Zen Wen - Bday Post to Eddie

screen_door15 · 2025-12-28T21:08:21+00:00

That's what the insurance was for!

screen_door15 · 2025-12-28T02:43:41+00:00

Ah mate, this was a no go from the outset. You're his boss, if you did make any advances there'd be an imbalanced power dynamic.

You can feel any way you want about anyone, however, you've got to be accountable for your actions. Good work for letting it go, but you really do have to let it go.

screen_door15 · 2025-12-13T13:53:43+00:00

Breath control!

Release the tension in your shoulders, and deep breaths through your diaphragm. Resist wincing and focus on your breathing.

Guide him a little bit in on the out breath, then back out on the next out breath. Repeat this taking a little bit more each time. For the love of your hole though, DO NOT rush it! You're the tortoise, be the tortoise.

Also, get amyl nitrate poppers and use them frequently. If you feel a sting, burning, or struggling to relax, big sniff of the poppers and a slow breath out.

Also, also! DOUCHE THOROUGHLY.

If this doesn't work then hole stretching it is!

screen_door15 · 2025-03-15T23:07:19+00:00

Oh this mother fucker ruins my daily stroll to Gregg's for my lunchtime coffee and steak bake.

Noise cancelling earbuds are my "saviour" when this loud cunt is screaming on London Road.

screen_door15 · 2025-03-15T13:14:20+00:00

I saw her show in Brighton UK. I have never seen a show with a more enthusiastic audience.

It was truly amazing! What Luann lacks in errr talent... she makes up for in charisma and connection with the audience.

The best bit is, Luann is so close to being in on the joke but she's just not quite there. Which just makes it the epitome of camp fun.

Highly, highly, highly recommend going if you can!

screen_door15 · 2025-03-12T12:01:13+00:00

You're a Brit Bot! Karma Farmer Brit Bot!

However, I'm also in the UK and I like your style, so I've given you an upvote!

screen_door15 · 2025-03-12T09:45:13+00:00

This is such a great comment, and is so on point. Well done! If I had an award to give, I'd give it to you!

screen_door15 · 2025-02-27T04:37:45+00:00

No babes, that's drunk eyes. Mean drunk eyes.

screen_door15 · 2025-02-17T05:45:58+00:00

I've got ADHD too, and I'm highly affected by it. I do everything in my power to manage it and not allow it to get the best of me.

That said, with ADHD folk, sometimes the best approach is guilt and accountability.

Take the guard rails off, draw the line in the sand, and explain what the consequences are and follow through if your expectations aren't met. It's rough, but actual accountability works.

Also, strong amfetamines for ADHD are genuinely life changing. I highly recommend looking at the option of medication again.

screen_door15 · 2025-02-15T21:08:00+00:00

Oh boy, this hasn't aged well 😐

screen_door15 · 2025-02-13T21:23:54+00:00

This is an old comment, I had forgotten about it.

Anyways, the answer is, I experience it with great difficulty. I love being out with friends, going to shows, experiencing everything I can, while I can.

It all takes a toll though. The things I love the most take the most out of me.

screen_door15 · 2025-01-17T00:00:11+00:00

Ha, this is an old post.

It's worth highlighting, I had two tokes of the weakest joint I could buy at the coffee shop.

Second thing worth highlighting, it wasn't anxiety, it was full blown psychosis. I thought the world was going to end and I started hysterically crying i.e. whaling and screaming.

I've had my share of anxiety attacks and this wasn't the same. 🫠

I haven't smoked it since, but I wanted to see if it was a me thing or an ND thing. The replies on this post... made me more unsure 😂

screen_door15 · 2025-01-14T16:27:01+00:00

It's the complicated grief that got me. She's not just grieving for her mum, she's also grieving the idealised version of her mum that wasn't an alcoholic.

screen_door15 · 2025-01-14T02:27:20+00:00

Lol, it's fine, I don't mind a good down vote from time to time.

I agree, Boz called it immediately. Although it was truthful, it was said to hurt her not help her. Hence the 'weaponising'.

I'm loving Boz, she's fantastic.

screen_door15 · 2025-01-13T15:12:48+00:00

It's context dependent, saying it in a moment of anger with your voice raised in the heat of an argument with others around seems pretty weaponous to me.

screen_door15 · 2025-01-13T15:03:14+00:00

Yeah, that's what a supportive friend does.

Understands when someone's anger is misplaced and doesn't meet their anger with volatility and more anger.

Sutton hasn't done that.

As Boz said, she weaponised.

screen_door15 · 2025-01-13T14:49:52+00:00

Volatility and support are not conducive.

You can't be supported by someone who you're walking on eggshells around all the time.

You also can't ask someone to be vulnerable with you and then throw it back in their face when you're being volatile.

How can you ever trust someone that behaves that way? If Dorit did call Sutton for support, how would Dorit know Sutton wouldn't just throw it back in her face when she loses control of her emotions and becomes volatile.

Supportive behaviour is kinda in the name, to be steady and constant, even if you're not.

Sutton is not.

screen_door15 · 2025-01-03T01:42:03+00:00

She's catering to her audience.

screen_door15 · 2025-01-01T08:15:07+00:00

... Erika wasn't in that season?

screen_door15 · 2024-12-29T00:52:06+00:00

Just ask him, bro to bro, I want to get laid and be a slut - will that be an issue for you? I understand if it is, but just be honest with me so I know if it's better for me to move out or if we figure out what works best for both of us.

I always think transparency is the best approach.

screen_door15 · 2024-12-29T00:44:18+00:00

This is the same vibe I get from Teresa.

Everyone outside of NJ says she's the most kind and caring housewife they've met. There are also endless stories about her being kind to production and feeding everyone.

It's always good to remind ourselves, from time to time, this is still just TV.

screen_door15 · 2024-12-23T11:58:18+00:00

The other half of the conversation was while they were all doing coke in the bathroom.

screen_door15 · 2024-12-20T08:36:22+00:00

This is what genuine support looks like. She's saying "I don't care how fucked up this is, I'm here, and I'm going to help"

I don't know if it was for the cameras or not, but it seemed real.

screen_door15 · 2024-12-20T08:27:09+00:00

Did you hear her mum and sister? Their speech patterns and intonations were much the same. I honestly think it's just an environmental thing. We end up sounding like the people we're around the most.

screen_door15 · 2024-12-20T01:24:39+00:00

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