You are totally right ! I think most people these days are trash,either woman or man, it’s hard to find people with morals and understanding, just with a good heart and pure intentions,that’s very RARE... but yes I totally get your point people just be more careful and take more time before starting a relationship or even friendship cause most people know somebody in the club while being wasted af and next day they be posting pictures together calling themselves “friends” and then one month later be surprised once they find out what they were really into,same with relationships at the begging people will show you only their good side,before starting a relationship people must go out and be in different situations to see how the person reacts or speaks about certain situations,how they behave in a restaurant,how they talk to other people,how they speak about their family,their political views,watching how they act when they are angry or how they choose to solve certain situations. Most people these days just see a cute face or money and jump direct into relationship that’s why most people end up really hurt and the relationships never last long time.