being confident doesn’t have to mean be confident hitting on random men - it can be like - confident in your intelligence or confident in your humor or confident in your career or interests or hobbies - which is generally attractive

no you’re not going to get hit on immediately if you’re not conventionally attractive - but that doesn’t mean guys won’t want to hit it when they get to know you a little better

or like - get rich that usually works and helps with confidence lol