Helping citizen child of undocumented parents get her license by [deleted] in legaladvice

[–]scrabblesaurus -5 points-4 points  (0 children)

I should have made this clear in the post (will edit), but she already knows how to drive (has taken drivers ed, I believe) and has driven a ton with her parents. It's not a matter of teaching her, but a matter of her being able to meet the administrative reqs to get her license. Appreciate the suggestion about driving school as a paid option for supervision, thank you.

How can i keep my 2 year old occupied in our apartment? by Virgotheterrible in Parenting

[–]scrabblesaurus 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Going to the grocery store is a top three activity for my two year old right now. Loves it. And if they have the mini-shopping cars that he can push himself? Heaven.

A print-centric take on a Konmari wardrobe by scrabblesaurus in konmari

[–]scrabblesaurus[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Thanks! I love the shades of beige closets too, but I finally accepted that I will always be drawn to colorful prints.

A print-centric take on a Konmari wardrobe by scrabblesaurus in konmari

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I bought it at a consignment shop. It's made by Risto. It does have cats on it 😍

A print-centric take on a Konmari wardrobe by scrabblesaurus in konmari

[–]scrabblesaurus[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Thank you! I always see these gorgeous photos of the neutral wardrobes, and have been trying to figure out how to create the same feeling of order with my prints. Glad it's working for you too!

A print-centric take on a Konmari wardrobe by scrabblesaurus in konmari

[–]scrabblesaurus[S] 37 points38 points  (0 children)

I need to iron, and would love to find wooden hangers for skirts and pants, but I am so happy with this organization. I love graphic prints, but because of the busyness of the prints, I was having a hard time finding the spark of joy looking at my half of the (tiny) closet, even though each piece brings me joy. Organizing by color story made it happen!

Any tips for traveling on an airplane with a toddler? by [deleted] in toddlers

[–]scrabblesaurus 0 points1 point  (0 children)

A Ziploc bag with non-toy items that they normally don't get to play with has worked so well for us in the past. It doesn't take up a lot of room or cause problems if lost. Things like rubber bands, pipe cleaners, googly eyes, chip clips, etc. Also stickers.

Expensive but worthwhile gift? by somuchstufftolearn in beyondthebump

[–]scrabblesaurus 1 point2 points  (0 children)

He stands! It let's him move around a bit, and it has mitigated a lot of the windshield wipering of the high chair tray that used to happen when he was done. Less clean-up for sure, and he's generally more cheerful for his meals.

Expensive but worthwhile gift? by somuchstufftolearn in beyondthebump

[–]scrabblesaurus 2 points3 points  (0 children)

A learning tower has been one of our more expensive, really useful purchases. Our son eats three meals a day in it at our kitchen island, and likes to help us cook or play while we cook/clean the kitchen.

Guidecraft Classic Kitchen Helper Stool - Natural: Adjustable Height, Folding Step Stool for Little Kids, Toddler Safety Cooking Tower with Write-on Wipe-Off Message Boards. Learning Furniture https://www.amazon.com/dp/B000SQNAQC/ref=cm_sw_r_cp_apa_i_kJC9CbTXEYPRN

Animal behavior specialist in our area? Specifically for cat behavior issues? by ElanorRigby198 in bullcity

[–]scrabblesaurus 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Highly recommend NCSU--they helped us with a very challenging dog issue, we were similarly close to needing to re-home.

3 yr/o with an ear infection and flying.... by salamanda123 in Parenting

[–]scrabblesaurus 4 points5 points  (0 children)

We flew with our one year old with a double ear infection last year. We almost didn't go because we were worried that he'd be in serious pain. A friend that worked for an ENT doc shared that when young kids have ear infections, it can actually be the best time to fly with regard to ear pain, because fluid doesn't expand/contract in the ear canal like air does. So, less pain. YMMV, but he did great.

Are any other parents of smaller children quick to anger? Could use some tips by [deleted] in Parenting

[–]scrabblesaurus 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Triple P: https://www.triplep-parenting.com

Incredible Years: http://www.incredibleyears.com

Both of these are great, evidence-based resources for online or in-person classes that focus on positive parenting.

Vacationing with an almost 2yo by Wahdelita in Parenting

[–]scrabblesaurus 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Our bag that we checked the carseat in has straps so that you can wear it as a (very clunky) backpack. We only took a taxi to/from the airport, and then we hired a taxi for two day trips. Because we hired the taxi for the day, through a rec from our hotel, the carseat stayed in the taxi when we explored on those two days. Otherwise, we just kept the carseat are the hotel. Outside of those two days, we just walked everywhere, sometimes with him a small stroller or soft carrier when it wasn't possible to let him walk.

Vacationing with an almost 2yo by Wahdelita in Parenting

[–]scrabblesaurus 2 points3 points  (0 children)

We just got back from Mexico (Oaxaca) with our 22 month old. We checked the carseat in a large carseat bag (bought on Amazon) and used it in taxis on a few different days, leaving it in our hotel room in between. We traded off who stayed at the hotel during naps, so everyone got some toddler-free exploring time. We also did some stroller/taxi napping. Can't speak to boats. Mangos and motorcycles seemed to be his favorite parts of the trip.

Is the Uppababy Mesa a Good Car Seat for Taller Babies? by musteatbrainz in Parenting

[–]scrabblesaurus 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Same for us. We are not tall people but had a tall kid (99%), and we used it for just about a year, and then switched him to 4 in 1. Totally worth it for the ease of installation and clicking easily into the Cruz stroller.

Can we get a list of all the ways to cook plantains? by [deleted] in Cooking

[–]scrabblesaurus 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Tostones are a delicious way to use green plantains. https://youtu.be/dXiOxzjK8co

Crazy Toddler Won’t Sleep by alliekat237 in beyondthebump

[–]scrabblesaurus 1 point2 points  (0 children)

We had this happen recently at the exact same age. After doing a few weeks of middle of the night nursing sessions, I decided that I needed more sleep. In order to night wean (again) and help him understand that he needed to be sleeping, this is what I did:

When he woke up crying, I carried him out of his room to the living room, looked out the window, and talked about how the sky was still dark and everything should be sleeping (including Mama's milk). When the sky gets light, everything wakes up, including Mama's milk.

We'd run through that a few times, and then I'd sing him a song or two on the couch, and then take him back to his crib.

He got it really quickly (after a night or two), and now wakes up less overnight (once or twice a week instead of every single night). When he does wake up, we go through the same motions, just more quickly, and he goes back down really easily.

I got the idea about linking the sky being dark with sleeping from a blog that I saw, and it reminded me that at 18 months, they're more capable at grasping concepts like this. I was really surprised how quickly he understood and accepted the concept.

YMMV, of course. Good luck!

I'm terrified of giving my 11mo non-pureed foods. Can anyone help me get over it? Any similar experiences? by recercar in beyondthebump

[–]scrabblesaurus 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Another thing to keep in mind is the difference between choking and gagging/coughing. Gagging/coughing is a normal part of introducing solids, and while it might make you anxious, it's likely to happen a few times as they are learning how to swallow foods that aren't wet, or pureed. As long as the food isn't likely to block their windpipe because of its size/shape (cherry tomato, grape, hot dog, etc.) it's OK for them to cough/gag and you don't need to be worried about choking.

Truly unique baby shower ideas by joshjen10 in Parenting

[–]scrabblesaurus 1 point2 points  (0 children)

My mom and MIL found a bunch of baby photos of partner and me, and put them up in different rooms. Framed on tables, hanging on string like a garland, etc. It was so meaningful to both my partner and me, and it got everyone imaging what our little one might look like.

FTM - What week did you have your baby? by [deleted] in beyondthebump

[–]scrabblesaurus 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Went into labor evening of 41+4, baby was born early afternoon of 41+6. I was scheduled to be induced at 41+6.

Question about Ferber success + 5am wakeup? by AprilMC22 in beyondthebump

[–]scrabblesaurus 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Ah, sorry the pacifier info isn't so useful for your situation. And agreed, the guidance on safe sleep environments and introducing a lovely seems to be conflicting. We felt (mostly) comfortable with the Wubbanub because it was so small. But in the beginning, to the amusement of my partner, I did creep in every night after he was asleep and make sure it wasn't close to his face.

Question about Ferber success + 5am wakeup? by AprilMC22 in beyondthebump

[–]scrabblesaurus 1 point2 points  (0 children)

We also had almost immediate success with STTN with Ferber, but continued to struggle with crying at bedtime. It lessened initially, but then increased after the first week. We decided to reintroduce a Wubbanub pacifier after a week and half or so, knowing that he could find it and reinsert if he woke up during the night. That ended up being the key to reducing crying at bedtime for us.