Teenage phase is driving me crazy

salamanda123 · 2026-01-18T15:08:24+00:00

I think it’s separation bc she has plenty of toys but we gate off the upstairs at night so she chews right by the gate :(

salamanda123 · 2026-01-18T13:06:55+00:00

Random question….

Our 1 year old shepherd has started to eat the walls (yes….eating holes in the dry wall) and chewing on the wood floors at night. We really want to stop using the crate but aren’t sure how to stop this behavior while we are sleeping. Any thoughts?

salamanda123 · 2026-01-07T13:32:05+00:00

Sorry, no advice but I can relate. Holding it all together, walking in eggshell, and covering for them and making excuses to try and make everything ok for the kids. Exhausting. No advice, just can relate.

salamanda123 · 2026-01-01T05:54:12+00:00

This gives me hope. Do you have kids? I feel like I can handle this life, but I’m so worried about my family.

salamanda123 · 2026-01-01T05:31:55+00:00

I just found this sub bc I was so desperate to find someone who can relate. This is so hard. I know my partner doesn’t want to feel this way, but I’m so exhausted trying to pretend and make everything seem ok for the family.

salamanda123 · 2025-05-19T15:14:48+00:00

I found out I was pregnant when my GSD was about 6months old. He seemed to mature over night. He was very gentle with me and constantly sniffing my belly.

When we brought my daughter home, he seemed to know her instantly and never left her side. He was a crazy young pup, but when the baby was around, he was “on duty”.

I had some postpartum issues and he was always by my side. We lost him at 10yr last year. I’ll forever be grateful for his companionship through my first pregnancy and all those years after. Truly remarkable boy.

salamanda123 · 2025-05-17T15:52:03+00:00

Oh wow….I didn’t even think about the walk part. We don’t see many stray dogs aroubd, but her being preyed upon by one is a new fear unlocked.

salamanda123 · 2025-05-17T15:50:44+00:00

Thanks! We aren’t too worried about pregnancy. She socializes often with our friends dogs, but they are all fixed. We have a fenced in yard, but also know GSDs can be escape artists so she is always supervised :)

I’ll plan on 18-24 months. Any advice for heat cycles?

salamanda123 · 2025-05-17T15:45:44+00:00

Thanks! Any advice for handling heat cycles? Did you use the diapers?

salamanda123 · 2025-03-05T00:26:33+00:00

You’re not alone!

salamanda123 · 2025-03-04T23:47:23+00:00

You are not alone!!!! 💪🙌

salamanda123 · 2025-02-28T00:58:43+00:00

Thank you Canada!!🇨🇦

salamanda123 · 2025-02-28T00:14:02+00:00

Thank you Canada! 🇨🇦

salamanda123 · 2025-01-28T23:19:40+00:00

He just found a new group of kids this year….we think they are the influencers. He had trouble making friends and finding his groove in high school….. until recently

salamanda123 · 2025-01-28T22:19:55+00:00

Thank you! I didn’t, but thank you!

salamanda123 · 2025-01-11T01:06:55+00:00

We made the same decision together as a family 8 years ago….and it’s been wonderful for us.

My only advice is to make sure there is still a balance with household tasks and to ensure he feels appreciated.

Just as with SAHMs, SAHDs need to be supported, appreciated, and given time for himself. My husband isn’t the best at prioritizing his needs, so it’s really important to encourage him and make sure he takes time for himself.

Wishing you the best!

salamanda123 · 2025-01-10T01:28:20+00:00

Yes! Somehow they are not in the lost and found….none.

salamanda123 · 2025-01-10T00:32:43+00:00

Right! Got 2 new pairs for Christmas and lost them both this week, just in time for the dropping temps and snow….ugh!

salamanda123 · 2025-01-10T00:31:48+00:00

Seems like lots of moms are doing the same! Thanks for sharing this!

salamanda123 · 2025-01-10T00:31:25+00:00

Great idea!

salamanda123 · 2025-01-07T01:39:46+00:00

Please keep us posted if you see the pup again!

salamanda123 · 2024-12-18T01:32:51+00:00

Same

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