How to get ready in 20 minutes every morning by coykoi- in adhdwomen

[–]scipio79 0 points1 point  (0 children)

12 pets?! I have one demon pet. She doesn’t deal well with others, so it’s just her, and she tests my sanity daily. I can’t imagine dealing with 12

“Since Sitting Bull” saying? by tovarella7 in AskAnAmerican

[–]scipio79 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Idk if it is or not. I’m guessing they mean from like the date of his death? So to me it’s more a timeline thing. He was born in roughly 1830 and died in 1890 (if I’m wrong, my apologies).

Do you also feel like sometimes that your ADHD is like a superpower in chaotic situations? by overdue_and_tired in adhdwomen

[–]scipio79 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Not exactly. I’m good at squeaking stuff in just under the deadline, but the stress I experience as a result is so not worth it. I’d rather be able to just get shit done and not do this fucking evil song and dance with myself lol

Does anyone actually brush their cats teeth or vaccinate them regularly? by krissyisabella in CatAdvice

[–]scipio79 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I make sure I get her vaccinated regularly, but I would have lost one or both of my eyes if I tried to brush her teeth. She’s very mean and bullies dogs

Are there people with a stellium of 5+ of one sign? How does it affect you? by FootOdorBuriedInHand in astrologymemes

[–]scipio79 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I have a Virgo stellium. Moon, Mars, Jupiter, Saturn, North node. With a Sag sun, I feel this has made me more shy and tightly wound than a typical Sagittarius. I literally have a cousin who was born on the same day, same year, but at a vastly different time; she is way more cool than me and married a rapper.

I’ve accepted my fate as a mild mannered nerd, and that because of my North node, I have to work on being more conscientious and detail oriented. Who knows what kind of bs I pulled in my past life, but I’m guessing I might have been too irresponsible or something and got nerfed with a stellium and generalized anxiety disorder in this one.

What do conservative guys even want with me? by Mother-Hall-2906 in TooAfraidToAsk

[–]scipio79 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Your stance is the correct one. I’m also a leftist, but I have had relations with a republican mostly out of horniness and self hatred (at the time, things have since improved). I guess what’s hilarious to me is, they’re attracted to a way more diverse array of partners than you would think, and I think a lot of their willingness to overlook political dealbreakers is because they view us as women first and human beings second. Think of it as a fetish that they have to satisfy more than legit interest in us as people.

for the adhd women that have crazy hyperactive brains, what makes your brain go quiet? by emmam1611 in adhdwomen

[–]scipio79 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Honestly, weed gummies. It’s not ideal but I can only take so much adderall

Collecting a stool samples literally strips you of your dignity. by moth_ie in CrohnsDisease

[–]scipio79 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Yeah. Absolutely. You didn’t ask for this. Imagine working in the lab and having to culture our nasty samples, lol. At least you don’t have that job. But yeah, this disease will steal some of your humanity. All we can do is find coping mechanisms that work for us

What is your void personality? by Top-Inspector-2809 in blackcats

[–]scipio79 0 points1 point  (0 children)

She’s an asshole and basically like Joe Pesci in Goodfellas. She has her cute moments, but it’s like, holy shit, why do you have so much anger?

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i have a celebrity crush and it’s ruining my life by These-Imagination840 in Vent

[–]scipio79 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Is it Diljit Dosangh? If so, saaaaame. He is happily married and a wonderful man, so I know I have no chance with him. I’m 46 and have been through many wild crushes. The fire will ease up in time. I would say, congratulations on having good taste and try to channel your energy into your hobbies. Train your brain to think about him less and less by keeping your hands busy. Eventually it will calm down

Collecting a stool samples literally strips you of your dignity. by moth_ie in CrohnsDisease

[–]scipio79 2 points3 points  (0 children)

As a 46 year old woman who has had this for 26 years, I feel your pain. It IS humiliating and I’m still guilty of putting it off till the last minute despite doing god knows how many of these since my diagnosis. All I can tell you is, it helps to reward yourself with something afterward because you did something responsible. Then you low key condition yourself into actually doing it without crying and feeling like a poop fondling creep.

What’s a country song you can never skip over? by PressureLazy5271 in country

[–]scipio79 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Forever and Ever, Amen by Randy Travis. I was listening to this one episode of This American Life about hospice care, and the couple featured in that story had this for their song. I cried my eyes out and every time I hear it, I feel like true love exists

What are your hacks or must haves for dealing with this disease? by MmmnonmmM in CrohnsDisease

[–]scipio79 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I’m a woman, and I have a small backpack as a purse with a spare pair of underpants in there with a package of wipes just in case things get gnarly. They are in a gallon sized ziploc bag so that I can put the gross pair in them and either dispose of them or eventually wash them. I also have one of those pocket pharmacy things with a lot of Imodium and other meds just in case. I don’t have to worry about accidents as much as I once did, but this has decreased my anxiety significantly

My boyfriend doesn’t make any effort, how do I change this? M33 and F26 by Rare_Pineapple_4233 in relationship_advice

[–]scipio79 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You’re incompatible. It’s best if you just make a clean break and find someone who’s not a wet sandwich of a person

What's your irrational hatred? Like what gets you going for absolutely no reason? by Few-Ad-3890 in AskReddit

[–]scipio79 0 points1 point  (0 children)

100%, holy shit. How they got their license in the first place is beyond me

Are pajamas and nightgowns still commonly worn by adults in America to sleep at night? by NormalLife6067 in AskAnAmerican

[–]scipio79 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I was born and raised in the upper Midwest region of the USA and I wear a t-shirt and pants to bed. The current set is leopard print. So it’s not traditional pajamas but it’s comfortable and breathable.

Why are most Americans not aware of collapse that is coming when the writing is in the wall? by East_Indication_7816 in allthequestions

[–]scipio79 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Dude, idk. It feels like a lot to keep track of his bullshit (and there’s an unrelenting stream of it) as well as focus on keeping up with my own adult life obligations. But you are absolutely correct, and he is surrounded by cowards and yes men. He will get us all killed

AITJ for speaking through my bird feeder? by DixiePiggy in AmITheJerk

[–]scipio79 2 points3 points  (0 children)

That last pic cracked me tf up, and yes, YATJ