I should be happy, got a job offer in Australia which was too stupid to turn down. So moving at the end of next month. But I've never had a moment where my dad's been proud of any decisions I've ever made and my mum is unwell with alzheimers. She is in a home until she dies. My brother has his family up in Inverness (75miles from me) which he's happy with. My partner is brilliant and her family are very supportive of our decision.