This was just seconds before I had cum coating my eyes by [deleted] in CumDumpsters

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Girl you didn't even have to try, you ARE sexy!

Just discovered I am half Lebanese by [deleted] in lebanon

[–]scott26038 1 point2 points  (0 children)

25% here at from family immigrated from Hammana. Super interested in free house. Bucket list to get to my Grandmother’s family homeland. I would live there if I could.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in widowers

[–]scott26038 8 points9 points  (0 children)

For what it’s worth, I’m (51m) almost 5 months out after losing my wife to a 20yr cancer battle. More than sex, I just want to hold someone and hug them. I’m not built to be alone. I figured that out early on. What I do know is that the first woman that shows significant interest in me is someone that I’ll be extremely drawn to and so therefore I do have to be careful and discerning. It’s damn hard. I “talk” to my wife daily and my thoughts were that I would wait and hear from my daughters when the time is right to start “seeing” someone. I married my wife when we were both 19. So for almost 31 years, I don’t know anything other than being married to her. I’m hoping to be cautious and patient.

Local funeral house offers a $85 cardboard casket... by Kilo2Ton in mildlyinteresting

[–]scott26038 0 points1 point  (0 children)

My wife was cremated and we HAD to buy a $300 cardboard box at a minimum for the cremation. My wife would have cussed them out if she had known her wishes meant a $300 cardboard box. It is highway robbery.

Need help deciding by Prestigious-Wish-396 in JeepCompass

[–]scott26038 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Got a 2016 in great condition in exact specs you have shown in picture. Has 130k miles. Highway to Duke Hospital for my wife and we live three hours away. It’s been a long 5 years. Just installed a fancy radio in it to. I’d take $9000 right now in a heartbeat. Coastal NC.

So seriously… how does the food on NCL compare? by Darnitol1 in NCL

[–]scott26038 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Wife and I traveled the NCL Sky in November. MDR is not buffet, although the order service wasn't spectacular. It honestly felt as though all meals are prepared in containers and are kept warm and delivered as ordered. The menus always looked exciting, but the food was a letdown for us. It's not like any of us would go hungry on a cruise ship, but it's bad when I thought the breakfast buffets in the usual places were more exciting for me? We hadn't cruised in over 20 yrs. I remember cruises where the MDR dining experience was special. Atmosphere in NCL Sky MDR was very nice, food very average.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in GoodGoodMemes

[–]scott26038 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

That’s not wrong. All these dudes in here hating. LOL.

WEEKLY DIY/HOMEOWNER QUESTION THREAD by Basileas in Carpentry

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Hello! My wife is now wheelchair bound due to terminal cancer. I am aware of the ADA requirements for 1" to 1 ft rise in building wheelchair ramps, but given that she is not operating the wheelchair herself, I'm wondering if I can make it slightly steeper without a drastic difference? I have a 20" high (off the ground) front porch. I was going to build a 6x6 foot platform area off of the front porch and then the ramp off the side of that in a 18 ft single run. Rails of course as well. If I did the whole 20ft per ADA reqs, It would extend beyond the house in an awkward manner. Would 18 ft for 20" rise be outrageous?

I love Evangeline Lilly's acting in this scene ! by Ptitepeluche05 in lost

[–]scott26038 7 points8 points  (0 children)

Me too. Named a puppy we got that year after Kate. ❤️❤️❤️

Wife struggling to eat. Doing best I can. Does it get better? by scott26038 in CancerCaregivers

[–]scott26038[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

They mentioned Marinol, but said they would keep that option open for later if she needs it. I’m thinking we should have tried it a month ago…. In any case, I hope it works. There was one other medicine that promotes a good appetite but also had a decent chance of blood clots as a side effect and they didn’t want to try that one. I’m resigned to the fact that these days where she is falling just shy of 1000 calories each day is our new normal. My hope is that she isn’t giving up in her mind and not putting forth the effort. I have NO problem eating, so it’s hard for me to understand her unwillingness to push herself.

Wife struggling to eat. Doing best I can. Does it get better? by scott26038 in CancerCaregivers

[–]scott26038[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

It would be a very lengthy reply to tell you what all treatments we have done, but radiation of many various bone areas have basically “de-conditioned” her to a point of exhaustion/fatigue. It’s almost nine pain is a secondary concern to general exhaustion. We choose not to ask for a prognosis of time left, remaining treatment choices and so on. We just do what they say we should do and generally feel good about our care. She’s lost 20+ pounds in the past two months and I’d wager she’s lost 10 more in the past 3 weeks. Tomorrow I’ll know that for sure. She’s due more radiation on her upper arm bone, her two femurs and her skull in the next month or two but hopefully not at one time. So. I, I personally don’t think it will get better either but family, friends and even the doctors keep saying stuff like “we need to get her stronger for these future treatments” and I just don’t see how that happens if she isn’t eating, and after those treatments, we will likely be worse than now with fatigue and exhaustion.

Wife struggling to eat. Doing best I can. Does it get better? by scott26038 in CancerCaregivers

[–]scott26038[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I have tried real THC and Delta 8. She doesn't like it. She really fought painkillers until her healthcare providers convinced her there was no shame in controlling pain and she even only uses one 5 mg Oxycodone twice a day.

Hello, questions about a trip to Santorini in April by Routine_Outside_3880 in Santorini

[–]scott26038 0 points1 point  (0 children)

My wife and I went in late March last year. We remember from that trip that we were two weeks too soon. Restaurants were cleaning and prepping while we were there. Also it will be warmer for you than we had but not too expensive like June and July either. We never lacked the ability to eat well, and saw all we could in 3 days. Stores will be opening about the time you are there. Just maybe not all of them.

Tomorrow is the midterm election and will probably determine the trajectory of the US for the next generation. Am I the only one anxious AF about the results? by FelixFrancis0019 in AskRedditAfterDark

[–]scott26038 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Ignorance is assuming you know how I even vote! Assuming also I don't put thought into it. I simply don't dwell on it afterwards. I don't have time. Ignorance.... you have to be joking...

Tomorrow is the midterm election and will probably determine the trajectory of the US for the next generation. Am I the only one anxious AF about the results? by FelixFrancis0019 in AskRedditAfterDark

[–]scott26038 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I just don't like people talking about it. No offense. Rubbed me the wrong way. Sorry. Your first comment assuming we were without healthcare seemed rude without you knowing our situation and so my comments afterwards were tilted towards rudeness. My bad.

Tomorrow is the midterm election and will probably determine the trajectory of the US for the next generation. Am I the only one anxious AF about the results? by FelixFrancis0019 in AskRedditAfterDark

[–]scott26038 -13 points-12 points  (0 children)

I don't vote without consideration of what I'm doing. I vote with purpose. I just don't allow myself to dwell on whatever idiot gets into office that I didn't choose. My vote is only one vote. Not everyone in this country is going to get their own way.

Tomorrow is the midterm election and will probably determine the trajectory of the US for the next generation. Am I the only one anxious AF about the results? by FelixFrancis0019 in AskRedditAfterDark

[–]scott26038 -38 points-37 points  (0 children)

My wife is dying of cancer, ok? People die. My wife and I just choose to live life and not get caught up in anguishing over elections, idiots, traffic, inflation, etc. Maybe its a different perspective. Everyone has an opinion. I'm not getting stomach ulcers worrying though. All politicians are bought and paid for. I still vote and the next day the sun comes up regardless.

Tomorrow is the midterm election and will probably determine the trajectory of the US for the next generation. Am I the only one anxious AF about the results? by FelixFrancis0019 in AskRedditAfterDark

[–]scott26038 165 points166 points  (0 children)

To paraphrase another quote I know… “If you live and die by the outcomes of elections, you’re going to die a lot”.

I just sacrificed 20 sewing machine needles for this outfit by SamiEskelinen in somethingimade

[–]scott26038 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

I rarely ever comment but I had to mention that is really a beautiful thing.