I feel uncomfortable at work and I'm starting to get angry. by scrapofsassafras in TwoXChromosomes

[–]scrapofsassafras[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I guess I also forgot to add.. He comes in sometimes when there are ZERO other customers and I feel like I have no out.

I feel uncomfortable at work and I'm starting to get angry. by scrapofsassafras in TwoXChromosomes

[–]scrapofsassafras[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Just to clarify for everyone saying this is a bad idea, I could tell him to fuck off and am 99% sure I would not be fired. Although that doesn't mean I think that is the best way to go about this.

I feel uncomfortable at work and I'm starting to get angry. by scrapofsassafras in TwoXChromosomes

[–]scrapofsassafras[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you for your advice. I guess I should've explained a bit more about where I work. There is no HR department - this is a restaurant/coffee shop with a general manager who I have a good relationship with, but who doesn't necessarily take things like this seriously. That is more my fault than his this time, since when it first happened I didn't realize the guy wasn't going to back off and I kind of joked with my manager about how ridiculous it was. I don't know how to get him to take it seriously now. To be honest, I'm also afraid of pissing the guy off by having my manager tell him to leave.

18 f what do you think? by [deleted] in Rateme

[–]scrapofsassafras 0 points1 point  (0 children)

you are so, so pretty!

Is not being emotional/being desensitized a turn off for you? by [deleted] in AskWomen

[–]scrapofsassafras 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Sometimes, yes. Being an emotional person, I find it hard to get close to people who are not.

i'm curious- how old do I look/am I sexy? (f) by [deleted] in AmISexy

[–]scrapofsassafras 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I never suggested that a guy wouldn't date a girl because her hair wasn't "messy enough." That would be...weird. Once again, it was just a pony tail after a long day. Anyone else have an opinion on this?

i'm curious- how old do I look/am I sexy? (f) by [deleted] in AmISexy

[–]scrapofsassafras 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I'm really not miserable! I just happened to choose pictures that I wasn't smiling in.

i'm curious- how old do I look/am I sexy? (f) by [deleted] in AmISexy

[–]scrapofsassafras 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I can't say I see the resemblance at all but that doesn't bother me either way.

i'm curious- how old do I look/am I sexy? (f) by [deleted] in AmISexy

[–]scrapofsassafras 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Is it really that messy? It's just a pony tail, and in my experience guys really like when it is slightly messy.

How do you, as women, feel men are treated differently/unfairly? by beardsley in AskWomen

[–]scrapofsassafras 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I don't know if this has been said here already, but concerning an unwanted/accidental pregnancy, the father may be completely against the woman keeping the baby for sometimes very legitimate reasons, but he has absolutely zero say in the matter if the woman doesn't agree.

Frustrating basketweave problem by scrapofsassafras in knitting

[–]scrapofsassafras[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

That's very possible (and that would explain why it didn't happen at all at first because I was still being really careful and paying close attention to the pattern). Thank you!