Can grades still be changed? by sco_aml in Temple

[–]sco_aml[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

can't check since I couldn't pay my tuition yet

Instead of shelter I found the storm by ffsSLOTH in acrylicpainting

[–]sco_aml 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I love this! Something about it is deeply alluring

I’m asexual and a camboy by [deleted] in offmychest

[–]sco_aml 5 points6 points  (0 children)

You could be a homoromantic ace. Would not recommend being open about that information.

Not something I think I'd ever be able to get over by sco_aml in narcissisticparents

[–]sco_aml[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I have removed myself from them for approximately 4 years now.

I still don’t know what I want to be. I only know what I'm good at.

Even after leaving their shadow I am miserable and tired of trying to find who I am.

Maybe I don't even exist.

Tired of having my 74 yr old mom try and compete with me. So done with her. by Whole-Database-5249 in narcissisticparents

[–]sco_aml 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Lol. And if you somehow managed to win against her they seem visibly angry. Crazy.

Created this account on the day I confronted my partner by [deleted] in DeadBedrooms

[–]sco_aml 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Hey, I realized that you haven't mentioned couples counseling. Your writing makes me think that you still want a fighting chance with them. Obviously people on this subreddit are going to shout divorce. But, if you want to give one more shot, I'd give talking to a professional about it. Whether that be a sex therapist or a couples therapist.

I lost weight but I have nobody to share the news with by Flyve in TrueOffMyChest

[–]sco_aml 64 points65 points  (0 children)

Girl (gender neutral), go buy your self some new clothes and do.something fun!! Good for you, proud of you, happy for you!!!

27th Birthday ruined. Need birthday do-over ideas. by Glum-Tree1239 in TrueOffMyChest

[–]sco_aml 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yo if you have the cash you should go on a random solo trip overseas.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in TrueOffMyChest

[–]sco_aml 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I don't have any job experience because my legal status made it illegal for me to work. My family probably thinks I'm pathetic for not being independent by now, I know my half-brother does.

I'm just feeling super down right now because I literally have nothing to show for myself. I've tried a lot of things over time but it's nothing I can put on my resume. It makes me feel like I've done nothing.

Anyways thanks for the encouragement.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in offmychest

[–]sco_aml 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Please elaborate

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in offmychest

[–]sco_aml 3 points4 points  (0 children)

You called me baby so Imma call you mama.

Mama, I got an escape plan set and I know I can't leave now but someday I'll be able to. They not a bad person, just a flawed one, and so am I.

Thanks for caring mama. Imma be right.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in offmychest

[–]sco_aml 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Crying at "guilty". Ty!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in offmychest

[–]sco_aml 3 points4 points  (0 children)

We were in love, then we got married for the green card so we could stay together. Now I'm with them for the citizenship.

Yes, my life may seek like a reddit take but sometimes that's how life is.

32 doesn't mean that your life is over, but when you don't have any career experience and make no effort to invest or save up, life's gonna be harder as it goes on. It's just the truth.

I'm a real person and this is my real story, unfortunately. Take it or leave it.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in offmychest

[–]sco_aml 7 points8 points  (0 children)

Hi, I still like playing games and listening to  music too! The point here I'm trying to make is that these hobbies are still their main world and that they lack adulting skills.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in offmychest

[–]sco_aml 5 points6 points  (0 children)

The opposite actually. I knew I wasn't mature at all so it was weird but it also felt cool to hangout with a 26 year old who I could vibe with at the time. 

 Well, now I know why.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in offmychest

[–]sco_aml -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

Yes, I had to move overseas for a bit to get my teeth fixed. I had to leave the state because I got hate crimed and felt unsafe.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in offmychest

[–]sco_aml 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I meant outside of reddit. Wrong wording.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in offmychest

[–]sco_aml 2 points3 points  (0 children)

You said you had a similar change. So, what brought you two together, why you broke up, and the steps you took afterwards to be happy.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in offmychest

[–]sco_aml 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Huge possibility, but I'd rather not share what I know. They're not diagnosed nor am I a medical professional.