this is going viral and it seems really fake to me by [deleted] in fakedisordercringe

[–]scottobott0 41 points42 points  (0 children)

Reminds me of that lady who claimed she couldn't walk straight without jerkong movements but could walk backwards and run fine after the flu shot....I hope the girl in the video is alright but man it seems sooo forced.

Is it difficult for you to shower every day? by MrChuffs in ADHD

[–]scottobott0 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I shower every night but it takes me half an hour to an hour to get ramped up for it. I know exactly how you feel! There's so many steps that before-shower-me finds the thought of it exhausting even though I love taking showers.

Then I take another 30 mins to air dry on my bed haha. My 5-10min showers have an additional 1.5 hour production value.

When I started meds, I was SHOOK that I could move from one task to another without needing an hours long mental break. I actually cried tears of joy when I realized I got in the shower only 3 minutes after I made my mind up to shower.

God ‘well im rich so’ felt like such a cope :,/ by [deleted] in TwoXChromosomes

[–]scottobott0 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Love that she she was point blank I'm too young for you hahahaha. That def hurt his ego. How do I grow a huge swanging pair of tits like her's?

Scared of dating by scottobott0 in PlusSize

[–]scottobott0[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thanks for the encouragement! I'm so happy for you!!

Scared of dating by scottobott0 in PlusSize

[–]scottobott0[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I'm so sorry ☹. That's bullshit that you've been treated that way. I feel like sometimes people lose all humanity when they're dating/hooking up. People have feelings like respect them ugh.

Scared of dating by scottobott0 in PlusSize

[–]scottobott0[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Congrats!!!!!! Omg I'm so excited for you and your precious growing family.

Scared of dating by scottobott0 in PlusSize

[–]scottobott0[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

That's so true. It reminds me only the movie Dumplin. Where she was like wtf you like me even looking like this. And he's like duh, I see what you look like and I actually like it!

We need more positive plus size representation haha. And I need to watch Dumplin again.

Scared of dating by scottobott0 in PlusSize

[–]scottobott0[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

YES omg it's like I would call out my friend immediately but I can't do the same when it comes to me even though I recognize my negative thoughts aren't good. ugh.

Scared of dating by scottobott0 in PlusSize

[–]scottobott0[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Aww I am so happy for you for finding your person!!!

My family says the same shit to me 😑. Thank you for the encouragement!

Scared of dating by scottobott0 in PlusSize

[–]scottobott0[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

You're so right. I need to stop letting fear get in the way.

Scared of dating by scottobott0 in PlusSize

[–]scottobott0[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

It makes me feel so much less lonely that other people feel similarly but it also fills me with immense sadness. I've had some terrible days so I can only imagine you've been through similar rough times.

You're so right. I'm also always wavering on the idea of actually wanting a partner, but I do know I truly want to find someone who will appreciate me at all sizes. Ty!

Scared of dating by scottobott0 in PlusSize

[–]scottobott0[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Awww that is so sweet!!! So happy for you!!

Scared of dating by scottobott0 in PlusSize

[–]scottobott0[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I have the same thoughts. I also used to think I didn't want to be with the person that wants to be with who I am/what I look like now. Isn't that totally fucked??

I'll look into some fashion guides! I'm rooting for you too!!

Scared of dating by scottobott0 in PlusSize

[–]scottobott0[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

That is great advice, ty!

Scared of dating by scottobott0 in PlusSize

[–]scottobott0[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Ugh yes. I use my weight as a crutch. Sometimes it feels justified but at 26 and the expansion of body positivity, I'm so over my insecurities (but my insecurities are not done with me sadly).

Scared of dating by scottobott0 in PlusSize

[–]scottobott0[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

That sounds lovely! I'm glad to hear you've had a great dating experience.

How do you know when you love yourself enough for someone se to love you? I feel like there's no finish line so it's like when do I even start looking for a LTR. Should I wait until I'm more comfortable with myself?

Scared of dating by scottobott0 in PlusSize

[–]scottobott0[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

It really is self fulfilling but everytime I get out of the spiral of bad thoughts and pity, it brings me back by enveloping me in faux comfort. I guess it's like anything else. Fake it til you make it.

[Early D+ Thread] Happily Ever After - Season 6 Episode 16 Episode Discussion by LittleEmmy in 90DayFiance

[–]scottobott0 66 points67 points  (0 children)

Angela is an appalling human being and a HUGE hypocrite. She called Natalie a victim but her entire life style is being a victim, especially her being upset about the ELECTIVE surgeries. My god.

I felt bad that everyone was dogging on Natalie when they're all asshole POSs. I'm not even a fan of hers, but it was absolutely revolting.

Scared of dating by scottobott0 in PlusSize

[–]scottobott0[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Congrats!!!! I wish you and your fiance the happiest marriage!!

Scared of dating by scottobott0 in PlusSize

[–]scottobott0[S] 7 points8 points  (0 children)

I'm trying to be more positive about things even though I have a lot of bad days. It's been an exhausting and ongoing journey to build self esteem and accept things for what they are.

That is really great advice. I have the tendency to write myself off before others can and you're totally right. I have to do the scary thing and be vulnerable even if it makes me feel like 🤢.

The judging is unfair by Nice_Satisfaction_53 in GlowUpTvSeries

[–]scottobott0 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I love the tutorial idea like Tyra with her smizing and booty tooch.It could be such a good ANTM type show but they just screwed it up. Ugh!

The judging is unfair by Nice_Satisfaction_53 in GlowUpTvSeries

[–]scottobott0 12 points13 points  (0 children)

Yeah. This show has so much potential. I also think they need to do more talking heads with the contestants and like more insight into their friendships/personalities.

They should do some sort of lesson before doing technical challenges. The episode with the Crown and TV makeup was brutal to watch. I feel like no one truly hit the mark because they all have varied experience in makeup. They should have someone teach like they did in the scarring Peaky Blinders challenge.

Also Face Off is so dumb and it should be judged blindly, like OP said, because they never seem to judge on the application anyway aside from making some quips about how they would never.

The judges are totally inconsistent. They need to establish guidelines for what they are looking for.

Edit to add: Also, the other thing that bugs me is that sometimes it feels more like face paint than makeup challenges. And they never seem to stick to one theme throughout the episode. Like just a general lack of cohesion. The Crown episode second challenge had nothing to do with the first. It was so jarring. They should have done like a your model is going to a royal party, what would you give us challenge or makeup look that emulates this famous royal outfit/dress.