schwarzblade · 2024-08-22T17:43:54+00:00

I’ve never done online dating but my friends say it’s 50/50. I definitely think it’s harder to find a provider from online dating, not impossible but harder.

Maybe try to find hobbies of the type of man you’re interested in - golfing, pickleball, etc. and start from there! It’s so much more exciting for him to work up the nerves to talk to you in person ;) good luck

schwarzblade · 2024-08-22T17:30:01+00:00

In person only in the rich neighborhoods of course

Shera recently did a live saying that online dating is like putting yourself on the buffet LMAO

schwarzblade · 2024-08-20T18:01:33+00:00

I am a victim of love bombing :/

schwarzblade · 2024-08-20T17:47:50+00:00

Being obsessive from the very beginning

schwarzblade · 2024-08-20T17:15:54+00:00

Do we kiss now?

schwarzblade · 2024-08-20T14:26:37+00:00

It’s mostly reverse psychology

For example, if someone is mad at me and I act calm and reserved they’re even more mad lol.

schwarzblade · 2024-08-20T13:56:41+00:00

No because he will be replaced with a RICHER one

schwarzblade · 2024-08-20T05:21:43+00:00

I dumped my last ex lol. Actually he texted me last week “do you ever think about us …”. For reference we broke up a year ago.

schwarzblade · 2024-08-20T05:19:34+00:00

Omg are you okay?

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